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Wouldn't be a bad idea to apologize and make your intentions clear. Based off of your story I THINK she might be feeling conflicted because she thought your relationship was just as friends at the core. Let her know you'd still want her in your life even just as a friend (if that's what you really want that is), and let her make the next move. We don't choose who we fall for. And if she can't respect your feelings at the very least, then just move on
She had chosen this other guy over me. It’s just that I love her too much, to not care. I guess I have to let go of her hand, to make her understand that I have always been there for her. I thought she made it clear, but who knows what she’s thinking now?
@Asker what guy are you talking about? I'm with no guy at the moment... to be honest you rejected me.. you wanted friends with benefit but i want us to be something more then you rejected it and friendzoned yourself by saying you were ok with being just friends... what the hack is going on
I was prepared to say something else until I saw your response to another comment about her choosing another guy. This makes me feel like you’re misinterpreting her sadness for possibly just feeling bad that she clearly hurt your feelings, because I’m sure she cares a lot about you and you’re not talking to her anymore. In which case, I think you should at least clear the air. If keeping your distance helps you get over the rejection then no one can judge your healing process. However she shouldn’t have to feel guilty and bad for choosing someone else, especially if she already had something going with him. So to spare her feelings, just let her know that everything is ok, that you’re ok and you wish her happiness.
Dude she chose another guy. What r u gunna do, be her friend while he’s dickn her down? That will fuck you up man.
You’re right. I can’t stand that. She didn’t choose me in the first place. Yet she still means so much to me. So I’ll let her be. Make herself deal with her own consequences.
There you go. Stick with that
I'll keep my truth and let you believe whatever & whoever you wanna believe in
neither you nor the people you're listening to know my side of the story. I won't force to keep explaining myself so its best I remove myself cause no matter what I do people will choose to believe whatever sides of the story they make up and want believe themselves, though it is not the truth its not my problem. Also for your lack of information I asked you out, you told me you weren't a good fit for me don't you think you were the one who rejected me? you always wanted friends with benefit but as a woman that was kinda inappropriate as I prefer for us to date but you declined, also there weren't any other man in my life, stop lying to this people... I'm sooo single and I have no man apart from you and neither am I a hoe to be sleeping around. Get facts right
@sasha67 omg scandelous!
Exactly... I don't have any man in my life because i love him sooo much, I am willing to wait for him and there is no guy in my past that is involved with me... i already have moved on from them and cut contact... because I want my relationship with the guy posting to work... he ignored me for 3 weeks now I'm tired of crying and waiting for his reply... he told me he is okay with being just friends when I told him i want him only and i rejected every other guy and he said i have to drop it because he wasn't a good fit for me... how do you think that made me feel and i told him not to open my heart of he has no intentions of loving it and if he really mean't it then i would give him another chance and he took it as i rejected him. Which i didn't i was just upset with his response
@sasha67 Yeah…. You’re not the girl I’m talking about. I never talked to her about being friends with benefits…. She knows that I only had real emotions for her. Plus, I never even talked to her about being friends in the first place. Your age is wrong too. You must be mistaken me for someone else.
@sasha67 You’re not her. Like I said, I never even thought of using her just for sex. She never asked me out too….
@sasha67 What letter does my name start with? Because she knows I wanted a relationship with her. I swear to god, my only intentions for her was to be with her by my side. It would kill me if she thought I only wanted her for sex….
@sasha67 Ok. Let me just be clear. My name starts with an “R.” You told me you had a boyfriend when I asked you out. If that doesn’t sound familiar, you’re not her.
@sasha67 Just tell me what it is then? It’s just an email address. Most that will happen to me is that I’ll get spam, so it doesn’t matter to me. Also, what’s your name?
I don’t think it’s you. You can’t even see my email address. I’m anonymous. Plus how did you get it in the first place? You never asked me out. Nor did I ever do anything to provoke that I wanted her for sex.
No matter how much you deny it... I won't force you to... plus i didn't mentioned anything about sex cause we didn't do anything like that so it seems like you do know the situation all along... friends with benefits that i mean is the fact that you want to enjoy the benefits of a relationship without a relationship... so don't worry I won't bother you with your life anymore, everytime you always deny everything inlcuding your love for me... so have a goodlife
@sasha67 post his name or email u fkn troll nobody believes u
@sasha67 I love her. I know it can’t be you because I only told her that I liked her. I never even got the chance to tell her that I love her.
@asker Thats true... he never said he loved me only sends me love songs, i assume that he might love me but I'm always confused... so the only time he told me that he liked was the first few days we started chatting... he told me he lowkey liked me and i kinda liked him too... but i only admitted that i love him, whenever i tell him that i love him he has never said it back, so i took that as a que maybe he doesn't love me and i was being ridiculous to assume that he did... which is why I'm still confused till now, coz in the internet i read that if a guy doesn't say it back it means he doesn't like you like that... which was why i got hurt, and him not talking to me for few weeks now proves that point, i thought i was being pushy, so i thought to keep my distance too, but i'm still waiting for him
I know he can be stubborn, but i don't want to disturb him unless he reaches out and wanna talk about it... cause i honestly didn't mean to reject him, i had sleep paralysis that morning and i lashed out on everyone and he chose that time and i took everything he said the wrong way but i really regretted it.
@sasha670 See, I knew you weren’t her. I never sent love songs to her. I never got her contact information because I was doing too much to make her fall for me, so I didn’t want to keep on pushing it. But what you feel is exactly what I’m feeling. I really can’t live without her too. I literally cry when I wake up in the mornings, because she’s the first thing on my mind. I don’t know how to move on from her. I was so certain we were meant to be together forever. And not talking to her kills me because I really don’t want to end things on that note….
I don't know.. i guess now that he is strong enough to survive on his own, he started being distant and is doing better without me... cause no text from him means he is okay i think... but as days goes by he is teaching me that he can go for weeks without me, so i have to learn to do that as well... even if it means crying all night i have to respect his decision if he wants to stay away from me... but one thing i won't do is beg for him to stay in my life if he doesn't want too...
@sasha670 I’m talking to her because she was crying, saying that she looking forward towards working with me more, but I put in my two weeks notice because I couldn’t just be friends. I can’t move on with my life if I still have to see her. She was my everything. Literally the only reason I stayed at that job, and when she rejected me, my world ended. And in my remaining shifts with her, I stopped talking because she was kind of ignoring me too. So I left it like that. Plus I realized that I was always the one to talk to her. So I let go of her hand to make her understand that I was always there for her. If she wants to talk to me anymore, it’s up to her. I stopped trying. But I never left. And if we never speak again, then that’s how things will end between us. I will keep her in my heart. I just wish her the best even though I’m dying from the inside.
I do make him feel like i ignore him, but most times i don't really mean it that way, i have this habit of texting and leaving my phone then go do something else, later i remember i had to reply... but sometimes I just feel the need to cut short our conversation because i thought that he might wanna go do something else because i understand he loves to work, and i wouldn't wanna disturb him or take up most of his time in a day.
We also work together especially with his studies... i always enjoyed his company and I really miss him so much. I woke up angry that morning because i had sleep paralysis and it changed my mood and i took whatever he said the wrong way... later that i'm fine again I realized what mistake i did... i was waiting for him, then i thought when he talks to me again i'll try and mend things, but i honestlly want him to tell me exactly how i might have hurt him so i can improve from it
Even if i message him i don't even know if he'll reply😥... i honestly can't wait another 3 weeks and no reply it literally breaks my heart... i can't even wait for a day without having extreme anxiety... but i want too text him, i don't know if he'll accept me or not cause I know he's angry... i really really wanna make it work this time.. i don't have any experience in this love field so i don't know what i should do honestly...
@sasha670 If you truly care about him. Admit your wrong doings and tell him the truth. I wish the girl I’m in love with did the same. However, I’m a hopeless case. She didn’t choose me…. And I’ll forever be saddened by that. But you still have a chance.
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Maybe she doesn't feel loved by you... or thinks that yu just want to be friends but she wants to date and she thinks you don't want to date her. I was also in her position a few years ago with a guy i loved he was 20 at that time. I thought he didn't want to date me since we have been talking for more than 8 months and he still hasn't asked me out and I thought maybe he just saw me as a friend and he was not ready for a relationship and neither did he said anything about having feelings for me... so i thought i should be just friends then he later hated that I left him and i came back to him but nothing changed he always confused me with his feelings acts like he wants me but withdraws when i show interest.
I remember I rejected this guy only because I didn't know him that well. And I was shy and scared. But I've had feelings for him for years. So you never know where this girl is even coming from. You said she chose another guy... is it because you didn't get to know her well enough.
Actually, you’re kind of right. But we were too shy around each other. So that’s why I asked her out, but she still picked that other guy because she knew him longer. We’re literally the same person, though. From what I known of her so far. It’s like we’re soulmates. She even told me that she loves me too, but that guy was in the way. I don’t know if she was just afraid, but I hate that she didn’t give me the chance to show her that we could’ve been together forever.
Aww that's so sad... give her some time I guess and try to be her friend and get to know her. I really think you guys could work. Just never pressure someone it's okay take it as a lesson learned but if she loves you that will never go away
I’m just so conflicted and sad. I cry when I know I’ll see her again. And it’s just hard to say anything to her now. Then a part of me is angry at her for not trusting me. After all the struggles I went through for her. It’s like I’m never good enough for her.
You dont know what's going through her mind. You're not a mind reader. To answer your question, yes... do apologize. But dont expect her to run into your arms. I don't know how she feels at the moment. Just let her know youd like to be friends and catch up sometime. Is she still with the guy?
She’s still with him, even though she’s like that with me. I don’t know if she’s regretting it? But a part of me doesn’t want to stay friends because of that guy. If wasn’t seeing him, then I’ll gladly be her friend.
:/ sorry I hope you figure something out
I don't know if she regrets it either. Probably... but if she really wanted to be with you shed at least... to me... reach out
@sasha67 hi sasha. Everything okay?
How is she gonna reject you and then feel bad about it? Yeah, it's a shame y'all don't talk anymore, but you don't have to take responsibility for that. If you feel that talking to her about it would help you with the guilt, go ahead, but don't assume responsibility or feel guilty for her feelings, you didn't cause them, that's her problem.
Why are you sad?
Because I still love her. I don’t like seeing her depressed. I just want her to be happy….
What exactly do you think will make her happy?
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