Should I apologise?

[Anonymous]

Over a month ago I was talking to someone again that I was once seeing, just friendly but I was also getting mixed signals. I’d asked him if he wanted to meet on friendly terms for a catch up. But he kind of dropped me telling me he’d met someone and wanted to see how it goes. Basically said that he didn’t want to see me as he didn’t feel it was fair.

I obviously understood, but naturally at the same time was so upset and hurt being dropped like that. Mainly because a week before we’d agreed to have a friendship with each other. So I just kind of reacted and told him I was hurt. Looking back now having had time to reflect, I wish I hadn’t. I feel like I come across as a horrible person in my message. I really hate the thought of anyone thinking badly of me.

So I’ve been debating whether or not to text him telling him I’m sorry, so that I can get peace of mind and move on as it’s playing on my mind. Or whether I just leave it.. what would you do?

[VIVANT]

No you do not owe him an apology. He jerked you around for no reason. A soon as he said he didn’t want to see you bc he met someone, you should realize he was playing games & using you as an emotional place holder, bc If he really wanted to be friend, it wouldn’t have altered who he met.

it’s not as if you showed up randomly hen he was trying to date someone. You guys aid agreed to be friends then he freaked out. He’s immature he will probably end up messing things up with this person. You’re better off without him- he would be a terrible friend. Leave him in the past. Sorry this mess disrupted your life.

[Guy13]

Push him away forever, why don’t you? He is not interested now. Follow his wishes. He doesn’t heed a Psycho case chasing him around. Respect his decision

[Midgetmcwidget]

Yes apologise