I have been seeing a guy for 5 months now. During these 5 months we literally text all day everyday on the days when we don't see each other. It's always just the way it has been so I am have gotten used to this consistency. I am normally quite an anxious person but one thing I liked about him was that he brought out a really chilled side of me because of how consistent he was. This past month however I have been sensing that something is off. His behaviour is so different to what it was in the beginning (he has been taking longer to reply, complimenting me less, doesn't send me meme's anymore etc. Also in person he is less affectionate) There have two instances this month where I have brought up an issue with him, and when I have he has insinuated that I am crazy and compared me to the "crazy women he is trying to avoid". The issues I have brought up have been to do with him ignoring me (I only brought it up because it is such a contrast from the way he normally acts, if it was the norm for all the months we've been texting then i obviously wouldn't have said anything). I had also discovered that he has blocked me from seeing his instagram story (I have not brought this up as I am scared of coming across as crazy). Since the change in behaviour I have been feeling really anxious and I feel like i am walking on eggshells to not come across as "crazy" or "paranoid". I have been very afraid to communicate any feelings I have. I am not the type of person to bring stuff up for no reason so when i do it is because it is something that is really bothering me. I've had a bad gut feeling the past week and the other night he completely ignored one of my texts so I sent him another one the next day asking if he wanted to hang out. He ignored this for the whole day so I decided just to send him a text just ending things because of the inconsistency. His reply was very mean and defensive and he's making me question if there was actually an issue. Have I made the right decision?
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Not knowing your exact words to him, I can't say whether you may have put him on the defensive, but his response took everything to a new level. His response of calling you crazy and being mean just let his true colors shine through. You have lost nothing. I understand the tendency to doubt ourselves when someone blames us, but there was nothing wrong with ending this situationship. You weren't seeing what you want to see, and there was no commitment, so there was no reason to continue to hang on and be frustrated. You don't need to watch a movie to the end, if you don't like what you are seeing.
Drop and Block him. He lost Interest. xxoo