Do you ever feel like you are not using your head and wasting time with someone you don't really see a future with?

[Anonymous]

I guess I am just lonely or something, but it's stupid, and now I've done things with this person I was not planning on, which makes it even worse than if we just kissed. Ugh. Stupid me for not using my brain. We were supposed to just get drinks and food and whatever yesterday, but she wanted to go somewhere private.. which of course was a recipe for doing something I really don't think I should've done. Also, since we both say we are Christian we should DEFINITELY have not been doing that. I mean she was at CHURCH before coming here. And I guess I maybe in some ways sort of attracted but also sort of not really that much.

[Avicenna]

Not really. I don't expect every girlfriend to be a lifelong partner.

[Anonymous]

yes I do that when im lonely. :( loneliness is a recipe to hurt urself and others. oftentimes id find someone in loneliness and when you are desperate you find other desperate low quality people. I fall in love somehow and end up hurting myself. Or I just be messing around with someone when they care about me :(. It's not good. Try to get out of it before she catches feelings.