
Guys, Aren't you Nervous Today in Finding a Date or Mate, That she is Perhaps a Transgender who had Surgery done?


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Ahh yes I know this question would arise. I'm no longer in the Menu, and my Woman I know is a woman because she gave birth to our baby. Not really an issue for me. If I was single, I'd be extremely careful of who I date.
If I was, would there be a polite way of asking?
I’m serious. If people are nervous about such a thing, what’s the best way to find out? They shouldn’t be blunt, but they shouldn’t wait until they’re in bed together either.
I don't date (I have an SO) but if I did, one of the first questions I would ask is about her upbringing. I wouldn't just bluntly ask if she's trans but I would exchange info with her about when each of us was young, and it would be fairly easy to recognize if she was a girl or a guy.
That is my worse nightmare. Go to a party, find someone pretty and interesting, start heavy making out and find out she has a dick or was born with a dick between their legs. Kind of like the scene in Ace Ventura Pet Detective and the Miami Dolphins
I’m engaged and my girl is 100% genuine!
I mean 99% of the time you can tell beforehand, but 100% you’d be able to tell it’s not a real vagina.
So these artificial ones have a terrible smell from what I’ve read. They also have to be dilated several times per day so it doesn’t heal, because the body of course thinks it’s a wound, which it technically is.
Especially breasts…the nipples I believe are fake, they’re gross looking…
But if you do find out it’s a trans…and you’re not wanting that, just politely distance yourself and then block before projectile vomiting at almost having sex with them.
Oh without a doubt haha
I guess I was thinking more in terms of a bar meet or something like that 🤣
I’m sure I’d taste the difference. 😏🤣
Ewwww noooo stop haha
Haha exactly
Nope. Honestly it negatively impacts women more. Now if you look fake at all, you'll probably just get ignored by many men. Fake boobs, too much make up, wrong body shape, etc. a guys is thinking probably just a tranny don't give them any attention. The most feminine women will still get attention, but average women now have to convince men in a glance that they aren't trannies. Men will just discriminate more heavily due to all the deception which will push more harsh standards to be naturally beautiful.
reasons i'm not nervous.
1. I'm out of the dating market, I gave up a decade ago trying to find a life partner.
2. I can smell it. castrated men just don't smell the same as genuine females.
3. body and bone, I'm a martial artist... there is a lot of skeletal give aways on someone being male. the hardest to hide is cranium, feet, hands, hips and length of the back.
ok. maybe a female could have some of these but... it doesn't take long from that to get suspicious and then i just need to be within 1 meter to know for sure, see reason number 2.
I'm a big boy, I can handle it when my partner turns out to not be compatible with me. That's why we get to know each other before getting married or having a baby together, to see if we will work and get on well. That's what dating is for.
Besides, there's way worse things to find out about a partner than that she's a trans woman. I was WAY more upset to find out an ex of mine was a sex offender, and yeah that made me nervous finding new dates for a while. Sex offenders look just like anybody else—but they're bad and gross. What if I accidentally dated another? What if things got more serious than last time before I found out?
But I didn't wanna stay single forever so ultimately, I just took more time to get to know a person and asked a couple strategic/subtle questions to play it safe before getting physical at all. It's still a risk, but there's always risk. That's part of life. You just have to draw your line somewhere and walk it.
Yes. Way too much.
I tend to go for athletic women. I have never seen an athletic trans that could pass as a real woman, and the very VERY VERY few trans I've seen pictures of that looked like they could pass as women (until you saw their vagina) also looked like they considered a hard workout picking up the bag of groceries, so I'm just not really worried about that. Especially with the low frequency of transexuals overall.
At an absolute minimum... and truly it is a minimum of the reasons... she's hardly my idea of "athletic" :P
Paris, is that you in the picture?
When I was a cab driver people were always trying to fuck with me. You learn how to deal with it.
Dumbshit: Do you accept counterfeit money?
Scissors: It depends on the quality.
I hate the trans shit, but it's a fad that won't go away anytime soon.
I looked on your page and you're a hot tamale. I don't know how to answer your question. I've been to Thailand many times, and the Gringos told me to watch out for the "girls" with big hands. Words of wisdom!
You look amazing. You will soon have to go into hiding, because all the other women will have big hands and husky voices.
The Japanese saw this coming years ago. When they get the price down to $5,000. I'm going to marry a sex bot. (with small hands)
I reckon trans existed for quite a while. Gender dysphoria is indeed real.
@HippieVeganJewslim
I'm not sure that was her question.
I want the real deal.
Hmm, that would be an interesting discovery. What would really suck is if I developed feelings for the girl, and later found out she wasn't who I thought! Lol. I dunno if the person is kind and caring, it may not even matter to me because of whats on the inside. I've never had a romantic attraction for a guy l, so I'm not sure what I'd do. You've got me stumped!
I just don't date. I'm content being single. I am celibate so no want for having kids and I don't want to ever get married either so I have no reason to worry about finding a partner who could end up being someone with a dick, a dress, and a mental disorder
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