Guys, Aren't you Nervous Today in Finding a Date or Mate, That she is Perhaps a Transgender who had Surgery done?

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JohnSmityJohnson · Accepted Answer

Ahh yes I know this question would arise. I'm no longer in the Menu, and my Woman I know is a woman because she gave birth to our baby. Not really an issue for me. If I was single, I'd be extremely careful of who I date.

clampfan101 · Accepted Answer

If I was, would there be a polite way of asking?

AviatorTom · Answer

I don't date (I have an SO) but if I did, one of the first questions I would ask is about her upbringing. I wouldn't just bluntly ask if she's trans but I would exchange info with her about when each of us was young, and it would be fairly easy to recognize if she was a girl or a guy.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I’m engaged and my girl is 100% genuine!

BigRed1987 · Answer

I mean 99% of the time you can tell beforehand, but 100% you’d be able to tell it’s not a real vagina.

So these artificial ones have a terrible smell from what I’ve read. They also have to be dilated several times per day so it doesn’t heal, because the body of course thinks it’s a wound, which it technically is.

Especially breasts…the nipples I believe are fake, they’re gross looking…
But if you do find out it’s a trans…and you’re not wanting that, just politely distance yourself and then block before projectile vomiting at almost having sex with them.

BeetleBro2000 · Answer

I'm a big boy, I can handle it when my partner turns out to not be compatible with me. That's why we get to know each other before getting married or having a baby together, to see if we will work and get on well. That's what dating is for.

Besides, there's way worse things to find out about a partner than that she's a trans woman. I was WAY more upset to find out an ex of mine was a sex offender, and yeah that made me nervous finding new dates for a while. Sex offenders look just like anybody else—but they're bad and gross. What if I accidentally dated another? What if things got more serious than last time before I found out?

But I didn't wanna stay single forever so ultimately, I just took more time to get to know a person and asked a couple strategic/subtle questions to play it safe before getting physical at all. It's still a risk, but there's always risk. That's part of life. You just have to draw your line somewhere and walk it.

rigmarole · Answer

Nope. Honestly it negatively impacts women more. Now if you look fake at all, you'll probably just get ignored by many men. Fake boobs, too much make up, wrong body shape, etc. a guys is thinking probably just a tranny don't give them any attention. The most feminine women will still get attention, but average women now have to convince men in a glance that they aren't trannies. Men will just discriminate more heavily due to all the deception which will push more harsh standards to be naturally beautiful.

CatVader · Answer

reasons i'm not nervous.
1. I'm out of the dating market, I gave up a decade ago trying to find a life partner.
2. I can smell it. castrated men just don't smell the same as genuine females.
3. body and bone, I'm a martial artist... there is a lot of skeletal give aways on someone being male. the hardest to hide is cranium, feet, hands, hips and length of the back.
ok. maybe a female could have some of these but... it doesn't take long from that to get suspicious and then i just need to be within 1 meter to know for sure, see reason number 2.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

I tend to go for athletic women. I have never seen an athletic trans that could pass as a real woman, and the very VERY VERY few trans I've seen pictures of that looked like they could pass as women (until you saw their vagina) also looked like they considered a hard workout picking up the bag of groceries, so I'm just not really worried about that. Especially with the low frequency of transexuals overall.

ScisorsAndRaisins · Answer

Paris, is that you in the picture?

When I was a cab driver people were always trying to fuck with me. You learn how to deal with it.

Dumbshit: Do you accept counterfeit money?

Scissors: It depends on the quality.

I hate the trans shit, but it's a fad that won't go away anytime soon.

Leapfrog00 · Answer

Hmm, that would be an interesting discovery. What would really suck is if I developed feelings for the girl, and later found out she wasn't who I thought! Lol. I dunno if the person is kind and caring, it may not even matter to me because of whats on the inside. I've never had a romantic attraction for a guy l, so I'm not sure what I'd do. You've got me stumped!

SolitarySolace · Answer

I just don't date. I'm content being single. I am celibate so no want for having kids and I don't want to ever get married either so I have no reason to worry about finding a partner who could end up being someone with a dick, a dress, and a mental disorder

FunkyMonkee · Answer

As opposed to one that HASN'T had surgery done?
In the first place, I generally know what to look for and, secondly, they tell you up front because they don't want to deal with a broken heart, either, if a guy finds out and then breaks up with her and it'd keep them from getting hurt or killed if the guy finds out after he's emotionally involved and gets pissed about it.

Jersey2 · Answer

That needs to be disclosed upfront. That is too big to hide and it will come out and destroy any relationship as relationships are built on trust. A lot of guys have put that they are un search of a biological woman in their online dating profiles.

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

Nope, my sense of smell is very potent

I can tell by scent

a biological woman’s natural scent is sweet and pleasant even when she hasn’t showered or is a little sweaty or musty she still smells better than a man

just a hint of a masculine scent will turn me off and make me angry because dudes stink

Also women menstruate 🩸 and I can smell that too

nik0102 · Answer

A friend of mine hooked with a Trans woman, thinking she was a cis woman. He actually came in her mouth, before knowing. Everything we have this conversation I argue that he did like the entire act, it was pleasurable and was fine with ejaculation. All of that thinking she was a cis woman. My point is, if you can be fooled, and enjoy it, why not just enjoy it

exitseven · Answer

I am glad I am through with dating. There is enough to worry about if she was a liberal especially I'm this crazy state. Imagine if she? Was a tranny too? Although the jury is out on which would be worse.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Thats why always have to get gynechologist report and psych analysis before first date. 😂

OfMiceandMen · Answer

No, I figure most transgender people would be forthcoming about this. I am sure they don't want to waste time with a person that may not be amenable to their gender.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

No, not at all; it's really easy to distinguish between the two. It's especially easy in person. Biological women look totally different from transwomen.

Lionman95 · Answer

Yes sometimes I am since that would mean that I´m dating a guy. So I try to sort out trans people from my dating choices.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

By mate, meanst Thou a friend/pal? I couldn’t care less if my date/mate would be trans. I could date/make mates with almost any kind of people. It’s just hard to find a compatible mate these days.

HighValue · Answer

They should expect violence at the very least, and possible death depending on what they tricked me into doing.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Not really, because even if they aren't obvious, trannies are usually extremely woke and left wing and I'd never date such a person, so I think I'm safe.

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

yeah! before transgenderism became a thing I was already nervous finding a "date or a mate" that wasn't unhinged. now I got two reasons not to ever date

Unit1 · Answer

I'm not concerned. It is not like the conventional Ladyboys are out there on a mission to deliberately trick us. That's not what they want to do.

Hanrej · Answer

I would be if I were younger and/or planned on having more kids. I'm neither so it doesn't matter much. Companionship, chemistry and attraction is more important than what chromosones my partner has.

Alex8736 · Answer

Not at all. The amount of trans surgeries in the US is only 0.8% and the rest are sexual predators claiming to be trans which is an excuse to attack biological females i. e women's prison under fear they will be sodomized in a men's prison

Levin · Answer

That's why I have a height limit of 5' 3 these days :P

Redstang88 · Answer

No, most are nowhere near as convincing as they think they are

Gail_lvsjizz · Answer

No because they should be honest from the get go. If they’re not honest it makes no difference they’d get the instant elbow. To be fair they’d get the elbow if they were honest too.

DextroShade · Answer

It's easy to tell, even if they could fool you to the point of getting to the bedroom it will be obvious then because their fake genitals don't function correctly.

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