Girls, Newly single. Married at 20. She was 28. I'm now 43. Wife cheated. She's was my only ever. I've no idea how to talk to women. Help?

[skt19d]

Looking for help to talk to women.

How do I initiate the conversation?

When do I bring my kids into the conversation?

Thanks everyone.

[SueShe]

The question here is what are your intentions when you want to "talk" to women?

Is it to start a new long-term relationship or just to have "fun"?

Also, how old are your children? If they are minors, you will of course have to involve them into the process if you intend to have serious intentions with that person. If, on the other hand, you only want to fornicate from time to time, then there is no need to involve them since they are not likely to see those women ever again after you finished with them.

Mainly, if your kids are pre-teens, then you should talk about them to your new conquests because that may make a whole lot of a difference to those potential candidates.

[_Maya_]

I would be upfront about your kids. I'd want to know and you don't wanna look like you're trying to hide something. That's a big deal and big commitment for anyone. You have to make sure the girl is cool with that and knows that is part of the deal. As far as your ex wife is concerned what a bitch for cheating. Sorry for the strong opinion but I can't stand cheaters. Especially when it involves kids in the marriage. Just be yourself and be honest when talking to girls. If you want specific help I'll be happy to do so. Like getting convo started or what to talk about...

[Nikki1989]

You just have to start over. Be honest, explain your situation without being dramatic about it.

[JoannaSmith36]

Try to get in touch with women slowly