He initially wanted a relationship, but doesn't want one now. Why?

[Anonymous]

He is one of my mutual friends. And I used to see in University and social media. We starting talking online and became close , then he confessed me that he likes me. Since I was not ready to be in a relationship at that time because of some issues we were just in a talking stage. Till June he wanted a relationship and we usually have fights from July. But now when I am ready to be in a relationship he doesn't want one but still says he loves me. He became less sweet and polite. What do you think about his behaviour

[ProbablyClueless]

He cares for you as a friend, but he doesn't see you romantically anymore. He's just lost interest. That happened with a girl I was talking to, where we talked for a little under a year, and had a great vibe, but then she rejected me for whatever reason.

After she rejected me, I lost interest in her as anything more than a sexual partner because it was obvious from the way she handled that situation that she completely lacks any emotional or social intelligence.

[spartan55]

I think he got tired of you jerking him around, and decided a relationship with you didn't sound like a fun time.

[DarkWinterNights]

Sounds like you pushed him away enough for him to overcome his infatuation with you and someone else caught his eye.

[Anonymous]

You missed your window. You could potentially have a relationship with him but inflation has increased the price. You're going to have work for it now.

[Anonymous]

Guys can change their minds, and maybe he found someone else.

[Asker]

But he still says he loves me

[Opinion Owner]

Then tell him to prove it.

[spartan55]

@asker
That doesn't mean he wants to be with you.

[KrakenAttackin]

Sounds like you became bitchy and he pulled the pin.

[WhitneySnow]

He’s probably mad at you for rejecting him

[msc545]

He might have come to his senses...

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

😅😅 This made me laugh