Why do I feel like I end up in a more maternal role with the men I’m dating? I feel like I end up mothering them in a way. What could this mean?

[BananaNanaa29]

[provokeesmokee]

You're dating manchildren who aren't fully matured.

Real partners don't turn you into a parent.

[BananaNanaa29]

Lol for real. I seriously end up taking care of them.

[provokeesmokee]

Took me two long term relationships with men like this to learn my lesson.

Still haven't found a fully formed adult to date, but I've also found I'm more attracted to women than men. And damn, women are so far well better than men on average.

But I figure it'll be in this decade I'll find someone suitable to date seriously.

[BananaNanaa29]

Be careful. The incels might enter the chat 😂
Maybe this is why women aren’t having children anymore? Because we’re raising our own partners?

[provokeesmokee]

Lmao, they're welcome to, laughing at incels is a regular Wednesday on this app, lol!

Yeah, I think there was a study done that investigated some women didn't want kids because their partners filled that void for them. Which is brutal, but honest, lol!

If more people were fully grown, mature adults, there probably would be more women willing to have kids with them.

[BananaNanaa29]

Haha well hey let’s give the incels some credit. They know more about our reproductive systems than we do! They’re wickens, they somehow know how many eggs we have left and it’s always so precise!

[BananaNanaa29]

I totally agree with you though. So spot on! Great minds think alike 🥰

[Byuser]

k Do you want to talk about this subject?