What should I do now?

[Anonymous]

He cheated on me 5 times with my best friend. I forgave him everytime hoping he will stop cheating on me one day since I was his first love. He cheated on me 6th time with my another friend and I couldn't accept it anymore so I broke up with him and made him insecure by spending more time with another guy who loved me. Although I didn't get physical with the second guy I used him as my emotional support while I was feeling broken by this first guy's cheating. First guy was insecure about me spending time with second guy and he begged me not to be in a relationship with second guy but I ghosted him and I didn't accept him back either as I wanted to move on due to his cheating. After few days I realised that I could forgive him instead of leaving him for cheating on me, I went back to him. This second guy was still a friend to me due to which the first guy started accusing me of cheating on him with second guy even though I didn't cheat on him. But this second guy loves me so he feels that I am cheating on him with the second guy even though I simply friendzoned the second guy and used him for emotional support, this first guy moved on from me and not coming back. What should I do? Beg him and tell him the truth that I was not loving second guy? Or let him lose me because he was not understanding me?

[Fireguy17]

You should have left after the fist time, but you chose not to for whatever reason.
Since there were no repercussions for his continued actions it was a green light to continue.
And look where you are now.
Just leave or this will be how your life will be from now on.

[Tzilla]

Don’t ever talk to the first guy again, and leave the second one alone since you know you will hurt him. And do some digging in your mind why would you even consider him after he cheated on you multiple times, also you must have shitty friends if they fucking with your ex.

[Asker]

I wanted only one relationship throughout my life so I have forgiven his cheating behaviour

[Tzilla]

I feel you, but i still think you should stop talking to him… In a year you’ll be at peace with your decision.

[NotTacocaT6969]

Cheaters do not change.


Move on and let him cheat on someone else.

[Asker]

What if he moves on and doesn't cheat on a new girl? Maybe he might have changed because now still he's not with any other girl

[NotTacocaT6969]

Once a cheater always a cheater.

Him being single is more than likely a consequence of his own bad personality.

He will cheat again the moment he has the opportunity.

Don’t be the one who he hurts.

[Asker]

Agreed

[glennos89]

Better run out of that relationship because him stopping cheating on you is never going to happen 0% chance! Better move on asap without him 💯

[balyai]

Dump both and move on

[Anonymous]

I don't think it really matters.

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

Tell him the truth