What should I do now?

[Anonymous]

I came on too strongly with this guy. I think I love bombed him but now he's doing it to me. And its putting me off because im worried he's doing all of this just to sleep with me and not putting in real effort with me. What should I do?

[Amy_Mi]

Step back and observe without pressure.

Love bombing often masks insecurity or intent, reciprocating intensity doesn’t clarify motive.

Focus on his patterns over gestures, consistent respect, curiosity, and alignment indicate sincerity, while intensity without depth signals short term interest.

Set boundaries for your energy, communicate clearly if needed, and let actions reveal intent.

Protect your heart by prioritizing alignment over excitement.

[bunnyboo24]

Love bombing is a huge red flag on both sides. The best thing to do now is tell him you feel like you moved too fast and you wanna take one step at the time to get to know each other. If he cares he will.

[Anonymous]

Don't sleep with him immediately. Make him wait until you trust him.