Alpha Male or High Value Male?

[OddBeMe]

I keep getting my labels mixed up. Ladies which do you prefer?

Alpha male

High value male

[Bitterness]

High Value Male

[Apple1996]

Both are gross

[DarkLegacy]

I think you finally lost the ploy

[Apple1996]

@DarkLegacy I just have no reason to find either attractive

[Enaya]

The right alpha men are high value. Unfortunately too many loud, insecure men, looking for "submissive" women think that they are alpha. That actually screams beta to me. What men think are alpha and what women think are alpha men are very different. Men think it is someone very tall, muscular, roiding, loudly speaking his opinions when no one wants it. Women think alpha men are soft spoken, respectful of women, educated, patient, and secure. The high value men are the alpha men to women. Someone doesn't need to be the Rock (WWE character than DJ plays) to be alpha. Once of the most alpha/high value man in my opinion is someone like Stephen Colbert. He is religious, but not imposing of his religion on others, he's devoted to his wife, respectful of his guests, funny, etc.

[mandyfire98]

Neither. Those terms are now linked to cringy online either pick up artists or andrew tate type guys. It's just really cringy.

[GOLDFISH_smile]

Neither. If those are the only options, I'd rather be single.

[inhua]

alpha males have leadership skills e. g. competency, assertiveness, decision-making etc.

high value males have attractive traits that women instinctively want e. g. good genes, resources, social status etc.

not all alpha males are high value males and not all high value males are alpha males but both have qualities women are hardwired to find attractive even if they deny such

[DarkWinterNights]

I think people get too wrapped around the axle with these labels. An “alpha male” is just a masculine, extroverted man with leadership qualities and most guys describing themselves as such, probably aren’t. I feel like “high value” is very subjective. Some women may associate that with literal wealth while others may view it as strong in morals and honesty. I think men and women both just focused on being responsible, honest and healthy society would improve.

[Anonymous]

Neither. 90% of men who call themselves such as good for nothings that contribute little value in a meaningful relationship and who only get shallow insecure women who may be pretty but contribute little value in a relationship besides looks / sex because these sorts of douchebags with attitude problems have money otherwise they'd be as appealing as homeless.

[Opinion Owner]

Literally the average "alpha man" and "high value" is a loser whose only success with women is whores, sluts, tramps, & easy cheap sex. It's why these trash terms were dubbed off of "success" on dating apps where, by majority, the garbage of society go to find dates.

[havingfun2023]

High value male sounds progressive and modern. Lol. Maybe I'm a high value male? With my dashing good looks for the ladies are like 👀👀👀 ah well, i don't mind if I'm a 1/10 or a 10/10 lol 😋👍🏻

[provokeesmokee]

Smart, normal, well-adjusted men who don't buy into either of those bullshit terms.

[Smashingdoozy]

"alpha" men are just dicks with legs.
High value men? There is no value for people. Let's stop treating people like they're property.

[petitedollbabee]

Neither. If a guy refers to himself as either of those titles, it’s a quick way of shutting down any interest that I had in him.

[Nikki1989]

Neither. Both are vague and meaningless terms made popular by internet trolls.

[WhyohWhy69]

Only losers call themselves high value or alpha.

[HitsyHonesty]

Isn't that like the same?

[serious]

High value male. Without doubt.

[Still-alive]

I prefer high value mail thanks

[kakaling]

Should had add in Sigma male.

[elianmuse]

High value make 🤘