What is an alpha male? What separates him from a beta male in your opinion?

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ManOnFire · Accepted Answer

Alpha males  tend to think of themselves as the strongest but they are actually the weakest. Their method of action is to use aggression, throwing their weight around, trying to be the dominant voice in the room, and taking pride in behaving like an asshole. They also think of themselves as cool if they're getting to talk to the pretty girl that everyone likes, but in private they are complete simps for her. Alphas also tend to be very sensitive and often can't handle when they get back what they give out. So breaking it down they are just macho and nothing more at the end of the day. Betas  are weak, simpy guys who drool over pretty girls and are so enamored with them that they can't shake it and end up annoying the girl by constantly following her around, always needing to call her pretty, texting her first all the time with goofy stuff, but never able to actually ask her out or be assertive. Sigmas  are the kind of guy you want to be. Sigmas don't need to display themselves to either women or groups of men in order to be heard or have influence, and they don't follow the rules of social hierarchy either. They are smarter, more perceptive, and intrigue women more often than alphas do. Even though a woman is having her ear talked off by the alpha that needs so badly to converse with her every chance he gets to try to prove he's a confident go-get-her, she is actually more curious about the sigma she sees in passing every day, who is not trying to bag her like all the other dudes.

13Satan666 · Accepted Answer

An alpha male is a guy that has control and takes control when needed. He is confident about himself and his ability, his standing with his peers and in society. People look up to him and come to him for answers and expect him to be able to provide a suitable one. He is going to exude confidence to the extent that it makes others confident in him. Women will feel naturally drawn to him. Guys will want to be his buddy. No matter what the situation the alpha male has it under control. This doesn't mean he can necessarily fix it. He may not know a wrench from a tooth pick. But he will know what needs to be done to get the right person there to tackle the situation and he will not be questioning himself about it being the right thing to do.

Yannishka · Accepted Answer

I wonder how many "betas' I can piss off with this. But that's not my goal. This is what I genuinely believe to be an "alpha man".

A successful confident man. He knows what he wants, puts in the work to get it. Has the respect of the majority of people through his actions, accomplishments and how he treats people.

Things such a successful man will not do:

Care about his size down there. If you do that? Sorry, but you SUCK.

Bitch about the other gender. If you do that, you SUCK!

Forget how to casually treat a person, hitting them up in the DMs for sex/nudes/fantasies.

Constantly needing affirmation on how they look.

Asking for opinions and going nuts over somebody who doesn't agree with him. No respectful chat, just straight up aggression.

Asking questions to fight, not because he genuinely wonders about something. They just want to start a fight.

The one who runs away from problems instead of meeting them head on.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

My ex used to kick the doors open, literally. He was Alpha, he walked and people gave us a road.

At home though, he slept in my lap like a baby and always looked in my eyes to please me somehow.

So, guess who’s the true alpha? Hahaha

236color · Answer

This whole alpha/ beta thing is based on a study of wolves that the original researcher has spent years trying to distance himself from because it was applied to wolves in captivity and found not to be valid among wild wolves. It's been applied to human interactions by men who think they'll be more successful with women if the act like assholes.

https://phys.org/news/2021-04-wolf-dont-alpha-males-females.html

Lionman95 · Answer

I believe there are social hierarchies in guys. So there are the guys that lead, are self-confident, emotionally healthy and have a mindset that makes them want to improve and build their world and business.

But there are also guys that love to complain, are entitled and what everything go easy for them with little effort. They give other people or the circumstances the blame for having a shitty life.

I don´t care if you call them alpha/beta, adonis/jeffrey, Top G/low G...

Name what you want. The difference is that one group has a healthy mindset and is willing to work to make a difference while the other loves to blame everyone else for the problems and make a pitty party about it.

stepyo99 · Answer

An alpha is just someone with natural take-charge leadership qualities. Their charisma and other qualities draw followers to them. There isn't much more to read into it than that. It's that guy or gal everybody knows who can be the life of the party as naturally as breathing.

Betas are just everybody else. They can be shitty people or normies or high quality upstanding people, but they just aren't natural-born leaders. "Sigma" "Delta" etc. don't exist and are just stupid pop-psych or silly memes.

inhua · Answer

alphas get hookups, don't need to go on dates and getting cheated with

betas must pay for everything including dates, weddings, divorces and get cheated on

but of course there are going to men upset at this because they all want to be seen as "equal" even though there's no such thing as "equal" men

purplepoppy · Answer

There is a bus. On the bus there are six body builders, the biggest is 7ft. In addition there's five military men including two officers. Three more passengers are just out of prison for GBH plus there's one billionaire with a 12 inch penis.

Who is the alpha?
The 5ft scrawny bus driver.

MementoMori777 · Answer

I believe the whole beta and alpha male crap is toxic, the reality is that whoever participates in all that bullshit are participating in fake masculinity, it's a deception that makes men look pathetic no matter which one they are, the truth is that real dominance and masculinity doesn't participate in a stupid system that go by dumb toxic standards that create toxicity.

provokeesmokee · Answer

The scientist who coined the term "alpha male" (in the context of CHIMPANZEES and WOLVES) debunked this.

https://youtu. be/inx2dMobzYs? si=eE__PTdUF5eCExqf

People who genuinely believe in human "alpha male" concepts are idiots. In the same way people who believe the Earth is flat are idiots.

Billlewis · Answer

An alpha male knows instinctively that he deserves to have sex with beautiful women, while a weak beta male knows he's not worthy of such a privilege, and were generally more comfortable serving a beautiful woman and the superior alpha males she's dating.

Lliam · Answer

Guys who think they are and those who aspire to be alpha males have superficial values. They are urbanite posers who think having gym bods manicured nails, expensive things, and trophy wives = alpha.

The hottest, most capable and manly men would never used that appellation.

Agape93 · Answer

It's just nonsense. The guys who proclaim to get alpha or sigma are just assholesz sexists and creeps who think they're hotter, cooler or what have you, than most other men. They're not. They're just guys with shitty attitudes.

safricanluke · Answer

There is no such thing as an alpha, or beta, or sigma, or whatever, male or female in human society. We have evolved past the need for such basic and animalistic categorization thousands of years ago, when humans became smart enough to form societies and have more thoughts than that of our basic needs. Any person who claims to be an alpha male is just an asshole, who thinks he has the right to control everyone around him and treat women like objects.

slatyb · Answer

A myth created by low-status men. Any man who calls himself an alpha is certainly not. Most of the top 2% don't consider themselves all that special. I have a lot of friends making $300K or more, and they don't think they are hot stuff.

Anonymous · Answer

A man can be alpha by economic status, physical dominance, or personality traits. The alpha man does not spend his money or time on women, nor does he allow himself to be ordered around by a woman. That actor in the photograph is not alpha since he is cross-eyed.

Anonymous · Answer

I really have no idea about alpha beta gamma males or females. I have only heard it in physics😂😂. But I wonder are there also the terminologies like alpha beta gamma females that exist?

Nikki1989 · Answer

It is all nonsense that so many men are brainwashed by.

exitseven · Answer

I dont beleve in the myth of the alpha man. Everyone has their strengths. It is what you do with what you are born with is what is important.

AviatorTom · Answer

If I recall the Greek alphabet, the difference between alpha and beta is one letter

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

Alphas are just the idgaf I’m just gonna live however kinda guy. However what seperates them from sigmas tho is that they are the highly physically attractive males that reign in results and get women

Anonymous · Answer

i really don't know him personally so who the hell can say?

Lokiion · Answer

Someone who doesn’t use goofy title like “alpha” and “beta”

Anonymous · Answer

We'll fuck your girlfriend

Subflics · Answer

Confidence and control

msc545 · Answer

Taller, richer, better looking, bigger dick

muscles_glasses · Answer

Im a beta and I dont care

gothbxtch · Answer

no such thing

Anonymous · Answer

Sigma female lmao.

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