What is wrong with beta males? They are quite cute: 😂😂😂
Have no idea what this terminology means in regards to men except alpha men claim (emphasis on CLAIM,) to have big wangs. I mean I guess you need something to make up for the lack of brain matter?
Any insight into the world of sexist pseudo-male superiority and it's complex (if any,) would be helpful xD
Found this "alpha" male on google He farms alfa, or alfalfa for pet guniea pigs and pet rabbits.
The alfalfa is covering his gigantic godzilla penis
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All sarcasm aside,
I am looking for some serious thoughts, as the 'alpha' men so far seem to be the ones lacking in substance.
Besides, alpha vs beta seems like a way of dividing men even more
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Whats weird about this idea, is that if you have a room with only alpha men, then some of those men will become betas, for not being as alpha as the outstanding alphas.
EX, fit, good looking CEO vs a fit, good looking McDonald's manager. Both are confident and what not, but the CEO takes alpha status, making the once other alpha guy, a beta.
But... though other guy is considered a beta now, he still has all alpha qualities, not being a pushover, weak etc -
The alpha/beta terms are usually used incorrectly. The alpha is the leader of a group - the most dominant. You can't have a whole group of alphas, you're right about that. In the military for example most people would say that they're all alpha, yet they have leaders, and those leaders have leaders. The leader is the alpha, the rest are betas.
The term is usually just used to describe people with certain qualities, mainly based on dominance and leadership. All of those soldiers will have good leadership qualities in the right situations - that doesn't mean that they're "alphas".
When it comes to dating, the terms are then used to describe types of men - men who can get laid pretty easily and are more socially/sexually dominant, more confident, more assertive, and those who are more passive, less confident, less assertive, more easily manipulated by women. In a way it's kind of true. Look at any poll on this site and you'll see most women say that they prefer a confident, assertive guy, and when asked whether they want a dominant or assertive guy the large majority always choose dominant.
I think the idea mainly came from the PUA community when it was popular, or at least that's where I first noticed it. Again, it seems that there is some truth to the whole dominance thing. I myself was a pretty shy guy, the typical nice guy who always got friendzoned and who girls were never interested in dating. Once I learned to be more assertive, confident and take the lead more that didn't happen anymore.
I think it's just the terms that sound silly. Usually though, people who are actually "alpha" never call themselves alpha. The ones who do are usually retards.
Since people love to generalize, here's some food for thought (enjoy or get offended lol)
Alphas : "I get laid with many women bruh, throw the money on dat ass" or "I get laid with lots of chicks bruh, check out my ripped body and my big guns"
Betas : "I love and respect women! I will always do whatever you ask me to do and change into whatever person you want me to be... please sleep with me!" Or "I love and respect women! I will be committed and loyal to you even if you cheat on me with an alpha... please sleep with me!"
Omega: "please, I'm a sensitive guy... don't hurt me! I like mature/older women who like to mother me" Or "I'm a virgin, stay in my mom's basement and never talked to a girl as I'm too shy... I fantasize about being submissive to my girl"
Here's the new guy :
Zeta : "I need some cash/peace instead of being in relationships with women or marry them, the laws and society are mostly anti-male" Or "I'm going to Asia/ Europe/ Middle East to find an obedient wife and might just settle there and preferably have kids"
@dancing_in_nebulas On the update : the temporary betas are just waiting for an opportunity for the alpha to make a mistake, upon which they will usurp their position of power... therefore never show even a moment of weakness in front of an ex-alpha or temporary beta
Real alpha men rarely feel the need to mention being alphas. They just are, and it oozes from every fiber of their being. Men claiming to be alphas rarely are. they are usually just obnoxious control freaks who think that by acting crazy and pushy they are alpha leader material. Put them next to a real alpha and almost no one will choose to follow them.
So, the whole alpha/beta labeling system is just a great way to tell us women who NOT to date.
Penis sizes have nothing to do with it. All of the guys I know with massive penises are not alphas.
Also, thinking only alpha men can take charge is funny. In packs, alphas are just betas who are currently on top. They can easily be overthrown in an instant to become a beta or tossed down to an omega. So, I guarantee there are not this many alpha men walking around. XD Just losers trying to feel good through delusions.
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If you study "Alpha " men, they always have something to prove. They play the loudest music, have the noisiest, modified cars, etc. They think women are just for sex, and want a huge body count.
"Beta" males are quite content to be themselves, stay in the background etc.
To my way of thinking, the loyal Beta male is then promoted to Alpha, while the so-called Alpha male, is demoted to Gamma.
I will stick with my loyal so-called Beta male. He is a good 'un!
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About your update: Alpha and beta is really a load of bullshit. It is just men wanting to give themselves macho labels.
At the end of the day, the real alpha man is the one that stays loyal and faithful, even when some other woman offers sex on a plate!
This whole Alpha and Beta thing was started up by red pillers who wanted to have a reason why women don't like them and didn't want to accept that maybe they're unlikable. Then people unironically started using it in everyday life. It was based on a flawed (now disproven) understanding on how wolf packs function in nature.
Ah, so like a self validation thing. Thats pretty low if you need such an immature way to define yourself. Its like how us girls use independent woman vs girl girl no?
for his big penis or what? Because so far the only Alpha man I've encountered boast about their huge penis and like nothing else and how better they are than beta men but they don't even Define what a beta male is?
In really simplistic terms, an alpha is more true to himself and goes for what he wants, knows not everyone will like him, doesn't care and isn't afraid to speak his mind, stand up for himself and live his code.
An alpha is more insecure, let's people walk over him, always gives in to others wishes, tends to put of with crap to stay in a relationship and is afraid to be true to themselves because it won't seem nice, cares too much what others think about him.
Lots of generalities, but that gives you a taste of the differences pushed to their extremes.
Penis size is equated to being beta and alpha, because some people are turned on by good genes, and people believe x thing displays good gene, we're subconciously attracted to people with good genes but placing a focus on it makes it a must for some people, most actually.
Ok so to your update, Alpha and beta males all spring from comparisons in society, like the example you give, its justifiable if they simply are higher up in society, though now in a less simplistic time, it barely matters since many people put on fronts to appear what they aren't
Alpha males are IN CHARGE, and by "in charge", I mean ACTUALLY running something important. A big, strong, loud guy is usually not an alpha male in the modern world. It's the quiet guy who signs the big guy's paycheck who is in charge. Real alpha males are usually quiet, calm, assured--they need to prove nothing. The ones who are always making the big macho act are what are called "insecure betas". They are betas, they know they are really betas--the don't call the shots, and the HATE it, so they pick on other betas so they can feel better about themselves.
Cute is a bad sign. Nobod wants to be something to a woman that can be replaced by a small puppy dog.
Beta & alpha are terms designed to make weak men relegate themselves to status as second class men, or blow smoke up the asses of men who either get laid a lot of feel they have a lot of circumstantial control over others.
On update... Alpha vs beta isn't about dividing, it's about identifying leadership qualities and manliness, verses supplication and weakness. It isn't good or bad, unless it's a woman making an assemssment, and biologically she'll tend to be fare more attracted to the stronger of the two. It simply comes from cave man days where she had to choose the best defender for her, against saber tooth tiger and roaming tribesmen. :) So the answer to your question, 'what is wrong with beta males?' - the answer is nothing, but that women are less drawn to them and more drawn to alpha males. In fact, 80% of women are chasing 15% of guys - the alpha bad boyz/fukboyz while the rest are standing on the sidelines. And you'll hear those guys whining about constant rejection. The women on the other hand, are all asking 'where have the good men gone', and 'why can't I get a guy to commit'. There's a lot that goes into it, but you haven't addressed it in a serious way, so you're not getting serious reply.
On update... Not sure where all this is coming from, nor why you think you're some kind of authority on men, cuz you're just not. It's cute, but that's about it. The McDonalds alpha does not become beta simply because he's beside another alpha guy. You're just reading too much into this.
Go find a good guy that likes YOU just the way YOU are and don't worry about the alpha-beta thing.
Is that what that stuff is? I've driven by fields of that green stuff every day for years and could never figure out what it was - from the road it just looked like abnormally green grass.
Of course I know what Alpha and beta is are in the animal kingdom even female animals such as hyenas Alphas betas omega's so on and so forth. But in the human world there's a bit more to it than just growling at each other and marking your territory LOL
Ha ha ha, most betas can get laid easily. They just tend to have standards. Most of the guys getting laid regularly are just sticking it in any girls that opens her legs. Getting laid easily is often more about looks than personality.
It's structured, it just has typos that I don't bother checking or fixing. XD Too much eye strain to be rereading everything I type.
You get the message. A hot beta can lay around naked with his dick out, and I guarantee it will get more wet than that of an ugly so called "alpha". He'd pull in hotter chicks of better overall quality than the "alpha" as well. He may even get all of the girls who would have gone for the alpha, since most of those chicks are just desperate and looking for anyone to poke them anyways.
"A hot beta can lay around naked with his dick out, and I guarantee it will get more wet than that of an ugly so called "alpha"" Then he isn't a beta, he is an alpha.
You don't seem to know men or women very well... There are hypersexual people on both ends in equal amounts as well as less sexual people. Both also have social hierarchies.
A man can knock up multiple women everyday, while women can only get pregnant once in 9 months, that's why men are more sexually attracted to women than women are to men.
That does not prove men are more attracted to women... Most men do not sit around impregnating multiple women regularly, just like most women do not sit around collecting baby daddies. This proves nothign about sexuality. If anything it would disprove excess attraction, since most men are not doing it.
Are you saying all men would stick it into any cute girl who offered on the street? They would not. Thinking about it does not mean doing it. Most men and women still worry about STD. Not to mention most people in relationships do not cheat. But, yes, I certainly have a very active fantasy life when out and about.
"Are you saying all men would stick it into any cute girl who offered on the street?" hahahahahahahahhahahah YES! men are far more sexually attracted to women than women are to men, it's by far the biggest advantage the female gender has, if you wren't innate sex objects, the world would care far less about you. Yes, men in good relationships will refrain, though they will be tempted. Are you saying you do see multiple strange men a day you would love to sleep with (if you are single)?
No, we would not get a billion. Been there and done that. Ask any handsome men how many women would happily fall onto their dick, and we're back at women are just as sex obsessed. Women are just pickier and more sneaky about it due to societal expectations. We are also more likely to get STD's and deal with pregnancies. Also, he still ignores the fact that most men would not screw any woman. All of the men I know are pretty picky. Studies show that women are far less picky in what turns them on sexually than men. They also show that women are just as sexual, but we tend to be busier and worry more about negative repercussions. That does not mean we are less sexual or sex obsessed. Read some of the sex threads on this website. Women are seriously closeted sex freaks. XD
Well, now you are just lying Markfish. Most men would not stick it into random women on the street. Look up cheating stats, how many women men sleep with on average (very similar to women in number), etc. There are some manwhores, but there are women to match. That does not mean the majority of people are that sexual.
"Studies show that women are far less picky in what turns them on sexually than men" Yeah studies show "straight" women are far more aroused by naked women and lesbian porn than they are by men (Studies by Dr chivers at the university of Indiana, and a study by Dr Rieger at the university of Essex, they both claimed all women are bisexual) . And ill ask it again do you see multiple random men everyday that you would love to sleep with?
Yes women are sexual, but not as much as men. there's a batrillion scientific journals (not faux google news,) for the link between testosterone and its sexual potency compared to estrogen. We are most sexual during ovulation (14 days a mos), whereas men are at peak sexual libido virtually everyday.
It was thought women had low sex drives for a long time, but it was shown we have a higher sex drive. Not higher than men, but higher than thought before.
I already answered that with a yes. lol. I also stated that the main reason why women do not is due to risk. I've spoken to many girls who share the same worries which corroborates the studies that state that women are only less likely to have new sex partners due to risks.
"I haven't slept with any of them, good looking or good personality because none have been suited to what Id like long term." shows female sexual attraction to men is zerosome. W
Women are more attracted to themselves than they are to men. anthropologists say women don't even have a sexual orientation, just an amorphous mes based on narcissistic sexual self affirmation (technically bisexual though).
I have a very high sex drive compared to both men and women. It's certainly not due to testosterone. I can ride most men into the ground on any day. I have met a lot of female who are the same. Practically dragging their men to ed to rape them. Also, look up how many stories there are of men not wanting to have sex and their women having to go out of their way for sex.
Also, men may show more regular interest in sex, but they also seem just fine without it in most cases when you look at how often most men are actually having sex. I can't go two weeks without sex without losing my mind. It's my guy friends who often pick on me.
As you say, those men did not meet your standards. Men will turn down women who do not meet their standards as well. Men are extremely picky overall. My guys friends and I always play the game of "would you have sex with this person". They say no most of the time. About 10xs more often than me. I'm much more flexible.
Men will nix a girl for looks, but then they will nix her for really random things like where she is standing or what they think her clothes and facial expressions say about her. They will nix girls for names, hair color, eye color, breast and butt size and shape, etc. It's exhausting!
Research studies what women are attracted to, you can't study something that doesn't exist, so whatever you read concerning that was bogus. Or mis-interpreted.
Science doesn't contradict if its factual.
*Attraction means wanting to have sex, being aroused by a stimulant to want sex.
I never said I didn't want to have sex with them; I do, but I do not want only sex, I want a partner. there's more factors now.
Like when you feel hunger, although there are billions of foods to eat, depending on your situation you choose.
Just because you reject a hamburger, does that mean you aren't hungry still?
"MEN DO NOT REALLY HAVE HUNGER BECAUSE THEY DO NOT ALWAYS EAT SALADS EVERY TIME ONE IS OFFERED - A NEW STUDY SHOWS"
Now you're desperately twisting things. lol. I am sexually attracted to most men. As I've stated before, women only say no due to higher risk for us compared to the risk for men.
Let me make this easy. If the only women you could have sex with were attractive, but they would definitely give genital warts, herpes, and HIV and you'd have to deliver a baby from your penis hole every 9 months, would you still have sex with them? Or, would you stop and think a bit before going through that every time? Clearly, you want the sex just like we do. You just don't want the trouble.
You would be in a minority wolfcat. Men also worry about STDs and STIs, as well as pregnancy (we can be legally forced to pay for the child for 18 years). We will still be willing to sleep with a lot of random girls.
Having to pay for a child and having your body demolished by one are two very different things. Men are also at lower risk of catching STDs. I wish I could just knock men up and not have to worry about these things so much.
What's so bad about birth? women almost never die in a medical setting during birth in modern medical advances, and they can drug you up to prevent pain. Having to pay 18 years of child support is way worse. Again, do you truly desire sex with most men?
18 years of child support is nothing compared to the 1000's of dollars, endless time it takes to raise a kid alone for 18 years lol
You literally drop off a check and leave. Dont have to miss time with friends, deal with lower body image, clean up and care for another human.
there's no comparison. If I paid child cp out of my 2400.00 salary, it would be 437.00 in my state. After bills I have 1600 left, which leaves me 1100.00 to party with.
Alpha and beta are terms to describe social hierarchy in animals (ex: wolfs in packs). We use it to describe personality and behavior between men. Men who are weaker as called "beta" and men who are stronger are called "alpha".
Yeah... those guys are Alphas... kind of... they're Alphas but they aren't leading people because those people respect them as men/male lions though. Those characters are forcing their will onto others through money and power. A true Alpha male is leading people by being what the other men strive to be.
Damn university people, uses too hard words for me coz I'm originally not English but Swedish so Swedish is my 1st language. You better have English as your 1st language.
The real difference is that alphas are in charge--REALLY in charge. They sign the checks. The command the armies of thousands of people. They run the corporations of thousands of people. They make decisions that determine entire countries' futures.
I don't know. All the media that i see describing them makes them seem like the types that get walked all over and don't or can't defend themselves or aren't strong enough to be leaders and get shit done.
Funny thing, though. You're a beta. I'm a beta. Nearly ALL men are betas. Only the people who can command hundreds of other people are any sort of alpha.
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