Are Alpha Males better lovers?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Voted "Yes", at least in the sexual sense. However, that is a bit overstated. Most of the time I am dominant, but there are times and circumstances where that is not the case.

In general, my girlfriend and I have a very primal kind of sex. We are like two animals breeding in a field, with licking and even biting and scratching. I am the dominant alpha male and she is the submissive female.

Invariably I am on top, usually doggie-style, although my body is close to her's. Pressing against her body and not with back straight. Even when it is missionary I will be on top and laying over her, thrusting deeply. I expect her to be obedient to me and give her body to me for my use.

It all sounds quite raw and even impersonal, but that is the funny part. My girlfriend is a very independent woman. We have lived together for 12 years and have three children and she is an incredible mother, partner, and career woman who knows her own mind and can speak it forcefully.

Yet the funny part is, when we have sex we are at our most exposed and vulnerable. I need and want her and we are sharing our bodies and we are all that we are - nothing but just us. It is the most deeply intimate and connected and loving - even as it is raw and animal.

Truthfully, my girlfriend even believes - and she admits that this is very old fashioned, that she should have sex with me - and I agree - even if she is not in the mood. She is to be there to meet my needs and submits to me. Here again, the funny part, is that this works because I love her and therefore I try to be sensitive to her moods and feelings. I can have sex with her whenever I want, but I won't because I love her.

Also, even in our sex there are times when it becomes less about my male dominance and more romantic and loving. When I suck her breasts I get mellow and I just want to be held and loved. I just lay in her lap, nursing at her breasts and I just need that sense of closeness.

When she sucks me and I cum in her mouth and she swallows or shares it with me in a long loving romantic kiss. Again, I am in the dominant role but in those moments it feels like total giving and total acceptance and I am no longer the dominant male, but my love and what we share is what matters.

So in theory it is a sharp divide, but in truth it blurs. I need to be the alpha male and my girlfriend needs to be submissive. For her it is a strange sense of being used and possessed and dominated and protected and cared for and loved all at once. For me, I need to be inside her and feel her warm skin against mine and to know that she is there to breed with me and that my penis is the source of the most raw pleasure. We need that sense of nature and of a male and female animal in nature.

She is there to be used by me and to have my babies. (We have three, as I mentioned.) Yet it all becomes more complicated and loving and romantic. The animals become deeply loving partners who cannot live without one another. So put me down for "Alpha" - but with a twist.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Can we stop with this stupid feminist, billion ideologies of different genders and different sub categories of men? Geez this is getting ridiculous now.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Alpha males can be confident and take charge, which can be attractive! But being a good lover is about more than dominance. It's about communication, empathy, and making your partner feel desired. A kind and attentive guy might be a way better bet than a so-called "alpha" who just boasts.

Siri137 · Accepted Answer

Enough with this "Alpha male" garbage! Alpha males don't exist, and Beta males don't exist either. The whole thing is childish nonsense, and I can't believe there are people who still believe in this silliness.

molonski2 · Answer

Gee Coach , you are right into Alpha males right now , that's for sure.

I'd say they are certainly better lovers , think about the best session you ever had in your entire life , I challenge anybody , bet you were feeling pretty dam Alpha..

Its like Walter White , when he fist cooked , and was taking cancer medication , he takes his wife as he has not done in years = Alpha , now sure its a TV series , but this stuff happens , and so while you can keep an Alpha mindset , naturally you are a more powerful , aggressive lover.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I don't really see any basis for it.

Especially since a lot of the time it seems like according to studies anyway that people who are really dominate in their everyday life tend to be more submissive in bed and the reverse is also typically true.

But then again it really just depends on what kind of people they're having sex with to it all comes down to compatibility. If you take an "alpha" and pare him with someone the complete opposite of him with completely different sexual tastes no matter how "good" he normally is they aren't going to be compatible and it isn't going to work

CrabCakes11 · Answer

“Alpha males” aren’t a real thing. It’s pretty stupid to try to categorize people like that. Alpha/Beta/Sigma males, Myers-Briggs personality types, and astrology are the same sort of deeply flawed attempts to fit people into boxes.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

as they don't exist, they can't be better lovers or whatever :D

Bricealan · Answer

Just a myth, coach. I'm not an Alpha type, and my women friend think I am good. (Or they seem to...👀👀👀🤔🤔😜

WhitneySnow · Answer

Assuming that such a thing even exists, the answer is sometimes. Some are amazing lovers, others are very entitled and extremely bad at pleasing their partners.

normalice · Answer

Would have to ask female wolves and I don't think they know how to vote.

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

I think your April fool’s joke has gone one for long enough, man

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I wouldn't know honestly. So, I'll leave it to the other women.

sawno · Answer

I'd assume they'd be to dominant in the relationship and to likely not to commit.

Wiredone · Answer

I don't know what an alpha male is. I don't put labels on people. There are just men and women in my eyes

thegreenyogi · Answer

I think that really depends on what would be considered good by a woman as in what she likes in the bedroom.

msc545 · Answer

Since women are more attracted to them, the sexual experience is generally going to be better.

Anonymous · Answer

Alpha males don't care if any woman thinks they are better lovers or not.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Sometimes, but we can also be selfish. Our females are available for our satisfaction, which takes priority whether they’re in the mood or not.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No. Sexual pleasure is all about compatibility and the focus you put in to make sure the woman reaches her orgasm.

Danzigdawson · Answer

Again with that stupid alpha male shit?

Rangers · Answer

If they weren't, women wouldn't choose them

NathanDavis · Answer

when we can we expect the Sigma series?

poshspice123 · Answer

Nope

Anonymous · Answer

How many red pills have you swallowed bruh?

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

This is not a yes or no question

Anonymous · Answer

Yes we are !!!

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