Agree or Disagree: Women love Alpha Males?

[coachTanthony]

Happy Wednesday. Continuing my Alpha Male series. Thanks for all the support.

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Why Women Love The Alpha Male ↗

[mobiusforniner]

The “alpha male” concept is often misconstrued by angry little boys who can’t get what they want and need an excuse to point fingers at women for making bad decisions. do not confuse alpha male with the gang banger who drives hot cars and beats women. theyre not the same thing

Most women, even the assertive ones, want a man who is confident and can make decisions. These are MEN who are often successful, both personally and professionally; emotionally mature and intelligent, and have a wide social influence which I guess garners them a somewhat god like status of being a so called “alpha”. real alphas know who they are and they don’t concern themselves with this kind of rhetoric because it doesn't matter to them There’s no need to compare when you’re confident in yourself

Boys who are anything less, tend to perceive such men as “aggressive douchebags” because naturally they are unable to self reflect, take accountability, and improve themselves to become better.

[handsomelad70]

What about the rich white socialite who drives hot cars and beats women? "Gang banger" is another euphemism for the "N" word.

[mobiusforniner]

@handsomelad70 same. The rich white socialite is not an alpha

[handsomelad70]

Sometimes (often) he is, or at least those "self-made" sorts who crap all over everyone to get where they are.(You're likely correct that they wouldn't be socialites.)

[mobiusforniner]

@handsomelad70 money doesn’t buy character. Someone can have all the money and opportunity, but if they haven’t fallen, learn and grown; they are void of character and don’t satisfy the definition of a so called alpha

[CheeseMonster]

Once in college during a class discussion someone said "alpha male," and literally every woman in the room recoiled. Some women like alpha males, but it seems like most do not.

[coachTanthony]

They love dooshbags but recoil to Alpha Male... seems like they have their priorities right lol

[CheeseMonster]

Nobody said "dooshbag." I do know several people who were with dooshbags for a while, but they all left them after they started acting dooshbaggy and refused to stop. So I don't think they like dooshbags either.

[coachTanthony]

Probably went on to a bigger and better dooosh

[CheeseMonster]

Nope. Just a normal guy.

[handsomelad70]

Some do, some don't. I've gotten all kinds of girl burn despite looking like the boy (now ol' boy) next door rather than a caveman-like alpha male.

[coachTanthony]

Normal guys are too boring for most women.. they need that drama rollercoaster they can complain about to their friends... He just pisses me off , he is so mean to me... he doesn't answer my calls... but I love him

[CheeseMonster]

Normal isn't boring. Normal people have all sorts of interests and hobbies and different things they like to do and talk about. My cousin's non-doosh guy is starting a business. My sister's goes hiking with her. Boring people are boring, normal people are nice.

[coachTanthony]

Cool thanks for the comments as always!

[CheeseMonster]

You're welcome.

[handsomelad70]

D-bags are often alphas.

[CheeseMonster]

@handsomelad70 I don't care for either personally.

[EmyyWolf]

THEY ACT like they don’t.
Trust me; 🙄🙄 They want to look innocent

[CheeseMonster]

@EmyyWolf I don't really care. If someone lies that's on them, not me. I'll take them at their word for what they like.

[EmyyWolf]

Then that makes you an imbecile. 🫵
Gullible. Simple-Minded. Simpleton. Sheep 🐑

https://youtu.be/SZavkRHgQKY?si=Osfece-ey4Stfq3C

[CheeseMonster]

@EmyyWolf why should I try to play mind games with people? I have better things to think about than whether a woman is lying when she says she doesn't like alphas. Women I know tend to do what I expect based on what they've told me, but even if they didn't, why should I act any differently to accommodate their lying?

[EmyyWolf]

You should want to be better-looking and looksmax and eat right and work out for your own sake. Not just to attract the opposite sex.
If you don’t struggle with women like majority of men do. You likely have great genetics you’re not aware of.
If you can easily and effortlessly get a woman into bed with you, at least within the timespan of a month.. you literally have superior genetics and great health. High testosterone.

[CheeseMonster]

@EmyyWolf oh, no that's not what I meant. I don't like people who lie to me in general, yes, but I'm not attracted to women so that kind of stuff doesn't really apply.

[EmyyWolf]

So you’re attracted to men?
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤡🤡🤡🤡😂

[CheeseMonster]

@EmyyWolf no

[Anonymous]

AGREE.

Because I can I acknowledge that I do.

And majority of women do.

You know how I know? Because the guy I wanted; most women were already smashing him. MOST.

All other women want to act “innocent” but they’re not. Behind closed doors and in their secret diary, it’s clear they drool over men like this.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/zTb3dp87yso

[IslaTheWitch]

disagree

women love men (at least those straight and bi)

alpha males don't exist in our species

[coachTanthony]

1 million searches on google says different lol pretty sure they ain't looking for info on wolves lol

[IslaTheWitch]

check searches on flat earth or other stupid ideas...

[coachTanthony]

Not even close to being the same but thanks for the comments as always

[liggang]

I believe that there is confusion. No, there is no such thing as a biological alpha.

However I personally do believe that women's sexuality has a nature. That nature is the content of what women desire in men.

I believe only a small % of men exude the traits which the female biologically derived sex drive desires.

Those men are labeled the alphas. It doesn't matter whether there is a biological alpha or not.

The reason men keep on harping on this topic is not because they're simply dumb idiots who don't know science and are brainwashed by red pill grifters.

They keep harping on this topic because men don't have a true understanding of what women want and desire in men.

Men wish to know the truth. But in order to enlighten men, women would have to be willing to hear why we see what we see. You have to be willing to hear the context of our beliefs in order to then bring understanding.

I believe ultimately such a thing is impossible. That women do have a certain biologically derived attraction for men and that men will never understand it.

That is what keeps a majority of men feeling inferior. Because we see women crave a certain small subset of men and we know we aren't good enough.

We wish women would admit this. But you keep telling us it's not true. But we see all too clearly what it's like in reality.

Women don't go for good kindhearted men. They go for pieces of shit and have babies. The good man gets the leftover pieces of her heart and life.

The good men don't want to be second choices anymore but don't know how to elevate themselves to the status of the man who gets to i. pregnate her, break her heart, and leave her wounded for life, settling for the good man at the end of the day.

The equivalent for men is wishing for a beautiful woman and settling for a hideous obese woman, and then men saying "we prefer fat ugly women" when women say "what do men want?"

That would be a lie. And I think women lie about what they really want.

[IslaTheWitch]

@liggang I'm drawn to smart, witty, funny and challenging men... with some other qualities... somehow sex's never been was my most important concern...

[liggang]

If human beings have a sexuality it must have a nature. You're implying that for every woman it's unique. But for every man, as is clear, it's about female beauty.

So men are the ones who have a sexuality. And women don't have one. Women are drawn to random things just depends on each woman.

As a man I find that hard to believe. I think that maybe it's true. Since women really can't understand what a "root" of sexuality is. You must not have any. It must be completely developed by your experiences in life.

It's not like that for men even though some men will deny it. For men it's very simple. Women are beautiful and we are extremely attracted to female beauty. Case closed I won't hear anything that contradicts rhat because it's always some weirdo trying to curry favor from the ladies.

Im just asking women to search their inner sexual attractive drive and describe how it functions on its most basic levels. If possible.

It may truly be that we are such opposites. I don't know.

Men like women who are witty or smart or confident and all that shit.

All of that shit is secondary. Always female beauty is the fundamental orientation of the male sexuality.

Maybe for women there is no fundamental orientation.

Though I suspect rhe fundamental orientation of the female attraction towards men is all rooted in confidence. Confidence is everything.

But hey what do I know I'm just a man!

[IslaTheWitch]

@liggang our fundamental orientation goes beyond appearance, fortunately, or men would be doomed :D

[liggang]

I suppose I would be one of the lucky few. But if it was like that and most men were single it would be a scary world when the unwanted betas rise up. I think that has happened before. I think it's how society started was the beta males enforced monogamy because the women only wanted a certain few men.

I know that sounds like I'm angry or I hate women or I never read any feminist literature. Well I'm not angry and I've read plenty. I still believe it lol. I know it sounds bad and women don't want to think their true nature is like that but it's really hard not to believe that.

[IslaTheWitch]

@liggang, there are no alphas or betas... people are different and see different things as attractive. What seems attractive to my friend Katja doesn't work for me at all. It's a normal state. What one man considers as a beauty others see as average...

men are more focused on visual things, women a bit more on emotions... of course, not all of them are like that... because we are different... unique... every person perceives their sexuality differently through experience filters

[liggang]

I don't believe in alphas or betas. Only some men who exude that which is attractive to the largest amount of women, and those who are less, and those who are repulsive to the majority of women.

I think what you said can be true and what I said is true. There is always variation but ultimately, that heirarchy exists.

Even for men, sure every man likes a different kind of beauty. But some women are not beautiful and some are hideous. And you might find 1 man who finds the hideous woman beautiful, but the overwhelming majority of men will not find her beautiful.

Everyone has their individual preferences but there is a bell curve possibly of preference and there is the majority and the fringe and the ultra fringe.

What men in society need is to understand that bell curve. Your answer is exactly the opposite answer men need. It may be the truth but it is not the whole truth.

[TonyMetal___86]

@islathewitch miss isla let's be real, no matter how much you'd love a man, beta or alpha or i don't know what, you're going to dump him out of nowhere at some point!

It's a matter of who dumps the other 1st in our present day, let's say he didn't than you will dump him and don't ask me why because a woman's excuses are always ready 😄

If you're someone who will love your man forever and time showed me that nothing is changing you than a hat down for you for being this golden woman!

[handsomelad70]

@liggang Red pill, blue pill, yellow pill, black pill. There are LOTS of pills handed out in the good ol' USA.

[lastlyfound]

What kind of men?

[IslaTheWitch]

@TonyMetal___86 I don't "dump" people. I talk to them, solve problems and if it doesn't work for us we make a mature decision. Together... not everything works for everyone.

funny thing... I was "dumped" :D

[TonyMetal___86]

@islathewitch i don't see it funny if you were dumped because i know how much pain you have sufferred, also were hurt especially if you have really loved this person...

So imagine if you weren't dumped by this person, weren't you going to dump him at some point? Just be honest, you're a mature lady, no need to lie or paint yourself as if you're the perfect woman, just be you! Maybe you will dump him because you woke up someday and felt that you don't love him the way you did in the past or stopped caring about him or became bored or i don't know, but maybe you know better about these girls excuses that i mentioned just so she be able to dump the guy haha

Wait... what's funny is when she does this, she will cry a lot and say i still love you but not like before, you're still the best guy, you deserve someone better than me, i don't even know if i'm making the wright decision, all these and she dumps him 🤣🤣 these cases happened in front of me and i was like WOW this world is really filled with mentally ill people!

[TonyMetal___86]

@islathewitch Miss isla i have basics and principals in my life, you will never see dumping a girl that i love especially if we are married, i have no excuses, you know why? It's because i only believe in divorce only in case of being cheated on, loving less or loving more, caring less or caring more, we brawl, we argue, we don't talk with each other, idc, i made a promise in front of god that i'll love this woman and take care of her forever and i'm a man of my words, i'll do anything possible to keep my marriage forever the way it should, if i was married!

I laugh when someone tells me, aren't you going to be bored from her after 20 or 30 years, hell no! Does someone gets bored from drinking water or eating a delicious meal? To me love is bigger than just being physical, it's also spiritual, me and my future wife won't only be a family but she will become a part of me, which means i'm her and she's me, 2 bodies but 1 person!

These days everything is sexual, that's why things aren't lasting long the way they should!

Especially the youngsters, today i love you, tomorrow i don't, they were born with a reset button 😂😂

[IslaTheWitch]

@TonyMetal___86 we were 20 years together... I had no reason to dump him... lol

I learned later he cheated on me... and demanded separation and divorce because he wanted to be with her

I didn't fight, accepted what he wanted

[TonyMetal___86]

@islathewitch wow! 20 years and in the end he went for someone else? You didn't fight and accepted what he wanted because i think that you felt numb and disgusted by what he did to you...

If i had a wife, i'll count the years only to celebrate but other than that, i know that time doesn't matter because we are together forever!

You see, i wonder how come such person after spending 20 years with you, he just leaves you and go for someone else 🤔 when he sleeps at night, doesn't his mind remember him about you, the good times, the places that you went to together, or maybe while his sitting with his mistress in a restaurent, suddenly he will remember how he used to feed you there, all the time that you spent together and did everything with each other, if you know what i mean, how come he can delete them so easily like you have never existed!

Don't worry i believe his sh*tty mistress will dump someday the same way he dumped you, if not worst!

I believe that a cheater is a cheater, when he found someone new and they got along with each other, he left you!

If he was truly loyal than no girl in the world can take him from you and he wouldn't even leave you for anyone in the world...

Do you still have trust in men miss isla?

[IslaTheWitch]

@TonyMetal___86 one man broke my trust, not all of them... but for now I don't plan any relationship. I need to heal and recover first

[TonyMetal___86]

I hope that you find what you deserve someday 😌

[Peter_Penetrator]

There are two types of alpha males. Toxic alphas and alphas that are kind, gentle and emotionally mature around those that he cares about and that treat him good. But if you cross any of his boundaries, or cause problems for anyone he cares about then he isn’t afraid to confront you. He is diplomatic first and will use force as a last resort.

[handsomelad70]

Like my father, who at 54,5'7",155 lb., needed just ONE punch to break the jaw of a 37-year-old, six-one,240-pound bigoted moron ( isn't that redundant?) who shoved him and called him the "N" word.
(It happened the night Jan.20,1968, the night Elvin "the Big E" Hayes' University of Houston Cougars ended UCLA's [featuring Coach John Wooden and centre deluxe Lew Alcindor, today's Kareem-Abdul-Jabbar, among others] then NCAA-record 47-game winning streak 71-69 . Hayes had 37 points, but the eye-injured then-Alcindor scored just 19, I believe.) I mention this incident because Dr. Martin L. King,39, was assassinated by a cracker loser 56 years ago today, Apr.4,1968, on the balcony of Memphis, Tenn., Lorraine Motel (my cousin, Cory Rolls,50, fatally ODed on Fentanyl Apr.4,2022 at Windsor's old Downtown Mission) to prove that Dad never bothered anyone, but took ABSOLUTELY NO GUFF FROM ANYONE, nor do I as his son.

[handsomelad70]

Dad was a boxer and lumberjack (Yes, there were black lumberjacks, even 5'7",155-pound ones;he was the middleweight champion of three of his lumber camps, in Sudbury, Copper Cliff and Ipperwash, Ont., My late buddy Brooke Logsdon, at 5'9",170, was also a lumberjack. However, Dad didn't turn pro because his manager, who had a jewelry store down the street from where I lived for three years as a boy, stole from his pro fighters.)

[LaurenM1997]

I’m so fed up of questions about alpha males this alpha males that it’s a lot of shit

[coachTanthony]

Awesome i'll keep posting them then lol

[LaurenM1997]

I’m actually being serious

[coachTanthony]

You don't have to engage with those questions you know lol

[LaurenM1997]

True

[Chthou95]

The terminology maybe cringe but in social gatherings, its a real thing

[LaurenM1997]

@Chthou95 I don’t believe it

[Chthou95]

Of course you dont. But there's always the men women want to be around and then there's the men in the corner who want to be that guy

[LaurenM1997]

@Chthou95 ok

[normalice]

I think women don't really pat attention to that redpill nonsense either way. "Alpha" is for impressing other men, not women..

[coachTanthony]

They may not use ALPHA terminology but they love them dooshbags.

[normalice]

Eh, some women, yes. But there is no one size fits all when it comes to character that women want or all men would strive to have the same character - or rather strive to fake it.

[coachTanthony]

Most men wouldn't know how to be Alpha (not saying they should) because they are too nice... they see Alpha males treating their woman terribly and will feel sorry for the woman all along watching her upset leaving with the guy in the end lol

[normalice]

There is nothing to know, though. Alpha is not a human trait. What humans tend to mean when they say it is "rich." But that has more to do with which vagina you come out of than any personality characteristic.

[coachTanthony]

The question could of easily been Women love dooshbags agree or disagree. 1 million pages on google about Alpha that has nothing to do with wolves lol the word is in our lexicon much like birthing people will hit 1 million searches by 2025.

[laly520]

real women love decent good hearted guys

rest too questionable

[coachTanthony]

There are always one off's in life yes lol

[lastlyfound]

Decent as in?

[Chthou95]

Women's actions>words. Anyone can say nice things. Actions speak louder

[laly520]

@Chthou95 yes
actions always come first whether its women or men

[laly520]

@lastlyfound depends on person
what I think of as decent guy another girl would think of as a guy who is too old fashioned

[Chthou95]

True. However men are less politically correct and are more straight forward about what they find attractive and because of that, the actions and words are more consistent with one another

[laly520]

@Chthou95 depends really but yea some guys be like that more straight forward

[Chthou95]

If you compare men and women, men in genenal are more straightforward

[laly520]

@Chthou95 could be🤔

[Biancam13]

I don't like the terms "alpha" "beta" etc. to rank people. Everyone is equal.

But if by "alpha" you mean certain qualities like confidence, assertiveness, leadership, etc., then yes, some people are attracted to those qualities.

[sawno]

I think the essence of attraction is reliability and competence, more so than dominance alone. She wants to see that you can provide for her and handle yourself in difficult times.

[alice55]

Majority doesn't in France cause people find them arrogant and that's the most unattractive things to them.

They're more popular towards Arab French than French.

[bobalife]

Depends on what type of alpha males, but I do 🤭
I guess lots of people on gag don’t like this term but then again a lot of people on gag are opposed & close minded to so many things 😅😂

[sage2021]

I wouldn't want an overbearing alpha man. However, I don't want a man that is a wimp either.

That's why I chose the Alpha man 🙂

[lastlyfound]

Can a short man be an alpha man?

[sage2021]

@lastlyfound
I think he can because being an alpha man it's about how tall you are or aren't.
It's about how you handle yourself, your beliefs, your personality, etc.

[lastlyfound]

But short men are really insecure and not very confident

[sage2021]

@lastlyfound
You have to stop generalization like all, never, always ok?
Some shorter men are confident buy may appear cocky if they over due it.
I dated a man 5'7" and he was confident.

[lastlyfound]

Hello never fet insecure especially around women his height or taller women?

[lastlyfound]

He never*

[handsomelad70]

My father was an alpha at five-seven.(See the two above posts about him.)

[Nikki1989]

I laugh at any man that thinks “alpha” actually means something in the human world.

[Grl2live_nlearn4u]

Maybe once and awhile. Also not for a long term thing.

[lastlyfound]

For long term you'd want a sissy?

[Anonymous]

Yes of course! They kind of HAVE to by definition. A reasonable definition of an Alpha Male is a guy women want to be with and men want to be. So if women aren't in to a guy he CAN'T be an alpha.

[TonyMetal___86]

Maybe, but i believe that women these days have an expiry date for love, wether you're an alpha or beta male, you're going to be dumped at some point!

[bolverk]

Women chase 'Alpha's', doesn't mean that they'll be able to marry them!

[EmyyWolf]

Annnd?
It’s not all about marriage.
Women deserve pleasure too. Sexual pleasure. Yes we deserve that.

[EmyyWolf]

@bolverk
Stop acting like marriage is some sort of reward or cookie for women.
Cause we can be married and ; in abusive relationship.
Married and feel alone due to the guy leaving.
Married and getting cheated on.
Married and completely poor / broke.

MARRIAGE IS “NOTHING “

[thegreenyogi]

Depends on the Alpha Male in question. Lol!

[coachTanthony]

Very true

[LiamJHayden]

Desire, possibly/probably. Genuinely love, debatable.

[Anonymous]

Now answer me this. Is "alpha" correlated to physical appearance and can it be separated? Do you have to "look" alpha in order to be mentally alpha? What if you're mentally alpha but look genetically beta. Are you just doomed to be beta because your physical appearance determined that and you have no say in the matter?

[WindAtMyBack]

Some women do. Others run away fast. Others run toward them, then walk cursing for being so stupid.

[Quigly]

Alpha males want their freedom, not necessarily a relationship.

[msc545]

Of course they do. Even more if the man has money.

[bobby_bush_eater]

They genetically do. However the term alpha male today has a lot of baggage with it. A real alpha male isn't some clown listening to Andrew Tate trying to fuck everything he lays eyes on...

[molonski2]

Alpha again !

Agree , they love em :)

[euniestars]

I DONT KNOW WHY BUT THE NAME ALPHA MALES MAKE ME LAUGHHHH

[wiltingrosepetal]

As expected, the men agree and the women disagree

[liggang]

Only because women know that telling men to be alpha only results in men acting stupid. It causes men to harass and bother women rather than turning those men into the alpha males women truly want.

I think that yes, women want the "alpha" But also know to never say that because men who try to be alpha only make things worse, bad, horrible.

If you tell men to be alpha the results will be terrible for women. But women do crave the alphas above all else and wish that the majority of men would "wake up" to this kind of alpha which cannot be described and cannot be transferred onto a man who is not.

It cannot be taught. It cannot be explicitly understood. It is only understood by women because female sexuality is what informs women of what it is.

There is no way to convey what women want to men.

That is what I believe. This is not an angry comment nor am I inciting a fight. I'm just spewing my thoughts and maybe someone will have something enlightening to say about it.

[wiltingrosepetal]

Yeah, if you change the phrase to "women love assertive males" the results will likely change. The word 'alpha' doesn't indicate anything good for women, what we picture is Andrew Tate telling men they have to lead a harem to have respect. It's desperate and a little pathetic - we don't want men who are so insecure that they need constant validation from other men.

In truth, women want a person we can feel safe around. Someone who can protect us while, at the same time, not presenting himself as scary or threatening. The alpha archetype is very threatening. That's what these wolf type guys don't really seem to understand. Our maternal instincts respond well to men we can picture cuddling a puppy, not hunting animals with a shot gun. Get me? 😭 it's very hard to explain

[Pohjolan]

Alpha is the leader of the pack so in the case of US that's currently Biden and next year possibly Trump...

[handsomelad70]

BIDEN an alpha?

[Pohjolan]

@handsomelad70
By definition Biden is currently objectively more alpha than any other male in US.

[slatyb]

@handsomelad70 Totally. He's been quietly competent for his entire adult life, he's married to a very accomplished women and he's been elected to the highest office in the US. Trump? Look who he has married -- mail-order brides because no woman of any substance would have anything to do with him.

[ShadowChaser]

At this point, this consitutes spamming, as the topic has been milked to death...

[CuriousMufuxka]

Women chase and try to change alpha males, but get caught up in their own emotions.

[Chthou95]

Oh they definitely do. We are animals after all that have primal instincts

[Sabretooth]

alpha men can't lead... it's not in them as they are.

[Anonymous]

Women have no f***ing clue what they love. Thier opinion changes with a prevailing breeze.😆

[NathanDavis]

as much as you love Andrew Tate

[coachTanthony]

I think you bring him up more than anyone on GAG lol

[NathanDavis]

your profile would show quite differently...

[coachTanthony]

I don't think so... I may have talked about him once maybe twice lol

[NathanDavis]

within an hour, yes...

[coachTanthony]

Way off but you keep bringing him up... you do you.

[NathanDavis]

is he free yet?

[coachTanthony]

Thanks for the comments as always. Go troll someone else man.

[NathanDavis]

oh, I thought these were troll questions... my bad, lol

[Yannae]

Depends on what they see as alpha.

[JayBones2469]

Who cares what women love? What a beta question

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Agree.

[lastlyfound]

I totally agree! 💯

[elizamichale1]

Yeahh

[Rangers]

Of course they do