What skills did you have to learn in order to attract men?

[chris_987]

[noemiii]

Eye contact. Still haven’t learned it but working on it.

[chris_987]

Yeah, I didn't realize how much girls struggle with social skills, I guess because their relationships don't really depend on them.

[noemiii]

You’re definitely wrong. Getting a man to approach or even getting a man in general requires you to be a sociable woman to a high degree. Men do not want to approach standoffish women. The problem is most women ARE social and so I’m left in the “unapproachable” zone.

[chris_987]

Maybe before social media was a thing. But if you put a tinder profile. Guys will ask you out based on how you look. Not what you say.

It doesn't work the same way for guys