What are some tips on how to attract men?

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bluetoblack99 · Accepted Answer

Well here is my list:

1. Accept what have or lack genetically. Some people are dealt better hands. It sucks and it’s unfair at times. But you have to accept it.

2. Take care of your health and make it priority. If you are heavier you need to get serious about exercise/diet. It’s not a quick fix but an entire lifestyle change. Being overweight is not just unsightly but it’s also a sign you will have fertility issues. Men subconsciously sense that and it’s a huge turnoff.

3. Be completely independent. You don’t have to be rich or even upper middle class. But you have to be able to survive on your own without a man’s or a families help. Men do notice this and many of us have radar for freeloaders/gold diggers. We like being the breadwinners but we no respect for gold diggers.

4. Ideally have an activity or talent to work on. Personally I think guys don’t care about this as much as girls. But still it helps to be a bit more interesting

5. Work on your feminine wiles. This tough for women who are trying to be tough and independent. They need to balance being slightly coy and ladylike. But the innocent vibe is actually very sexy. Some women are going to judge me for that but I do NOT care.

6. If you like a guy but your not sure if he feels the same just say hello to him, make eye contact and lightly touch his arm. 9 out of 10 guys will get the hint. If they like you back they will take it from there.

But just a warning don’t be too aggressive. Even if they think you are hot they might get nervous or question your true motive. They might think you are using them to make another guy jealous. I’ve had this bs happen before.

7. If you want to have sex have sex. If you don’t then don’t. In the world of #metoo the “no yeses” are completely unacceptable. Expect guys to take what you say as face value. No more hidden messages.

8. Do NOT get overly political. I’m finding more and more women we going ballistic over this. Some of the best conversations you can have with someone in life is if they respectfully disagree with you. It’s possible for you to date and fall in love with someone who has different political opinions. But you have to listen and respect each other’s viewpoints.

9. Act like a traditional (not modern) feminist WITHOUT calling yourself one. Respect is earned not begged or cried for.

10. Be careful about how you reject guys or treat men in general. If you are the type who is rude to guys just because you don’t think they are attractive you will get a bad rep. Guys who you do think you are attractive will pick up on that.

We know if a girl is bitchy to everyone else but myself there will come an inevitable day she will turn it on me. Be strong but control your emotions when judging people. Always take a deep breath before blurting out the first thought that crosses your mind.

Reaperbot666 · Accepted Answer

if you want someone you view as a higher quality partner. you need to be someone they view as a higher quality partner. maintain yourself physically, mentally and emotionally. you don't have to be super fit just be generally healthy. eat and drink mostly healthy and exercise regularly. have reasonable standards when it comes to picking a partner. don't just sleep with everyone and anyone that shows interest in you. consider waiting until your in a exclusive relationship with them first. have a personality and attitude they find enjoyable. be pleasant to be around but don't be overly clingy. allow them time to relax and be by their self once in a while. be proud and enjoy how you look. have a natural body be proud and enjoy who you are. be honest. be loyal. be respectfully. be kind. be willing to communicate with your partner. be opening minded to trying new things. dress in a modest manner. nothing overly reveling. don't go over board with cosmetics. smile laugh this works for all types of relationships really.

Heartonmysleeve88 · Accepted Answer

The easiest thing in the world is attracting men. they'd put their 🍆 anywhere. They dont exactly have a preference. Any hole is a good hole. Just open your legs and they'll come.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

Be honest and confident and have self love and cherish your female friends and do not make the man your primary focus

DaMack999 · Answer

Be straight up
Don't lie to them when u got out of relationship no man wants to be your rebound. Cause he will feel used when u go back to your old guy.
3) If sex is bad teach him lol most guys have no clue how to bang a girl even thoug they love them.
4) give him guy time. Don't text n call 24/7
5) if his out with the boys let him. Don't be angry at him.
6) If u need someone speak we can't read your mind. We're not your girlfriends.
7) last but not least communicate your inner thoughts as bad as they sound. You guys will love each other more for talking about the silliest shit.

Raph37 · Answer

i can be wrong. But most men now in days are stuck to their video games, drugs, family issues, money problems.

To make it simple. Many men I craving to talk to you. But they lost their minds. But they don't know how and that particular moment. So, women, you can make it easier... When it comes to the attraction. You basically got a glow. No need to get tan. Just show you're willing to get their attention. Say things to keep them guessing. Basically, show your interested.

Chester_Cheeto · Answer

- Smile
- Start the conversation
- Don't slut around with my friends
- Be yourself
- Show interest if you're interested in something
- Don't be extremely insecure
- Don't talk shit about me
- Laugh if something I say is really funny
- Show sexual interest if you're sexually interested (Extreme attraction)
- Don't act disgusted after looking at my face

We kinda don't ask for much. Just be yourself and and sexy.

The6ix · Answer

Be honest with, don't make everything about you, give him your undivided attention (ie: be attached to your phone message'n your girlfriends), don't talk about other guys trying to make him jealous. People should communicate with each other, be straight forward and play no games. I think if more people did this, the dating game would improve for both men/guys and women/girls.

cth96190 · Answer

Be slim, have long hair, dress modestly, no piercings or weird hair colours, DO NOT BE A FEMINIST.
Do not have resting bitch face.
Come to terms with the idea that you will probably have to make the first move in some situations, such as in the workplace, or at university.
Many men will not show interest in those situations, because Feminists and sundry other misandrist loons of the left have made it too dangerous for men to approach.

george201 · Answer

Seriously !!! Girl , you can get men with so easy steps

wear matching clothes

Calm perfumes

Not so much make up , just simple.

Be kind and friendly with him .

It is not a must to create a scenario and revealing clothes to get his attention .

Daniel3035 · Answer

Tip number 1 don't be a psychopathic narcissist who tries to attract men and then reject them for a self-esteem/validation boost.
Tip number 2 oh wait I'm not going to tell you because that is how narcissistic girls will abuse guys by making us chase your genuine but false signals.

BeyondCuriosity · Answer

Do something interesting. Maybe find a hobby that you honestly think you might enjoy that tends to interest men more than women statistically. Make it clear that you're interested in their attention. Those are all things that would draw me pretty quickly.

William42 · Answer

Except men need a little time make buddies. Men need some privacy yo pleasure themselves. This is not a rejection of you. It’s just a thing men do at times.
Be faithful and expect it of men. Examine the values of the guy, are his values your values?

thomual · Answer

Wear fashionable clothes. Something a little sexy that is form fitting or shows off skin (or both😍😍😍). Dye your hair an exotic color. Wear a ponytail, mohawk, or pinkie cut. Wear light makeup. Clothes matters more than makeup or hair though.

AlexSmith1010 · Answer

Be straight forward about it. If you find a guy attractive, go up to him and introduce yourself and get to know him first. If you already know the guy then just ask him out on a date. You'll typically know right away if the guy is interested in you or not. I find it annoying when I catch girls staring at me like a creep and they never say anything or even try to approach me. Guys like me never know what they're thinking. So we just end up ignoring them.

FreyaRed · Answer

Dignity, elegance and confidence. With sexy look alone you will attract foremost annoying flies like a nice piece of meat

jshm2 · Answer

We're not cattle, kid.  There is no one definitive guidebook. Only you, can define and, segment what you like and what you would like to give up for it.

StephenCF · Answer

Attract real men with elegant clothing (not trendy or too provocative), limitless sense of humour, and don’t say you’re a feminist if you want him to take you seriously

Peleplax · Answer

If you like someone, text him, smile at him and make phisical contact. That should be enough. And dont play "hard" to get because as a man it makes us feel like socially unaware creeps

MCheetah · Answer

Be honest, don't lie, don't play Hard To Get, don't be bitchy, and DEFINITELY don't be a feminist (insecure man-hater).

Unit1 · Answer

Looks like you're gonna ask out some men :) ;)

Anonymous · Answer

Being a woman is enough on it's own lol. If you're having trouble meeting guys, try approaching some of the ones you find interesting. Don't wait for them to. We don't like rejection either.

jack187625 · Answer

Milkshake. Milkshakes bring all the boys to the yard.

ItsTheNephilim · Answer

Look good and smile. If approached, have a welcoming personality.

Guanfei · Answer

-Be a woman -Be alive -Be at least average -Be nice We don't ask for much.

Arjunaguy · Answer

Just make eye contact and smile we fall for it quite easy

Anonymous · Answer

Do you own a pair of leather pants or leggings? I invested in a pair when I started online dating and it was incredible how many compliments I got!!

DudeDiligence · Answer

Be yourself, be honest and friendly and don't try too hard to attract men. Otherwise you will attract the wrong kind of men.

007kingifrit · Answer

be open and inviting, smile, wave high, don't be on your phone in public or we don't approach you, learn some conversation starters

JosyJosy · Answer

Be yourself, be confident, be presentable, be a good person then just invest time

robocop666 · Answer

there are 2 things men are attracted to boobs and butt. to grow your butt do heavy squats. To grow your boobs there is hypnosis and binaural beats on youtube. The be all and end all is right here. Your welcome.

EyesOfGod · Answer

Make a profile on a dating app. Like women have it so easy why would you even ask this question.

Wise4myage · Answer

Be friendly and outgoing and don't be afraid to approach men. Dress to impress and smell nice. Make lots of eye contact and smile.

winterfox10 · Answer

Be somewhat pleasant to be around, and maintain your health. Guys have a realllllly low bar.

Anonymous · Answer

Speak to them. Guys like girls, if you just go an interact with them you’ll find plenty that are interested. Being a girl is easy mode, there’s no need to overthink it.

Djaay · Answer

Its not how to attract men , but how to be attractive as a woman towards a man. Then again , men are only attra cted to kindness.

StickStickity13 · Answer

Look your best, be sweet and feminine, don't be abrasive (women think that shows strength, but it is just annoying), show signs of interest.

Anonymous · Answer

Be clear on your intentions, so many people mistake being friendly for flirting and vice versa

Anonymous · Answer

Statistically speaking having a vagina is a strong move.

Daemon_von_Wayren · Answer

What kind of men? 10/10? 9? 8? Be thin with big breasts and the guys themselves will crawl to you

Old_Golden · Answer

Depends on your age range but pretty much paying any attention to them at all works.

Loucetios · Answer

show your panty between skirt, like you didn't mean to show... :D

DonCachondo · Answer

Find subtle ways to make your boobs jiggle makes em look nice n juicy 😋😋😋

YHL6965 · Answer

Don't throw your emotions on them and be irrational on them.

In_Trance · Answer

be yourself; the right guy will be attracted to you

Andrejmaster64 · Answer

Just be nice and friendly, not ofensive other things doesn't meter

AJC997 · Answer

Be very kind and compassionate around the one you like

Anonymous · Answer

Be who you are and clear about what you need from him.

Anonymous · Answer

Just be yourself. The one who is for you will be attracted to who you are without having to do anything out of the norm

Madhatter920 · Answer

Depends on what kind of man you want to attract.

boggboss · Answer

Look good communicate how you feel

SirrVeta · Answer

Ask them to have sex, that will do

coffeewithcream · Answer

Why do you need tips?

Loser94 · Answer

Don't be a stuck up bitch

andy530 · Answer

Being sexually curious

yamajazaki · Answer

With honey

Mystery_World · Answer

Stay away from us please

andybq · Answer

for me tights and skirts

Linda5368 · Answer

Have sexy eyes and expressions

SphynxUK · Answer

Be yourself.

On_the_other_hand · Answer

Look. Smile.

Cryptic-Game · Answer

You can flirt and wear skirts.

Anonymous · Answer

Exist and don’t be fat

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