So my boyfriend and I are exploring being in a poly relationship, but I got upset when I heard them fucking downstairs and I came down and attacked him. He was naked and we fell on the ground and he held me down, now that’s it’s over he’s losing his mind with guilt and losing it because I can’t say I love you right now because it feels weird to say that right now. I’m also pregnant and he’s so worried about it because he sat on me. Now I don’t know what to do, I think this is my fault for not being mature enough to communicate properly. They had asked me beforehand if I was ok with it and I just said yes because I didn’t want to be that person to wreck the good mood.. but I felt like I was giving major signals all week that I wasn’t comfortable and things are moving too fast and I’ve been crying a lot and he should have been more considerate of my feelings because I’m so sensitive and scared and we’ve been together 10 years so he should know me. He said she’s going home and we are needing a long talk about how I feel and that they’ll stop things for me
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You're both completely messed up. This is not what a relationship is about and this is not how both of you should behave when there's a child on the way. Grow up.
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Never turn a monogamous relationship into a poly relationship. Only works when it starts that way.
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Lmfao. Fucking multiple people in a relationship causes problems. No way! Never saw that coming.
So. He's cheating on you for what you're saying?
looks like it's time to go your separate ways
Guys suck at reading signals.
You need to be in a jail sell or a psych ward
Well you're crazy
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