Big fight what should be done?

Anonymous

So my boyfriend and I are exploring being in a poly relationship, but I got upset when I heard them fucking downstairs and I came down and attacked him. He was naked and we fell on the ground and he held me down, now that’s it’s over he’s losing his mind with guilt and losing it because I can’t say I love you right now because it feels weird to say that right now. I’m also pregnant and he’s so worried about it because he sat on me. Now I don’t know what to do, I think this is my fault for not being mature enough to communicate properly. They had asked me beforehand if I was ok with it and I just said yes because I didn’t want to be that person to wreck the good mood.. but I felt like I was giving major signals all week that I wasn’t comfortable and things are moving too fast and I’ve been crying a lot and he should have been more considerate of my feelings because I’m so sensitive and scared and we’ve been together 10 years so he should know me. He said she’s going home and we are needing a long talk about how I feel and that they’ll stop things for me

Big fight what should be done?
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