The two reschedule rule?

[red324]

In my book if they've rescheduled two dates, you're a sucker if you agree to a third date. Opinions? Agree?

[ShellyB]

Yes, unless I knew that something major was going on in their life, for example if a family member was seriously ill and they sometimes unexpectedly had to deal w that. But for a normal situation or if I do not know the situation, yes two reschedules means they don't really want to go out w you but maybe they want to leave the possibility there in case they aren't busy or somebody they like more rejects them or something.

[red324]

Her mom came home an hour later from work. Personally I was fine waiting an hour longer, but she didn't want to do that and wanted to reschedule again, so I said forget it.

[red324]

Mom was going to watch the kids*

[ShellyB]

Hmm I don't know maybe you should try one more time. The reason I say that is, maybe an hour later created problems of some sort of maybe the mom was tired from working late or maybe since she had to wait, she ate something and thought it would ruin the date, or something like that. It is questionable though but, I could see honest reasons to not want to do it in that situation. JMO!

[red324]

If she cared she would have responded back between Thursday and the day she wanted to reschedule.

[red324]

I'm more patient about this stuff the longer we're together, but this was a first date where in my opinion you should make a good impression.

[kylee2437]

Agreed. You are already doing too much understanding and being a push over for someone that hasn’t shown you much priority

[red324]

Too much effort for someone you haven't even met in my opinion. I've learned over the years its a lot easier on me mentally to just cut them loose and move onto someone hopefully better.

[slatyb]

It depends on the reason. Shit happens. I know a man who was asking himself the same question. They've been together for about ten years now.

[red324]

I don't know in my opinion if they cared they probably would have asked questions in return. They've never even seemed to care when I jist say I'm not interested in rescheduling. I don't even get a response back

[red324]

I've been plenty patient with girls in the past waiting for whatever mindset they needed to be in to go on a date only to find out they went off happily ever after with some other dude while I was their talking to them for months

[red324]

If only that guy saw the side I did. Funny how they'll be a complete basket case with me, but perfectly normal with another guy. Give it time, that basket case will re appear eventually 😂

[DextroShade]

Completely agree, Myron Gaines says when they do this you should punish bad behavior.

[red324]

Who's that?

[DextroShade]

www.foxnews.com/.../tiktok-dating-coach-misogyny-strategy-video-punish-womens-bad-behavior

[red324]

As I've always said, guys would have less problems if women knew we won't put up that shit, but they know they can just go to the next guy in line, so it doesn't matter.

[LiamJHayden]

No, but until we become official she is not the only one on my docket so it is not a big deal.

[gorydetails]

Yup. They’d make time for Henry Cavill

[red324]

That's the problem with just being average in the looks department. Just think how their are guys who look way worse than me. They probably just go to the massage parlor once a week 😂

[red324]

It's what I should do

[gorydetails]

you know what, if I was single and struggling in the least, I’d just move to Colombia. It’s perfect there.

[red324]

They want you to take them back to the US so they can marry you and leave you after they get their citizenship. Wonder what they'd do if yoy just said you want to stay in columbia?

[gorydetails]

They stay and treat you like a fucking king.