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I've been single 12 years, and I met a guy who I assumed we were friends. He started contacting me as friends, which was fine. ( I met him out my circle on tiktok ). I respected the fact that he doesn't do long-distance relationships. So , I backed off, not getting too deep with him, such as my feelings. When he approached me, assuming his feelings were now involved, I wasn't seeking a relationship, nor looking , and respected the fact I wouldn't have a chance with this guy. Now , he's acting childish and weird since I backed off.. he told me a few times he couldn't date me due to distance, so to save our friendship, I felt limited contact was best. I don't know what this guy wants, but I can't risk getting hurt plus he's acting hot and cold.
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I just want to be single now.. I don't have time for this drama with dating or childish behavior
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If a guy is blowing hot and cold, it’s best to move on I’ve learned. They won’t change and it’s usually a problem on their end
Yes 0 contact with these types
Absolutely agreed. You end up stressing yourself out pointlessly everytime they decide to blow cold.
And you probably aren’t the only woman he’s doing that to.
I'm at peace single
I’m with ya, I’m at one last try before I call it quits myself lol these men are built awfully in this generation
Yes ny last straw was with a former friend of 11 years he was 🗑
How can you be sick and tired of men but at the same time single for 12 years? It would mean you have no men in your life so really you're only sick and tired of the image you made for yourself of men based on the few losers you chatted with (like the one in the story)
Plus 12 years is a long time. A 20 year old boy is not the same as a 32 year old man so really as you age so do men in your age group yet you still don't them a chance and prefer to be alone and complaining about it
Sounds like he doesn't even know what he wants
Exactly I bounced out
Sounds like the proper bounce for the situation indeed
Yes as i have been 12 years and I domt date men which I told him that - I'm sick of men
Well no need to stomp on all men for what one guy did 😂
I have no experiences with men - I think most are not suitable for relationships or marriage
I wish men the best 👌
My last relationship was in 2014 with my ex husband never again with another man
It's not a gender thing, both genders lack the proper material for marriage nowadays, it's all part of the woke agenda or whatever, you have the feminazis influencing women on one side then you got these toxic "alpha males" influencing men on the other which causes people to behave a certain way in society which leads to unbalancing results, chaotic results
Why both sex3s should part ways I've been at peace when I'm single without the headache and drama of dating men
I have no expectations wnr don't ask men for anything
Well I hope one day you manage to find a proper guy with the proper mindset and knowledge on how to treat a woman, until then, remember everyone is different, and yes I indeed am including men 🙂
F no - I wish men the best 👌 I want to be left alone
No need to cut the whole tree because of one or a few bad apples
Simple I'm content solo
Alright, whatever floats your boat
I don't have the energy or time to keep dealing with men
That's unfortunate, either ways tho, I wish you the best in life anon
Thanks 🌞 been rolling solo over a decade now
Well that's surely impressive, I've got two decades on my record tho, yes I know I know, please no autographs 😎