She responded with "i have a boyfriend"?

[Anonymous]

I told this girl I know that I like her. Knowing full well she has a boyfriend. (I heard it's on and off)

My thing is. Idc

When a girl tells me that she has a boyfriend it's just that.

She didn't say anything along the lines of. "No you're not my type" or anything that refers that she isn't interested in me or that there is something she finds unattractive about me.

The main problem is her boyfriend.

Anyone else agree?

[exitseven]

Well, you need to maybe find out what her relationship with her boyfriend is really like. It might not be too serious and maybe she is getting tired of him. Or maybe he is an asshole. Then you might have a shot at this.

[Asker]

Nah asking is digging to deep and will look desperate.

Most guys around her age aren't looking for anything serious.

[exitseven]

There are other ways to find these things out.

[Asker]

I heard through the grapevine that it's on and off. I think he's just using her when he can't get any other pussy.

On top of that a few months ago her female friend said why don't I ask her and smiled like she knew something.

[exitseven]

See, that's what I'm talking about. Take some initiative. Ask around what's up with her. Talk to her a little.

[Asker]

There's only one person I can ask and can trust.

If I ask the wrong person they'll probably air me out

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Asker]

Welkies:3

[slatyb]

There are only two answers: yes and no. That's a no. Accept it and move on.

[Asker]

I mean. A female friend of hers told me I should as well. We were talking about girls and she was like "why dont you go ask *insert name* and smiled like she knew something.

But that was 2-3 months ago

[Asker]

But I wasn't sure if I should at that time.
I was busy working on myself

[RedInnocent68]

It’s a polite shut down. Respect it. It’s not an invitation to compare or compete.

[Asker]

I'm gearing up to compete tbh

[RedInnocent68]

It’s one thing to be ready and available, like a shoulder to cry again, but don’t interfere or it will backfire.