From what I've seen, many women look for a financially stable man who can provide. But for me, I'm ultimately looking for a big strong man who can protect. A rich man is pointless if he is short, old and weak causing me to not feel protected by him. I only go for young tall men, and he must be stronger than me in order to not only make me feel safe but also sexually attracted to him. I just don't know why women only care about ability to provide but not ability to protect. Every time I am with a guy, I want to look at him and be able to trust him with my safety.
BIG, STRONG, FIT MAN.
I can make my own Pennie’s. I want Brad Chad.
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
25Opinion
I think the primitive thinking will have women selecting strong men. I think for the modern age, which is very new in terms of evolution, will have smarter men as the better choice as that will insure the success if the offspring.
Financially stable protect women differently which is by having a better neighborhood, better healthcare options, better schooling for the children and better food and nutrition options. They can also weather political, national, or financial hardships better given that they have resources to extract themselves and their family to a better place.
As our species evolves, different mating traits will be bred into our society. Or they will be learned. Women who select the wrong mate will not have her genetic line fair too well which has always been the case and explains the desire for physically stronger men who were needed just 100 years ago and prior to that. Now is a new time of computers, intelligence, innovation and collaborative skills.
What are you needing protection from? Will your big strong boyfriend be with you 24/7, or will you need to go hang out withth him at the gym while he's maintaining hos stremgth amd fitness so he can keep an eye on your safety?
In what other ways are you providing protection for yourself?
A financially stable guy may be able to provide yould you with a security detail...
Sounds like ypu don't nwed protection so much as you simply like the aesthetic of a big strong man.
Either way, I hope you find both qualities. :)Why should a woman have to choose one or the other? You can have your cake and eat it, too. Get yourself a submissive, financially secure guy to spoil you rotten, pay your bills and buy you sexy shoes and outfits to wear when you're with the lucky guy who's enjoying sex with you.
In the U. S... and I've lived in every state except 4...97 percent of the time it goes like this... the younger she is, she goes for the latter... years go by, she realizes she's stuck with 3 kids from multiple deadbeats who she thought were Suge Knight or 2Pac, not getting the attention she used to (it's going to the younger version of her), her body isn't quite what it used to be, the guys are yo yo on paying the child support, and Michael B Jordan or Drake didn't come kick down her door and kidnap her away on their Lear jets to a lifestyle of luxury, WHAT HAPPENED?😩😩😩So now she's 35 , is much nicer, less quick to stereotype on sight, appreciates niceties anywhere she can find them, and looks for the former. This applies to 97 percent that are non immigrant now. Doesn't matter if it's Phoenix or Harrisburg or Tallahassee.
Long game girls find men attractive that are strong providers. Whether broke or rich, they have the skill to never be without the ability to provide. A traditional blue collar man is always turning down jobs for example and they have the real world knowledge to fix, build, and earn anything in anyway.
Neither of those traits give enough insight into a mans personality. How a man treats others, and how he carries himself matters more than being rich or ripped. You can have the best looking body or a huge bank account and be lacking in so many other areas, which just makes you an awful person to be around.
Men should also know this of women as to avoid the ones who are focused upon selecting for a standard of strength that ceased to be relevant 100+ years ago in favor of a definitive one.
Marry her and your kids might fall for and marry the jock ending up as a loser for the rest of your life.
Good Judgement in Sex selection matters, women who can't make themselfs use actually relevant criteria of power are also poor judges in every other area.It’s always “what’s in it for me, what’s in if for me” when women ask these questions. It is always “how can I date up” for my own ends.
Ladies you deserve your equivalent. No more no less. You do not deserve a rich man if you are unable to get your financial needs met. You do not deserve a strong man (especially if you live in a western country) if do not want to take necessary steps to ensure your own personal safety.
To the poster: please understand something, i've seen muscular dudes pass away in their 40s or 50s for steroid use. Making money is harder then being a strong guy. I'm 5'8, 155 pnds. Back in high school which was the early 2000s, I saw guys getting BIGGER and asked how are you guys so big when you were my size and I was skinnier back then. Those guys did steroids and lots of guys take steroids to get bigger and jacked because its an ego thing, it's an easy way out, so I disagree with you and your female POV. Just because a guy is bigger doesn't mean he's not immune to diseases and potentially dying. Being safe and protected is loyalty, trust, honour, respect, him keeping his promises and doing chores to make your life easier. It's fine if you have a preference so please don't get mad but you have to be realistic as well and know both sides of the coin.
Physical attractiveness is important when you first meet, personality determines whether we’ll go out more than once or twice, stability is important when you’re settling down together especially to have children and need to work out your finances. Neither men nor women should lack work experience; if they decide one of them will stay home after they have children to look after the children then that is okay or if one of them is in school, but prior to having children they should both have spent time in the workplace and learnt how to take care of themselves.
I think women prefer to have both in one man. both are very irresistible. Strong man image tickles a woman primal instincts of wanting the physical protection of a cave man.. While a rich man is important for present era where nothing is achieved without money. A rich man is the alpha male of our century.
Yes, a few times in my life once when we were in grade 6 a few of my buddies, and I got on our bikes naked and drove into town. Every time a car would come by we will dive into the ditch. When I was 29 my buddy was having a bachelor party and we went skinny dipping down to the pool next beside 7-Eleven from his house, which is about seven blocks we were naked all the way to the 7-Eleven and the swimming pool and all the way back his dad came and got us. I guess somebody must’ve phoned.
good moral man, i dont need a strong man i can open my own jars and i dont need a guy for finances, i can waste my own money.
I mean both are useless if they don't care for you
Being super rich or super strong means nothing if they don't genuinely love you
Were I a woman, I'd choose the financially stable man, though the poor brawn boy MIGHT get rich if he's smart, industrious and/or lucky.
Hopefully the big and strong one. I'm still working on the financially secure part.
Umm, the rich guys can afford multiple body guards.
Since I'm not into big gorillas I'm going with financially stable one
With a rich man you can hire your own bodyguards. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
both, both take discipline, but when the clothes come off who are you dropping ro your knees for is the question
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
Most Helpful Opinions