In my experience, it seems it is nearly impossible for a woman to win over a guy but it seems, with persistence, a man has a chance of eventually winning a girls heart. My wife wasn't exactly a fan of mine but I was instantly attracted to her. Through time I won her over. My mom and dad have a similar story. Do you think there is something to this? Girls, have you ever had a guy win your heart?
This is just my opinion based on my experience and may or may not be representative of other people’s experiences, but from my personal experience and observations…
I feel like it’s easier to win a girl’s heart, but it’s also easier to lose it.
As for men, it’s harder to win a man’s heart, but once you have won it, it’s more difficult to lose it.
For most people sex is a part of life for some it is not like my ex that’s something you have to decide each individual needs to process that can you live without it course we can do we want to most likely not it’s something two people get to share and it’s very special so communication is the key and so is honesty if you’re starting a relationship Those are some of the questions that people should ask of each other how much importance to your place on money how much importance to you placed on sex how much importance to your place on children how much importance to you place on communication etc. if you don’t like the answer is you’re getting back and they are truthful then you get to make an informed decision on what you’re going to do and that’s the best way to do it in my humble opinion
I would have to agree with you. I know multiple women who didn’t like their husband at first in that manner (thinking of my grandma, sister, a few friends, etc) and the guy ended up winning them over and they can’t see themselves with anyone else. Whenever I first met my boyfriend I didn’t like him romantically but who he is as a person won me over and I can’t imagine my life without him. He liked me early on tho. You don’t really see the opposite where the girl likes the guy and wins the guy over later.
That's a very interesting question actually... I think it's harder to win over a guy's because you guys are not that emotional? Either a guy thing, guys being guys or society brainwashing for generations. They're not so into romance, but more about what's practical, if that makes sense? And with social media showing off the worst of the worst, I think they are more cautious and it'll be another extra obstacle for us to get through, to get through him.
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I think women, in general, are more forgiving. If you make a bad first impression, I think they appreciate you making an effort to show them you are a good guy. I've had women interested in me but yes, while some were sweet and attractive girls, there just wasn't a spark. On the other side, girls that didn't show any interest in me initially, were eventually won over by my charm. SOME! Not all. My wife and I had an instant connection. There wasn't any games played between us.
It is much easier for a man to do this because of how attraction works in women vs men. For women, initial attraction is built from how they look, then how they act. But for men, a little initial attraction comes from how we look, but we can build attraction from how we act, what we say, and how we make her feel. Men do not realize how much influence they have because they project how they are attracted to women, onto women.
Usually it takes longer to win a girl's heart but once you're in , you mean the world to her lol and it'd be so hard for her to let go.. guys are more balanced And I'd say more emotionally intelligent.. a guy can fall for a girl pretty quick but when you think he's really attached , he actually isn't...
I can't speak for other guys, but for me all it takes is a girl that i love being around and that treats me well. If she fits this criteria I'll fall for her which i dont think is anything out of the ordinary.
You can't win a girls heart. She's either interested or she's not. If more guys would realize this there's be less confusion in dating. Rom-coms and pop culture sells this lie that men can change a woman's mind and they can't. Only she can! And while it can happen it's rare. If a woman doesn't find you attractive and the all of a sudden changes. The odds are highly that she just ran out of options.
You can't win a girl's heart, it either happens or it doesn't.
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