Is every guy a 10/10 to someone?

Question

I can’t imagine being a 10/10 looking guy to anyone. Most girls seem not to like me unfortunately.  It’s not like I’m fat or anything.

blueonblack22 · Accepted Answer

One thing about women is once they fall in love they definitely see a guy who was initially a 7 got to a 9/10. They look at him differently and even hear his voice differently once they catch feelings. But they generally have a much higher barrier to entry given how picky and fickle they can be. They can also fall out of love with you just as quickly.

Men and women have different definitions of love. For women it’s an emotion. But for men it’s an emotion + a pledge of loyalty. It’s one of the reasons breakups actually damage men more long term than women. Men are generally more guarded about who they express feelings for. We have a lot further to fall when things go south

Love used to be emotion + a sense of duty for women (to have children). But now western women have been so called “liberated” from motherhood that second part is no longer as tenable. Hence western women are twice as likely to file for divorce and although I don’t have the stats to back it up I wager they are least twice as likely to dump their bfs. It’s all based on emotions because many do them don’t care about becoming mothers any more.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes, but not necessarily of the same culture. It's 1 of the reasons a lot of American guys are traveling abroad on work or study visas now. Europe used to be the hot spot, but I know many who now choose Latin Americaa and the Far East. I'm personally moving to Mexico. What gets "cred" in the USA gets your ass whipped with a cane in Singapore or kidnapped in Mexico-and worse. Guys with that "cred" are who a lot in the USA go for, it's the culture. They get victimized outside of the USA though. If you're an introvert, solid values, etc... you have to go outside the USA. She's out there.

dynamicyandere · Accepted Answer

10/10 in terms of  looks?  No.  You have it or you don’t. 10/10 in terms of being good boyfriend material? That’s possible.  (But not straight out the gate.) It takes work to  become  a 10/10 boyfriend.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You don’t have to be “ fat ” to be an undesirable. You can be ugly, your face can be ugly. Your arms and legs can look weak. You might look Mediocre. Average. And, in a society that that values social media and photographs. You can’t afford to look “Average” “Mediocre”.  Women only mate with the most masculine dominant male. You might be a Sub5 or Normie. Women don’t reproduce with SUB5 or Normie.   Because women are female. We don’t risk a dangerous pregnancy with bad genetics.   If you want to learn more. You can save my video PlayList “BLACKPILL” 👇👇

Rei13 · Accepted Answer

I mean it is possible to be a ten to someone but that someone might not be a ten to you. I think generally it is better to look at the total package. Looks, personality, etc. Can be the perfect partner for someone even if one stat isn’t maxed out

DubiousIntentions · Accepted Answer

Guys and girls are rated differently. A 10 for a girl means she is smokin' hot! A 10 for a guy can mean he is handsome but not necessarily smokin' hot.

zeitgeist057 · Answer

No. Absolutely not. Think of it like food. All the different foods out there, there are some that are more delicious/appealing than others. For example, some very popular foods with a majority of humans:

Bananas, cream cheese, mozzarella cheese, cheddar cheese, pizza, yogurt, chicken, tacos, chips and salsa, shepherd's pie, potatoes, rice.

Then there are foods that are not as widely popular or accepted, but still, a lot of people like them: Sushi, cantaloupe, pickles, bleu cheese, fontina cheese, broccoli, rhubarb, miso soup. These could be equated to average people. Not everyone will be attracted to them, but enough they are still popular.

Then, there are foods that most people won't eat, but a few people will. But even those people who do eat them, it's rarely their favorite food: Haggis (blood sausage), aspic, fried spiders, pickled pig foot.

Lastly, there are things that are barely edible, or that people consistently don't like to eat. A simple example would be rotten food. Just like food goes rotten, there are rotten people. Depending how rotten they are, just about no one would eat (interact with) them.

If girls don't seem to like you and you want them to, there are plenty of things you can do to improve your situation. Some very basic things are have good hygiene, bathe daily and brush and floss your teeth 2-3X, keep your hair and nails trimmed and clean, wear clean and good condition well-fitting clothing. Exercise 30 min minimum, be polite and kind to others.

HippoDino · Answer

If you mean strictly from just looks, probably but it would he more rare. From my personal experience the girl I am with is a 10/10 to me because of their personality and connection to me. I only look at the girl i love, i never would be like wow that girl is way hotter. My girl will always be a 10 to me and no other girl matters. I assume there are women who think similarly so yes there will be someone who finds you to be a 10/10, you just gotta find her.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

There is theoretically a chance that somewhere in the world is a person for whom you would be 10/10.

But it's not important if such a person exists. What's important is whether such a person is close enough for you to meet. And here, your chances are significantly dropping. Because in the specific area where you live, work, or meet friends, most women look for more or less similar types of guys.

Anonymous · Answer

No. While every girl seems to be a 10/10 for some guy, bear in mind he's just evolved to find a place to dump his load.

A woman has to be more selective, again for evolutionary reasons. That's why they can reject (or settle for) the lower percentage of eligible males but never find them 10/10.

aquamarine321 · Answer

A guy is a 10/10 for a girl somewhere I have seen that many times, and I’m sure a lot of persons have witnessed that too, guys that are 🤮🤢to look at and three is that girl that is crazy over him. And the same thing for girls too , but what I have noticed it’s not really about the looks or money. but every guy as a girl out there and every girl as a guy out there most take years to find each other

m33ladEmjay · Answer

1st of all, men are not designed to be beautiful. Social media does a good job pushing the world's top 000.001% of the world's hottest guys on the front page. And when a place is full of SIMPS, women think their unhappiness has to be because of them not having a hot guy. and when a man becomes too hot his testosterone drops very low, usually causing them to become interested in men only.

Billlewis · Answer

We, as men, need to accept that some of us just simply aren't attractive, masculine or wealthy enough to have sex with an attractive woman. That's not the end of the world, it just seems like it sometimes.

Adaeva · Answer

Of course not, 1s and 2s are unacceptable to everyone, including other 1s and 2s.

Amnfox · Answer

Some people are just at a genetic disadvantage, socially stunted and potentially hurt their chances through lake of personal hygiene and not maintaining a basic level of fitness. Basically a smelly, balding, 600 lb man covered in food crumbs and acne. I doubt they are a 10/10 for anyone. Maybe I've misunderstood the question.

Nirmroth · Answer

I see myself a 4 at worst and 7 at best. My ex treated me like I was a 10. While the realtionship came to an end at some point, wouldn't want to be treated any less now.

Sonorous · Answer

I'm gonna go with yes. But with overall score. For instance, a guy could be a 5 in the face but have a personality & body that boosts him higher for other people.

Juxtapose · Answer

No man or woman is a 10 out of 10 because that implies perfection. People need to get off their high horses and get back to reality

ZackBan · Answer

Yeah i think so. That's why you sometimes see a guy who could be mistaken for a farm animal dating a cute girl

Unit1 · Answer

I'd argue, that at least 50% of men will never ever be a 10/10 to any woman. Even if it's just for one day. Then again, most men don't care about their own appearance like the women do.

Finfin1981 · Answer

Yes someone will mean the world to someone and be their 10/10

Paris13 · Answer

In a Relationship or Not-----Unconditionally. xxoo

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

No. Because women only date rich body building model types. Other than that men don't exist to women. And the guy better be a huge a hole otherwise she's gone.

shades777 · Answer

women will date a ugly man if he has a baywatch body or is in the mma or famous, a man wouldn't date most women for the same reasons, at least i wouldn't

AmeerX · Answer

Think of it like this. Love triangles exist for this reason.   Woman thinks her man is trash while another is willing to die with him.

jahaims · Answer

Probably statistically you could meet 1 persons preferences. Like how some people are attracted to obese people or people with a big nose.

love_conquers_lust · Answer

I’d like to believe so. It’s still kind of horrible to discuss in that manner.

selenarosegrace · Answer

The complexity of human nature has been a mystery, even to the deepest of knowledge and finest of hearts 🥰. Definitely there’s a lady for you 10/10

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Thats just a fantasy we ugly guys wish to be true

MountAverage · Answer

You don't mean  literally  "every" guy, right?

Starrrboy · Answer

Of course, you just have to find someon... lol just kidding, no

Anonymous · Answer

When you fall in love with someone they become perfect to you

Anonymous · Answer

No. A Girl will put up w your ugliness if you treat her well though.

Anonymous · Answer

Of COURSE not! Do you not even know what it means to be a 10? Excellence is not a participation trophy.

Quigly · Answer

There isn't such thing as a 10/10 in reality. Man or Woman

Raaj4you · Answer

Every guy and girl are 10/10 for someone. Though It takes years to find that person.

captain_voidwalker · Answer

The girl scale is 1-10  The guy scale is 0 then 8 -10

Chthou95 · Answer

Nope. Some people really are just ugly and no one ever finds them attractive. That's life

Anonymous · Answer

10/10 thats the 3rd time I've seen that used in questions. Is this site being run by 1 person? and he's doing all the answers too?

Hormuzan · Answer

I disagree. Beauty is not really in the eye of the beholder, it is very objective.

YAsQuen · Answer

he said 10/10 looking so y'all females are 100 lying

Anonymous · Answer

Why ask these questions if you think no women likes you?

Anonymous · Answer

I don't really believe that but I voted yes to make guys feel more positive about themselves.

Nikki1989 · Answer

You can't put a number on anyone.

dreamstar72 · Answer

You can’t put a number on true love.

CoolCatMar1 · Answer

I highly disagree

exitseven · Answer

I think so, even if it is just his mother.

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Probably, at least for a little while

boggboss · Answer

No lol

whistlingwh0res · Answer

All straight men are self hater

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

I CAN ASSURE YOU THAT I'M NOT

OfDeath · Answer

No. (Filler)

LiamJHayden · Answer

No idea.

selma_AKTAŞ66 · Answer

Of course no

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