How to get over someone you don't even date?

[Anonymous]

It's like you talked about what we're going to do when we see each other and everything but suddenly it's just ended and I'm right now thinking of what could have happened. Just can't get over it

[Lycirian]

See, the truth is you are waisting YOUR time by thinking about what if. There will always be an what if and if you realy wanted a date you would have go after it but you didn't and if you did and he rejected you then so be it. Accept it and move on.

By waisting your time on >what if< you waisting YOUR energy and that's not worth it. You are not worth it to waisting your energy for that. See everyone that thinks he or she worth more then do something for it do something about.

Don't waist any other second for that trust me.

[OlderAndWiser]

You are not mourning the loss of a relationship; you are mourning the loss of a fantasy. I am not trying to trivialize your feelings, but you do need to focus on why you got so invested in this fantasy before anything ever happened to make it start becoming a reality. I say this because the most important thing you can do is to learn some lessons from this experience so that you don't repeat it.

[Asker]

You're right. We already talked about where we meet but before that day this things just happens. In the heat of anger I just think it's no big deal but when it's over I feel regret so much. Istg, I learn my lesson.

[OlderAndWiser]

Good luck!

[DollarBillcheapman]

If you were girl fantasizing about a life with him it can kinda feel like a real loss. Just mourn it like any relationship. And get back out there. And watch Matt Hussey content he's way better at helping.

[Asker]

Yes, that's me. Thank you so much for recommending Matt Hussey content. I'll watch it.

[Der_Ritter]

Open your heart to finding someone to date and let him take the reins in your fantasies and fulfill the role that you wanted this other person to so you can actually be fulfilled.

[WhitneySnow]

You’ll heal with time. Other than that there’s not much that will heal a broken heart. Don’t jump into a rebound relationship you’ll just hurt the other person and yourself.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Felt that, what I did in your situation is just think and tell myself why it couldn't happen and point out the reasons why it coulsnt happen, I'd say give that a shot

[Paris13]

Think in Your Mind IF YOU DID DATE THAT. Good It Didn't Work Out. Not Meant To Be. xxoo

[Anonymous]

be grateful that's all it ever was because you could end up much more hurt than you are now. i know it's hard to look at it that way, but not being too involved hurts less.

[CallmeTheKnight]

You didn’t know each other. Stop wasting your time over nothing

[Asker]

I get it but I'm feeling like I'm the one who ruin it. I overreacted, that's why it's hard for me.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Well, then learn from it and don't do it in the future, use it as a way to be stronger/better/faster/smarter next time.

[Asker]

I learned from it but I still sad about it.

[Starrrboy]

You have to bully yourself into stop thinking about them...

[Asker]

I always have a good point about them. And I'm numb. I'm stubborn. I don't hurt when I bully myself.

[Starrrboy]

I'm not saying you need to dislike / hate them.. I'm saying if you just can't that person out of your head.. you need to bully yourself into it lol.. Also it helps if you have a new crush!

[Asker]

Yeah, find someone new is easy but find someone that we really like and click with that hard.

[Asker]

And I said happy birthday to him, and he replied. Now I'm in my room crying

[Starrrboy]

Yeah I know... I'm just giving you my experience.. I had a similar situation ( I messed it up 😅 ) and I was obsessed with her for a while thinking about what could've been.. and then a girl I like started flirting with me I got busy for a while and stopped looking through her profile all day lol

[Starrrboy]

Woah, see? You have to get them out of your system asap!

[Asker]

Yeah, you're right. But he's a good person

[Starrrboy]

When did I ever say he wasn't? 😅... again, you don't have to hate them!

[Anonymous]

Move on plenty of better guys deserve you. Darling

[Asker]

Yeah, I knew that.

[Asker]

But he's just my type

[Opinion Owner]

He doesn't deserve you.

[Opinion Owner]

What's the reason of ending relationship

[Asker]

He's taking too long to reply and I get mad. And I ended things immediately, he said sorry but I didn't listen

[Asker]

But I just known him tho

[Opinion Owner]

Thought it was cheating issue or different religious views.

[Anonymous]

What was the last conversation you had with him about?

[Opinion Owner]

How did you communicate with each other? Was it over instagram facebook messenger over the phone through text?

[Asker]

It was through text. I match with him on dating app tho

[boggboss]

Stop entertaining overthinking thoughts

[Asker]

How to stop that? It's just happens naturally

[boggboss]

U actuvly put a stop to it start thinking about other things

[Asker]

Only if know how 🥲 I tried to do things and think about others stuff but it's just keep coming back like a ghost.

[boggboss]

Over time it will fade but it's somthing u will have to continue to activlt do it won't just vanish by itself

[Asker]

Only time could do that. Thanks

[In_Trance]

Makes no sense to me. There's nothing to get over

[Asker]

U might be right maybe I'm fantasizing things about him because we talked like a couple not just a normal talk.

[Anonymous]

Ur being creepy he was never with u. Chill out

[Asker]

I know but we talked. Ig I get attached to him.

[Opinion Owner]

You're weird

[Asker]

Maybe I am.

[Jmmmfi4]

WISH I KNEW... BIG TIME

[Anonymous]

Find someone else, life goes on

[Anonymous]

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