How do you get over someone you love but never got to date?

[Shayyyy1]

[ohsheeT]

Ok so first of all. You have to understand something. It's the love that you feel

This guy comes in to your life you hang out or what ever it might be and you start to feel things you have never felt before..

Here is the hard part to understand maybe

People come in to our life's when they do they open doors with in us. Because of the things they say or how they act or who they are. And when all this is happening your growing your experiencing new things that you like. That you love because it's all new to you..

You have to understand they are lesson. They are just being themselves the feeling of love you are getting. Is you because your experiencing growth a new way to see and feel things. He's not doing anything except he open a door with in you to experience something beautiful. With in you

You are the only person in side of you. You are the one giving yourself allowing yourself to feel the new depth of love that you are. He cannot make you feel that way. Only you can make yourself feel that way

Everybody that comes into our lives open a door or closes a door when new things happen and doors open we grow and experience new things with in us with in ourselves. And they are beautiful moments. You can say you love him all you want.
Because he opened those doors. But you are the only one that gave you all those feelings and you should thank him for that even though you're looking at it in a different way.

That's why so many people get married in divorce because things like this happen and they don't understandwhat
Really happened. They love that feeling when it happens to both. But then one day that feeling wears off And that's when breakup happens or divorce or whatever

That it was you it But.
It was you , it was all you
He just opened the door for you to Feel something that is already inside of you. The key to life is understanding this and opening all of those doors, so you become the best. You can become it's okay to love that guy. Why not? He opened the door for you for you to experience yourself. Something that you already know. That never had access to it. Until he showed up. I don't know if I'm saying it right but I hope you understand what I'm trying to say and if you do. You will see your life change so many different ways. Because you now understand the feelings that you have inside and that you are the only one that can give those to you

[Anonymous]

Getting over someone you loved but never dated involves a process of acknowledging your feelings, accepting the reality of the situation, and redirecting your focus towards self-care and personal growth. This includes limiting contact with the person, allowing yourself to feel your emotions without judgment, and engaging in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. It's also crucial to challenge any idealized versions you've created of them, and to remember that healing takes time.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Just surround yourself with friends and family and get back into life and the things you like to do for fun. Life is to short to waste your time waiting for someone who isn't interested in you. Understand

[Anonymous]

That's not hard. If we never got to date they Cleary didn't think much of me. And if they didn't think much of men then why would I mourn the loss of them.

[PaleDale]

I couldn't love them because I never got to know them well enough, because I'd never dated them

[jahaims]

You weren't in love if you never dated. That was lust or infatuation

[Anonymous]

How can you love someone you never dated?

[Shayyyy1]

You became their friend but they never saw you the same way you did them. And now you have to bury your feelings cause they are seeing someone else after you confessed you found out they felt the same way but moved on cause they didn't know you felt the way you did, they met this person 3 days before you mustered up the courage. And they decided to just stay with the person they are with now after saying they would think about it so now you have to become a stranger, how do you get over someone like that.