Is it normal for a girl to have anger issues from previous relationships and taking it out on her current guy?

[Anonymous]

Her ex sexually abused her and often pressured her to do against her will which fucked her up and gave her trauma. She didn’t work on this much before she met me but she is extremely abusive she has hit me she has hit our dog but when someone says she might have mental health issues she calls it gaslighting

[di3storted]

It’s normal but doesn’t make it right. She probably doesn’t see that it’s wrong or how her previous relationship could be the result of that. It’s best that she seeks help to get to the root of the problem because most people gravitate or do things from what they know and what they seen rather it’s really young in age or rather they’re older and experienced trauma of any type. Maybe this is her way of building a wall up and protecting and/or projecting how she feels internally. When you’re holding in a lot of emotions especially sadness it can build up into anger which I relate to. I’m most cases from women reacting in such a way is mostly of prior environment or to protect themselves even if it means hurting someone else because then they’re not the ones hurt or even if that means the other person leaves them even if it’s self sabotage

[slatyb]

No, it's not normal. She's not ready for a relationship and won't be until she gets over it. in my opinion she needs professional help. Anyway it's time for you and your dog to leave.

[Billlewis]

Oh my heavens... this type of woman is the living, breathing personification of utter perfection, in my humble opinion.

[Grognard]

She was probably the abuser in her previous relationship, and not the one being abused.

Just watch when you separate, she will be projecting all of her bad behaviors onto you.

[Asker]

Oh she already did that

[jahaims]

That is immaturity