Why did a boy who loved me so much left me since his siblings didn't like me? His siblings are simply jealous and he knows that. He still left. Why?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Because his siblings are more important to him than you, as it should be. You’re just someone he met fairly recently who can cheat or leave him whenever. Family has been there his whole life and will be there until the last day no matter what.

Assuming they have a normal family relationship.

[Asker]

Even though, he cheated on me finally for his siblings. Won't you think that it's wrong and selfish act of him to leave me after dragging me into his feelings?

[kylee2437]

Why would you want a guy that uses other peoples point of views to sabotage something that he supposedly loved?

[lightbulb27]

he's weak and controlled by them?

there's more going on we don't know?

[Asker]

What could be more that could be going on according to your guess?

[lightbulb27]

you two had conflict, they recognized it and they of course side with him and so convince him to leave you.
That could be true or false. Reality is, people are just different and the siblings don't know what it's like to date each other... and thus their deeper issues.

[Asker]

Yeah, could be. But however, he doesn't deserve my love if he can listen to his siblings and leave me for this reason instead of communicating with me and fixing the situation instead. He didn't explain or argue with me though for any conflict that could be possibly there. Even though considering his siblings choices could mean that he is a weaker person than his siblings and his life, decisions, thoughts are controlled by them and he don't have any quality to independently evaluate or decide about his life's decisions which could probably mean that he's giving them opportunity to take control of my life either. It's better that he left me because if I stay with that kind of person, it probably means that his siblings and I have constant conflict and he could support them even if they are wrong simply for the reason that they are his siblings and he can leave me anytime if they want not considering where my life goes which could break my life anytime his siblings wants him to. He's not a mature or emotionally independent person who have the capability of destroying my life for making his siblings happy

[lightbulb27]

that'st he problem with weak guys, they cannot provide stability to your new family unit while relying on the opinions of family. It be an emotional mess... if that's what is going on, then it be hard. And yes, he shouldn't run to his siblings for relational help, but people do when they don't know how to work things out.

Probably better off. take whatever lessons you can from it. You may be very strong, and so need to examine yourself... and whom you choose. opposites can draw. every relationship is an opportunity to learn and grow yourself.

[Asker]

Yeah thanks

[Bethany22]

Maybe he used them as an excuse to leave you.

[Asker]

He didn't say me that they are the reason behind it but I found it out myself that his siblings pressured him to leave me so he left. I wonder how can't he stand up for me instead of choosing to let go?

[jahaims]

Because he is stupid