How to stop being stupid for love?

[Anonymous]

It ain't as easy as people thought to move on. I truly believe those who find it easy must be never truly in love with someone, or else they will find it tough as well.
All those shits that he did to me, despite getting hurt every single time, conniving myself to just move on and don't expect anything, but i still fail.
And the difficult part is, maybe it would be easy if we aren't together everyday, but too bad we are. We are classmate and sitting together. So regardless how many times i try to act normal and not involve any feelings, i will still fail..
Im to stupid for this, should have self respect, but... arghhh

[Bethany22]

Don't have sex with men until marriage. It allows you to have somewhat clearer vision. But I understand it's hard when you get to see him still everyday. At least when you graduate you won't have that problem anymore. Don't date men at work, date them at social gatherings that you know you'll never have to go to again if you don't want to.

[Asker]

Agree on the "don't have sex until marriage". I'm holding to that as well. And good advice, its truly a lesson learned when people always say never date your classmate or colleague so that when things went bad, it shouldn't really have any problem to simply end it there...

[BLP11520]

Many of us have been where you are now dear