How can I stop being desperate for love?

[Anonymous]

I feel I am desperate... thirsty.
When I see someone new I get excited and automatically get a crush
When I first see a guy I'm into I start daydreaming and that's where I get introuble.
How do I slow down and not get too excited for him.

[Chris9087]

I think it's okay to be that way as long as you find someone who will reciprocate your feelings. Being a loving person is great, but it can also make you a target for abusive types.

[Anonymous]

you are a virgin and never had a relationship, right?

[Asker]

Wrong and wrong.

[Opinion Owner]

then you are desperate woman to void

[jahaims]

Learn to love yourself

[JoyGirl]

Were you shown love growing up?

[Asker]

Not much, no.

[JoyGirl]

Yeaaaa, I thought as much. That was the first thing that came to my mind.

[JoyGirl]

It is a subconscious trait you have learned.

[In_Trance]

is your age accurate?

[Asker]

Unfortunately...