Girls, How would you respond if you found out that the heartbreak consumed him?

[Anonymous]

Say he’s sad that the relationship ended and you find out that he’s been having severe depression and anxiety that has caused him to miss work and ultimately causes him to go homeless cause he has no income. Basically his life has fallen completely apart

[provokeesmokee]

Welp, sucks for him but clearly I dodged a bullet.

He's an adult. His life and his behaviour are his responsibility.

That he can't move past a break up and is continuing to look for validation from his ex are all pointing to an immaturity that makes why she broke up with him obvious.

Break ups suck, but they happen. And things way worse than break ups happen. Being resilient is a life skill. He can keep feeling sorry for himself, or he can process that grief and start to move on.

Sounds like he's dealing with a lot of emotion, and might find therapy helpful. Sometimes it's easier to get through hard times with support.

[Anonymous]

His problem, not mine.