Should I take her serious if she lost her V at 13 and got a total of 8 sexual partners at 16 to 17 she said she truly realises her mistakes?

[Anonymous]

[Robocod]

If you're looking for a relationship you're in for some bad surprises. They won't necessarily happen, but the chances are high.

Not because she became a woman at 13 but because the 8 partners in 1 year. Also, how many between 13 and 15?

Do you know if he ever cheated or dated multiple boys at the same time? In that case I'd walk away pretty fast.

[Asker]

What you mean became "a woman at 13" i said she lost her virginity at 13 and well I'm not too sure when she got a total of 8 but as far as I know she didn't cheat actually they cheated on her and also she only has two one night stands which she said she regretted

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

One thing you need to know. Does she have an extremely high sex drive? This is what I would look into to. If she is disease-free, is this that all matters? See, these are things I would wonder about her.

[Asker]

Thank you for you lovely opinion and yes she clean and everything just people judge me for thinking 8 is high but she is clean

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@Asker Best wishes on her and keep us in tune. You are welcome :)

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO :)

[Berethor]

Once a ho, always a ho, I don't that you should trust her.

[Asker]

Too right, ye once a dick has popped her vagina they can't stop

[ItsALongWayToTheTop]

Find someone else. But I know a hubby whose wife was way worse than this gal.

[Asker]

Tbh I wish I could find someone else but I'm 7 months invested now and I'm not a nasty person to just break her to bits

[Bricealan]

Just what "mistakes' are you talking about? I haven't heard you mention any mistakes she made?

[Asker]

Well clearly I just said 🙄 losing your virginity at 13 is that a good thing really! And racking up 8 sexual partners by age 16 to 17 don't get me wrong I love everything about her she's really sweet and kind but it's just off putting you know?

[Meropatrick]

To me thats too much. Also at 13? really? Very young. This shows that she comes from a very loose household. Either absent parents or they had little control over her

[Asker]

Tbh a bit of both I know she told me her dad left her life by 15 and that but I don't know other than that ye she said she regretted everything she did

[Meropatrick]

She can say all what she wants about regretting. doesn't mean she changed. Always make sure that the person u r dating comes from a stable good family. Its not only about the body count. But having sex that early is a red flag

[Asker]

And I 100% agree with you fully like but she's is kind and loving and supportive she was the one who got cheated on as I stated

[Drewtate]

Seriously mo but should have a few years of fun with her.

[Asker]

Maybe I will

[BourbonAndBacon]

Is she your only option? Why not aim a little higher?

[Asker]

She is technically my only option men don't have lists of women you know? You know how many men are sexless as of today and get hardly no women

[LazerBean]

She's his only option because they are on the same level of value.

[Asker]

@LazerBean phahaha shut up you sad little old feminist

[007kingifrit]

eeeeeh no probably not? she's still only 18 she isn't old enough to grow up much... but maybe? people DO change

[LazerBean]

Depends on what your body count is. If you're within 3 of hers then it's not going to matter much.

[Asker]

Let me tell you something a mans body count does not matter as much as a womans does right and the pure fact is because women are more valuable when it comes to sex plus I don't think men can walk outside and legit ask for sex like a woman can?

[LazerBean]

The sad, wishful thinking of a whore. Just tell me how many people youve whored yourself out to so that I can tell you the rate at which people in your failure bracket get divorced.

[Asker]

Being a little feminist doesn't suit you at all darling and tbh I'll stand proud by my count I've shagged 7 women, and they were mostly back in 2015 or 2016 the times where tech was obvs still growing and getting worse and by worse I mean you've got your little apps like Instagram and your little onlyfans where you can be little whore and take mens money and then trash talk us so don't give me a lecture about you can tell me about if I'm gonna get divorced hahaha who said I'm marrying her I don't do marriage. "Female feminist"

[LazerBean]

I'm more conservative than your parents ever were, so it's kind of silly for whore stock like yourself to speak to your superiors like that.

[Asker]

Love how you think a man can be a "whore" you ain't superior to no-one get a grip old woman.

[LazerBean]

That's a basic conservative belief. Conservatives also highly value marriage and deeply frown upon bastard child producers. Not that you would know, being the average and likely fatherless liberal that you are.

[Asker]

My mum and dad are still together you fucking old looking tramp if your 23 then I'm 15 you old looking witch of a woman stfu

[LazerBean]

That's very surprising, typically when two whores get together they don't stay together due to their damaged ability to bond. Like for example, are whore of your number is 50% likely to get divorced, and the stats are way worse when y'all are only shacking up. Or maybe your parents aren't whores and your just a huge disappointment

[Asker]

Listen you dumb ass woman stop commenting because your opinion is outdated and men can fuck around as much as possible and still not catch feelings that the difference between men and women you absolute reject sort your little wannabe feminist brain out 🤣

[LazerBean]

I'm very well aware that you liberals view conservative values as outdated, that's what makes a liberal a liberal

[Asker]

🤡🤡

[JamesRandiDebates]

Multiply any number she admits to by at least 3.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Nope. She is too young to know that.

[Asker]

What do you mean

[BoopBoopBeep]

she said she truly realises her mistakes

Nope she is too young to know that.

I don't know how to simplify that even more.

[Asker]

Nope don't date her what you mean she's kind and a supportive woman she's 22 now but she said she regrets everything she said she was foolish

[BoopBoopBeep]

I didn't say don't date her. I said don't take her serious. She's 22. She's not going to suddenly have some great leap of maturity. Doesn't mean you can't have fun.

[zagor]

That would be a slow weekend for a 1970's rock groupy.

[Asker]

That is not a valid answer I'm afraid

[DextroShade]

Recreational use only!

[Asker]

I mean I shouldn't but ye I'm invested now

[OddBeMe]

What were her mistakes?

[Asker]

Well I mean losing her v at 13 and racking up 8 bodies by a certain ages she's 22 and I don't know if that's bad

[OddBeMe]

I mean crude for me to judge. But those are incidental to what was her actual issues. Are you worried about her faithfulness or just don’t like the idea of her not losing her v card to you? Lots of guys expect that even they don’t adhere to it.

[riverrat3]

People are only human

[Asker]

I get that but to know 8 penises have probably ravaged her how am I supposed to stop the hesitation to go down on her

[riverrat3]

It did not hurt anything, and i am sure she has cleaned herself

[zeitgeist057]

yeah you might not be sexually mature enough for this relationship, better to find someone more inexperienced like yourself.

[Asker]

@zeitgeist057 I'll think you find I'm more than sexually mature thanks just because I think that body count is bad don't strike me as sexually insecure matey

[zeitgeist057]

"how am I supposed to stop the hesitation to go down on her" is a statement that to me shows immaturity. That you think 8 partners is a big number is another. I'm sure you probably think you're really mature; a lot of children who are just becoming adults do. It's not really something you can argue about with them, because they don't know what they don't know.

It sounds like she's your only option, though. So you get what you get and don't throw a fit. Which it honestly sounds like you've got an awesome lady, the only issue I see is your attitude about sex. Get over the past and on with the present. Otherwise she's on with 9, and going to have to keep looking.

[Asker]

@zeitgeist057 I'm 24 year's old I'm not a child just because I have my view's, anything beyond 5 sex partners for a woman is a joke and when you say she's my only option ye she is but she's my only option because trying to get a woman as a man is near fucking impossible in this society and one thing you're right about she is an awesome lady she's friendly, kind and supportive. But don't try give me the "otherwise she's on with 9" because I'm pretty sure she's the one badly wanting me and I'm the one wanting to keep my individuality but if you so claim she'd get fucked by another is absurd like legit she acts like she's all for me. How am I immature though for the thought of 8 dicks inside her pussy. Plus I seen a chart too that a woman was showing and it's funny how in 1970s women with body count of 10+ was legit 1% why? oh maybe because it was frowned upon to have anywhere close to that

[zeitgeist057]

"for a woman" <- this shows sexism, which is another red flag.
" trying to get a woman as a man is near fucking impossible in this society" <- not really, despite all the incel propaganda, women are typically friendly and easy to interact with, it's not changed drastically. People are a little more withdrawn due to phone addiction, but it's still far from "impossible".

Your hang up with "the thought of 8 dicks inside her pussy" is the main issue, though. Let me put it another way. You are either going to be with this lady or not. Let's say you've decided to stay with her. So your options down that path are:

1. Stay with her, and let this thought "8 dicks inside her pussy" repeat itself over and over in your head, driving you mad. Preventing you from wanting to go down on her. Creating distance between the two of you (that she is either in the dark about the reason for it, or you are telling her and therefore blaming/shaming/making the distance you are creating "her fault").

2. Get over it. Forget about those past guys. It's all in your head, and you can let it bother you like the scenario above, or you can exert some mental discipline and control your own attitude. Appreciate all the good things about her; actually love and care for her. This is what I'm talking about with maturity, not your age. Enjoy your life for the good things, not whinge and moan and focus on all the things you don't like.

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[zeitgeist057]

tldr: you can be upset about it or not. But realize that a mature person with mental discipline makes that a CHOICE, not something they have no control over.

[slatyb]

What mistakes?

[Asker]

Basically well like I said she lost her V at 13 year's of age and racked up 8 sexual partners at age 16 to 17 only two were one night stands but ye I don't know I like her a lot and she's really kind and nice but it just bothers me I want to go down but I hesitate and stop wanting to

[slatyb]

This is your problem not years. She had some experiences that she may or may not regret, but unless she was permanently headed they weren't mistakes. 13? That's much to young to call anything she did a mistake. Her part is important. What's important? Her future, v and her potential future with you.

[Tharithi]

dated them or had sec?

[Asker]

So basically she told me she had two which was "one nights" but I won't lie she said the rest was all relationships but the guys were cheating on her

[Asker]

And yes sex

[Tharithi]

Ashick paedo

[Asker]

Try make sense please

[Anonymous]

Seriously, only 8?

[Asker]

You say it like it's ok

[Anonymous]

Nope

[Asker]

Explain why then

[Opinion Owner]

Too many sexual partners, how do you know she could be trusted

[Opinion Owner]

I assume she’s an adult now right

[Asker]

She's 22 years old ye

[Nemesis2k7]

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