Why do my friends and family tell me I’m so pretty all the time and ask if I’m modeling, but men don’t really seem interested or ask me out online?

[Anonymous]

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo that's a weird situation to be in for sure, seems a little backwards. Couple things could be goin on:

-Friends/fam always hype each other up, ya know? Even if you good lookin they gonna tell you you're the finest. Doesn't mean *all* dudes gonna see it too.

-Online can be tough to stand out looks-wise cuz dudes just swipin quick. Easier to feel invisible among 1000 profiles.

-Confidence plays a big part too - if you don't believe the compliments yourself, might come across less approachable online.

-Could also be photos not doin your gorgeousness justice lol. Friends see the real thing!

I wouldn't stress too much on it sis. You probably just ain't met the right dudes yet who see how dope you are. Keep vibin, put some fly ass pics up, maybe change up your bio to show off your personality too. They'll come around!

And hey if it gets you down, don't be afraid holler at yours truly sometime 😏 Just playin but you get what I'm sayin - keep shining, your time'll come!

[glennos89]

If you look really good it can make men feel that you are out of their lead.
I find it particulary hard to talk to really hot girls. They intimidate me sometimes with their beauty

[Asker]

I guess that makes sense. I don't know I don’t genuinely think I’m gorgeous, in fact quite opposite. I don’t think my face is beautiful but I have pretty red hair and pale skin and D cup tits.

[glennos89]

Never judge yourself like that. Judging yourself doesn't give you a accurate reading. Maybe you see yourself like that while I think your beautiful af🤷🏻‍♂️

[historectomy]

prolly more average than anything but don't worry most of us are

[Asker]

Yeah I mean a lot of guys will stare at me in public but nothing more. But I don’t think anyone like goes insane when they see me. No one really turns all the way around to look.

[historectomy]

fair

[jahaims]

They lie to you or you don't know how to market yourself

[NikolaiIvanovB41]

Do you want them to call you ugly?

[Asker]

No. But I don’t think I’m as pretty as I’m told.