If you had to choose long term lust or short term love which one you pick?

[coachTanthony]

Long term lust

Short term love

[blueonblack22]

Long term lust might be possible but short term love isn’t true love.

There is only one woman I truly had that feeling for in my life and it was a girl I dated many years ago.

True love isn’t about possession. It’s truly wanting what’s best for someone including if they would be better off without you. That is by far the most painfully difficult acid test for to know if it’s genuine selfless love or not. It’s not short term either. I still feel that way about her.

Hopefully people don’t have to experience that kind of test in relationships. However it sometimes happens to people.

[FunkyMonkee]

Lust. At least I know I'm getting pussy on a regular basis and it's gonna be nothing BUT pussy!! And, I don't have to be involved in trying to become emotionally attached whereas, if I chose love, there'd BE an emotional attachment and, when it all ends in a few weeks/months, it's gonna hurt a lot more and will have been a complete waste of time and emotional effort!

[sheenagwapa]

i don't like love that is short term because I don't know i just wanr forever... when it comes to lust i honestly don't know who j am i cannot say i'm innocent but also not promiscuous. i think love and lust for me is intertwined. correction there's a movie in my country my lady boss i can relate so much to the lead female character

[Bethany22]

I've never loved anyone before, so I would give short term love a try just to see what it feels like. Long-term lust would also be quite the accomplishment though. It's pretty difficult to be listing after someone for long periods of time

[Leowolf13]

I hope you find good love. It changes your life. Shakespeare was right when he said “better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all” I may have heartbreak now but my life is more meaningful with it.

[Bethany22]

@Leowolf13 Thank you 😊

[AviatorTom]

Lust for me, it's easier to deal with than love.

[NathanDavis]

true love can feel timeless... I very much prefer that

[OfMiceandMen]

I'd go for the long term lust as long as she wasn't into having long term lust with three other people.

[Srose66]

Neither really. I'd rather be alone. I think love is a manipulative tool for narcissists to take advantage of good people.

[RavVid]

Love has lustful results. Whether lust results in love is maybe questionable but generally it seems to.

So long term lust is twofer.

[exitseven]

I will take the lust. I don't know why. It is probably the opposite of what I would do but maybe that's the point.

[RobT312]

Lust never feels as good as love , so I’d go with love

[Sharkstealth]

Hot girls and guys tend to flock to me but in my childhood growing up I never felt any bit of compassion or emotional bonding. I doubt I will ever know any form of love or lust in my life.

[Leowolf13]

Although lust is fun, there nothing like receiving someone’s love, holding them tenderly in your arms and telling each other you love one another. Even if it doesn’t work out, there’s a love in the purest form that stays with you forever.

[Slim57]

Short term love since it would end quickly instead of a long term lust that would also eventually end

[magiusX26]

neither option is acceptable to me lust is for short term and actual love is for the long run.

[molonski2]

Dont think its an either / Or , think it depends on the circumstances at the time , if in the correct head space - Long time , if going though changing times - Short and lustful.

[RedInnocent68]

It’s possible to have both. I think I’m more afraid of falling out of lust though 🤔

[Anemone978]

I would never want a short term love.. that sounds really bad.. So I will go with long term lust because at least they find you sexy and attractive for a long time so they would stay around LOL

[Jamie05rhs]

That doesn't make any damn sense. If it's long term, then it's love. You can't be with someone that long and not love them.
(I'm assuming by "long-term" you mean at least 30-40 years.)

[fluffybear123]

Short term love. I wouldn’t want to waste my time on someone that doesn’t want to commit.

[Guardian45]

I choose Long-term Lust, because I've had my heart broken more than once in Love.
Once burned; twice shy; thrice terrified; fourth mental breakdown.

[LiamJHayden]

Short term love. I'm past the lust period in my development. At least till I have a midlife crisis.

[Simslover92]

How about long term love ftw

[Counterclocking]

When choosing a female companion, I want a woman that’s good looking.

[Anonymous]

I want blowjobs ever day not for a short term.

[Anonymous]

Well definitely not short term love. But I'm not sure what you mean by "long term lust".

[mobiusforniner]

Love, because I’ll learn more from it

[Jazzy54]

Neither. I want long term love.

[Cheerfull009]

I am not for long time lust, I like Love, which may be for long even short term

[clampfan101]

Lust is meaningless without love.

[Wise4myage]

Id pick short term lust.

[msc545]

Long-term lust. Short-term love is very painful.

[colaman94]

Like the sound of that long term I voted 😀

[elizamichale1]

Long term lust

[Fireguy17]

Long term love,

[Maddy2002_]

Definitely Lust.

[Fuentes]

Lust ofc