Love or lust? Which one would you prefer?

[rahul_24]

Comparing the pros and cons depending which one suits you. Also, take into account the person which is also have similar opinions and the consequences. Both also had downsides but which is worst and why?

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Noticed a trend where most guys prefer lust with few for love and vice-versa for girls.

[wini1234]

Love
Pros-
Stablity
Deep connection
Emotional satisfaction
Someone always there no matter what.
Incredible sex
Cons-
Emotional drama
Dependency
can't get over the dependency because its love

Lust-
Pros-
First makeouts are always good
No drama
U can always change if u feel violated in any way.
Orgasm
U dont have to worry about hurting someone in self pleasure
cons-sometimes lust leads to love and if the partner dosent feel the same u will end up getting hurt

[rahul_24]

I was unable to see your opinion, wasn't displaying on the app. Sorry

Very thoughtful so what would prefer?

[Drener]

I rather have love because.. whenever u truly love someone.. You would actually tc of that person , , respect and so much more.. and ur love one could be your best friend as well and so much more

If u have lust
You are just basically saying I dc shit about u I just want what u got give it to me and I'll move on

Those are my opinions

But I rather do LOVE over lust

[rahul_24]

Can see your point, I agree with that feeling

[hanzohasashi]

there is no more love just lust all we guys care about is to get laid and after we are bored with the curent chick we just dump her and move on

girls are the same they are always bitching about i can't find a reall men that loves me bitch he was there you told him you just wannet to be friends

[rahul_24]

Agree with your point but not all girls are like that

[hanzohasashi]

well name one

[djmzes]

Yes it is normal to see the trend cuz it is us who have created the trend.

It is the two sides of the same coins.

[djmzes]

Girls said they want love, but their action show they want lust... and guys are visual... they are logical and so they judge based on what they see.
So no matter how much girls can say they want love, but their actions will say thr opposite... girls gonna end up in lust relationship which a love mask on it.

[rahul_24]

I know, exactly, you hit on point

[heavensoul8]

Love. The bad and good is the beauty of it all. Everything that you go through with your partner strength your relationship. The foundation of love let you see the world in so many many ways of life that will teach us how to love, care , understand, and etc.. and that's life. Nothing comes easy, when you put in effort sometimes miracles will happen and inspiring stories come alive. Any even if the negative arise in love, that's alright... learn from it and better yourself for the next person who will love you the right ways , treat you better, have self love. Nothing more beautiful then unconditional love regardless of the cons and pros.

[Madkeyra00]

Both. Lust is good for shot term and love for the long term. Maybe it can start off as lust and turn into love.

[rahul_24]

Interesting, didn't thought of it

[LaozNAKKALA]

Love. Finding that person and creating a deep connection between each other and having those memories together. Most of the time it can last. But as soon as you break up it hurts for awhile.

Lust can just be a fling, no strings attached. For some people it can make them feel needed and wanted. But it can leave some people feeling like a piece of meat.

[rahul_24]

So which one you prefer

[homie3112]

Lust. Not so hard to get over. Feels good. Can turn into something, but doesn't have to. No expectations to talk to one another every hour. Not too clingy. If it's hot, it's hot. Lust.

[Kushal1515]

HM need to talk girl. texr me asap

[Lu_loo]

Love! Their can be much lust in the person you are in love with! You don’t have to sacrifice the lust for love! A healthy relationship will bring you BOTH.

[Jackieboi]

With love comes lust, not all the time but when it comes it comes so much stronger

[Jackieboi]

Update: Shocking trend

[rahul_24]

Yeah I agree, sometimes it's tough to kno that lust is just lust or true love

[Jackieboi]

I meant first follows the second but the second doesn't follow the first

[MsShy87]

I will always choose love over lust. I'm too old for meaningless, temporary fixes anymore.

[UnknownTroll]

I prefer love because I’m a suck for it. I love the emotional connection, intimacy and trust it brings

[nofunkgiven]

Love is better of course. It's not temporary, it lasts longer if not forever, it's more responsible and deeper

[Malita55]

Love of course because love contains lust while lust is just lust

[Ajit123456in]

It's not so

[Factshurt90]

Love always. The more loved I feel the lustier I get for them in relationships.

[Jltakk]

I just prefer love at this point. Someone just happy to be near me is enough.

[rahul_24]

Same here, someone who cares and vice-versa

[African_Queen0309]

Love because with love comes lust but with lust comes with pleasure only.

[Juxtapose]

Lust. It's less complicated and love is meaningless without it anyways.

[Anon-ymous1]

Good point.

[Juxtapose]

@Anon-ymous1 Thanks.

[Just_A_Guy2018]

Neither, women are to dangerous for men to interact with. Safer to record all interaction with them and be able to produce evidence clearing you of any wrong doing to her false accusation.

[SpunkNugget]

I prefer a nice Christian friendly relationship, no holding hands till 3 months after marriage and 69 hail Mary's!

[rahul_24]

Damn

[Anonymous]

Both with the same person. If i can't get both i want love

[taleswapper]

Lust. Love doesn't get me laid. :)

[rahul_24]

Lol but it does if you found the connection :)

[taleswapper]

Not if the connection has no lust.

[Kanohpie]

well played

[rahul_24]

Lol true

[PrincessPie]

Love, always.

[Anon-ymous1]

Lust sounds pretty good to me. Dunno which "pros and cons" you're talking about.