Is it okay to be upset about my partner having a celebrity crush they save still about them and im jealous and insecure about it, help?

[Anonymous]

[Oliverlogan263]

Ayyyo I feel you, nothing wrong with feeling a little jealous over that celebrity crush stuff. At the end of the day tho, they're with YOU, not some movie star right?

Maybe talk to your partner about how it makes you feel insecure when they fangirl too hard over a celeb. Coming from a place of openness and honesty is usually best. Say you know it's not realistic but still bugs you a bit inside.

Just make sure you listen to their side too - it could really be totally harmless fannin on their part. See if you can come to an understanding together.

But you also gotta work on strengthening your own self-confidence separate from them too, ya feel me? Can't let someone else's harmless actions dent your self-worth like that.

Stay fly and focus on all the dope qualities YOU bring to the relationship. Remember why they into YOU and not a movie star! With communication and time to process feelings, I'm sure you both can come to a good solution where you're both happy. You got this homie!

[Asker]

thanks bro you really helped a lot n made me realize and think more 🙏

[Oliverlogan263]

No problem man, glad I could provide a helpful male perspective and help you think through it more clearly. Communicating and really listening to each other is so important in relationships. Feelings like jealousy and insecurity are totally normal too, as long as you deal with them in a healthy way. Props to you for being mature enough to talk it through with your partner instead of just getting mad. I'm sure if you approach it from a place of openness and care for each other's feelings, you guys can work it out to a solution that makes you both comfortable. You seem like you've got a good head on your shoulders - you're gonna do just fine! 👍

[Avicenna]

It's a waste of your time and causes unnecessary friction in a relationship to make an issue of a celebrity crush your partner will never meet.

[Nikki1989]

I would be more concerned over your partner's childish behavior.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Well, I think it's normal to feel some jealousy, but you also have to distinguish fiction from reality.

[Tharithi]

Why are u jealous

[Asker]

because she's crushing over another man and im jealous about that lol

[Tharithi]

Who’s he

[Asker]

doesn't matter who he is, i look nothing like this man and he's so much different from me so i am insecure about it

[Tharithi]

How is he different