How can I stop being jealous and insecure about her guy friend?

[Anonymous]

I just tend to overthink everything and get stuck thoughts about it I don't know what to do I don’t want it to ruin what I have with her.

[ohsheeT]

Well first of all you have to understand and accept that you cannot make anybody love you either they do or they don't and you have to understand that it's a 50/50 chance that they will be with you or they won't you have no control over it the only thing that you can do is be yourself and put into whatever you're going to put into your relationship to make it the best relationship possible and I mean that's it right there you have to either accept that she's with you because she loves you because she wants to be with you or not and if you don't and if you think that she's doing something then you need to get out of that relationship because otherwise you will destroy whatever kind of friendship that you have with her

[Asker]

Thank you for the advice!

[In_Trance]

It's already ruined. It's not gonna change. Move on

[Wise4myage]

I say focus on finding yourself a girl to date.

[Asker]

I’m dating her

[Wise4myage]

Oh sorry. Then stop being so sinecure.

[Anonymous]

Don't stop. He's probably fucking her as we speak