Guys, How to stop being jealous of my best friend because she has a boyfriend and all the male attention (+ guy friends)?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been best friends with this girl since 4th grade and I love her more than anything but I’m jealous of the fact she has a boyfriend. She’s dated at least 4 guys and I ever never even been friends or held a non school related conversation with a guy (unless he knew her and he happened to be in the same convo.) it makes me feel like shit because I don’t know what she’s doing that puts her so far ahead with guys than me. She always tells me about all the couple stuff she does and will casually talk about her male friends and I feel like a weird guy replant monster by comparison. I’ve tried talking to her guy friends but they all only like her and have no interest in even really talking to me (aside from one who tried to use me to make her jealous) How do I get over this when I wish I was her?

[britishbby]

I'll give u attention 😂 just find common interests or do what u want, u can get any guy if u offer him a shag but if ur not into that then u gotta learn to wait and pic guys that u have common ground with

[RealDaveThomas]

I'll never understand why a girl need guy "friends", if she already has a boyfriend

She's not 5 years old, anymore

[Asker]

We’re teenagers you have to be friends with guy before you date them (can’t just drop the other male friends you have once you start dating) + if it would be weird to block off friendship with 1/2 the population just because you're not gonna fuck them.

[RealDaveThomas]

But that's the point, my dad's not "friends" with other women, why does he need to be. He's been married 35+

[Asker]

That’s because men have some weird thing about only seeing women as potential sex partners unless their his mother or daughter. Women don’t have that issue because we see 90% men as normal platonic people besides sex. Personally I’m never once in my life looked at a man and thought of sex but I have definitely thought “he looks friendly, I could talk to him”

[RealDaveThomas]

HAHHAHAH

You are too funny

HAHAHHA

You should be a comedian

[Asker]

No idea how men live walking around only wanting sex from half the planet and missing out on friends bcs of it. Sounds like literal hell.

[Agagagagaga]

You know what’s worse? Walking around wanting to fuck half the planet and being completely invisible to them, because women see “90% of men as platonic friends.” It’s a special kind of hell to want others more than they want you.

In fact you know all about it. Your friend gets all the attention from guys and you don’t. Don’t worry. You’ll be fine. You’re a woman. That fact alone means that there are dozens and dozens of guys who are attracted to you.

[Guy13]

What are you good at?

[Asker]

Gardening, writing, softball, cooking, singing, painting those are my big hobbies I’d say I’m above average to pretty good at

[Guy13]

Well there you go... and all she has is guys who do not really like her but just want to get in her pants !!! Your Value is not determined by "number of guys who pay you attention"

[Anonymous]

Find yourself a boyfriend.