Ladies? Would you settle down with a guy who performs poorly in bed but is an excellent man otherwise?

[TheHillsRAlive]

My boyfriend is gorgeous, chivalrous, generous and calm. Bedroom charisma is sorely bad and no I haven't had a ton of experienced lovers...

I'm willing to stay and see what happens. Would you stay? OR the physical aspect more important?

Yes, I'd stay

Nope- I need frequent trips to "poundtown"

I've given you the most detailed response known to planet earth

[IslaTheWitch]

It's your choice. I decided to stay with a guy like that. After some time, it became really frustrating. Especially with time, as you learn your body better and better.

So, if you need peace and stability, it's a very good choice. If you need an adventure and thrill... I wouldn't go this way.

[smashleyy]

I would be willing to be patient if he was willing to improve, communication was good, and it wasn’t a chemistry issue. Otherwise no. Sex is a huge part of a healthy relationship

[Likes2drive]

Probably need to communicate with him on what you like, he probably thinks he is doing fine if you don’t say anything, guys like women to be direct with things, even with sex

[TheHillsRAlive]

Any suggestions on what to say? I don't what to just say "I'm not satisfied" without a solution. There are going to be days I crave to be filled up or pounded and he's just not able to do that due to his body particulars. I have to really be okay with the rest of him.

[Likes2drive]

Does he need to go to the gym for more stamina? Maybe watch porn together and point out a few things you would like it to be like and try

[TheHillsRAlive]

He has a smaller member than average - not sure that gym or anything will help that.

[Likes2drive]

Then I guess he needs to get better at Oral

[Dinklex3]

I feel like that’s something you can work on. Especially since he is generous and calm.

[shuzen]

Maybe you can work around it? Communicate? For me hmmm I don't know... it is a part of romance to be intimate so I guess I would like it to be good and emotional... since otherwise he would be just my friend... especially at this age.

[catarecute]

yes i can pleasure myself tbh. i always pleasure myself men rarely pleasure me.

[4ngelic]

yea cos you can make him good

[Agape93]

Sure. I can get laid elsewhere

[orangecherry]

Sex isn't THAT important