As a woman will you marry down (decent guy) to a man who isn't no where near close to your accomplishments and salary or do you see him as less than?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Don't try to BS the question.

[lilyanony1]

I dated a guy I really liked.
He is funny, handsome, cheeky, charming, gentlemanly and made me feel safe.
He left school with very few qualifications and was only just getting his life on track, he earned very little but he made a special effort to make me feel like a million pounds...
I didn't care what other people said, he was good enough for me.
But people aren't kind, imagine going out with me and someone telling you "you're punching above your weight with her!"
It's one thing to think it or feel it but when others see it too...
It's devastating.
I personally didn't see it that way.

But when you're unmatched and can't do all you think you need to, to please a person who you think is out of your league. You start making rookie mistakes and putting your hat where you can't reach it. It's not advisable to do this unless the man is confident in what he brings to the table.

[VIVANT]

I don’t think of people in terms of superficial conventional milestones. To me what matters is his heart, his fortitude, his honesty, his respect, our snooty to get along well together, communicate, team up, and the chemistry.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I love your mind. 👍👍

[VIVANT]

I really mean it too.

Thank you 🙏🏼

[BJP21]

@VIVANT High five girl.

[VIVANT]

@BJP21

🙌🏼 🙌🏼

[Exterminatore]

@VIVANT

Off topic but do you speak Latin? Your name means to “live” or “they live”in Latin.

[Guy13]

I have seen this work in the following context: He worked two jobs in the beginning during their dating. He carried her from engagement, marriage, and through until graduate school completion. She made 6 figures out the box. He quit a job. I love being around them. He is still her hero... ideal man.

[KittyKat90210]

You said he's a decent guy and that's all that matters. If he's a good person then he has all the accomplishments I care about.