How do you know if you are not a priority to your boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

[petitedollbabee]

He prioritises other things in his life over you - such as friends, work and hobbies. There’s nothing wrong with him spending time with friends, but you’re no longer a priority when he’s spending 80% of his time with them and only 20% with you.


He’s not willing to come to your aid when you need him. And he’s also not interested in spending as much time with you, than you are with him. He’ll come up with excuses not to come to your aid or see you a lot of the time.


He doesn’t make any effort to make you happy or keep your needs fulfilled. He doesn’t care for your love language and he is usually only focused on himself and his own needs. He’s not willing to compromise on many things.

[Asker]

Thank you so much! This helped a lot.

[Anonymous]

If you have to ask that question, you are probably far from a priority.

[NavyOU37]

I can promise you. If you act feminine, treat him with respect, and not be like 95% of the self-centered women these days, and he’s not in the top 10% of men (that last part is important because those men are players) he will make you a priority

[Harry_mm]

Just if you were the one who asks first always, make sure that you are not a priority

[Wise4myage]

He ignores you and he'd rather hang out with friends.

[jahaims]

He doesn't make you a priority...