Does race matter to you when dating?

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I'm just curious.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I truly believe it matters more to women then it matters to men. However they will never admit it. Western leftist white women especially won’t ever admit it. But it’s true. They subconsciously think about what their kids will look like even if they never plan on having any. That’s a big reason they think more racial differences compared to men.

Anyway it’s not “racist” if you don’t find a particular race attractive. Reason being is attraction is not a choice. You either feel physically attracted to someone (to whatever extent) or you don’t. Respect is a choice though. How you treat a person of a different race or even within your same race is a choice.

And speaking of inter-racism. I’ve known that black men have long had this problem with black women. But lately leftist white women have been getting off on putting down white guys for there so called racial characteristics. They aren’t just putting down redneck white guys either but any white guy for what whatever reason.

It’s really asinine and needs to stop no matter what race you are.

caring__1 · Accepted Answer

Color of skin, hair or eyes, or shape of features are all irrelevant to me. On the other hand, mannerisms that seem to be common in certain groups do matter to me. Certain mannerisms and sound of voice can be like nails scraping over a blackboard to me. Maybe the mannerisms are promoted so people feel inclusive in a group, but they can also alienate others outside that group. I prefer subtleties in all areas, yet a lot of these mannerisms are anything but subtle. What I'm saying is things out of a person's control I tend to be accepting of, while their personal choices are a different matter.

You can't say the mannerisms are out of the person's control, as I've encountered many people who are different from me who have chosen to not duplicate these caricatures. I remember being stationed in Texas while I was in the Air Force. I encountered people who were caricatures of caricatures. I've never understood the reasons for these extremes, as they're harsh to the senses.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

Not at all.

I have seen some amazing, white, Asian and black guys and my first love was Asian.

I totally loved him more than I could imagine.

Whoever, I meet in future, their race will be of the least importance.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It's their physical attraction their personality the way they treat you. If people only focused on the outside color never get to see the true color from the heart.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

No. I am Caucasian and I have dated several Asian women and an American Indian woman.

Holsen · Answer

When dating it doesn’t matter much since that if you are dating then you find the other person attractive and thus there’s no need to be picky about the race, as in dates the person is the most important thing to be focused on, since wether it’s beautiful or not is prejudiced by you since you are at the stage of dating!!

Sonorous · Answer

As much as I would like for it to not matter. I noticed a pattern that I have a preference for other races that aren't my own. Of course, I still find women of my race attractive if they have an attractive face, but they're still not my ideal type so I probably wouldn't go for them. Many even remind me too much of my own family & it would feel too weird to be with them.

abc3643 · Answer

No, it matters when I'm at the track or at an OTB. Like this famous race 50 years ago... (I really should have gone that day, but I watched on TV instead.)

slatyb · Answer

Yes. It has to be Formula One. I would never date a NASCAR woman.

mandyfire98 · Answer

Not at all. My girlfriend is white and my boyfriend is a black guy.

Andres77 · Answer

It didn’t, no. First wife was black and Panamanian second wife was black and Native American. Last wife was Colombian. I’m done now…

Nikki1989 · Answer

Somewhat. You need to have some things in common.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Nope. If I’m attracted to her, not sure why that would be a big deal. Does it matter to you?

HelpfulWoman · Answer

yes since I'm not sexually attracted to non white men, so that's all i go for.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Nah, not really.. My ex was "White", and I went on a couple of times with some Latinas and a "Black" woman..

Drewtate · Answer

No. I'd date an African woman but never an African American woman

Anonymous · Answer

Not completely although, I don't think I'd want kids with a black girl. Dating her, no problem. Having kids with her, not thrilled with the idea.

Bricealan · Answer

No. I dated a woman from Trinidad for several years. Loved her dearly

RavVid · Answer

If I like a girl, I like a girl. So no it doesn't matter.

maroon_eyez · Answer

I like dating different races.. it doesn't matter at all.. Good vibes, personality and some physical attraction is enough

KostasKouvalis · Answer

No blacks and no Orientals. Everyone else is fine

Bobbysworld · Answer

Not at all. I actually prefer it. Does it matter to you?

In_Trance · Answer

I guess that depends which race we're going to see Boston Marathon? Indy 500?

leahzrc · Answer

Not for me if I am attracted to them

MasterKS · Answer

I better try different races and enjoying the variations.

Cocoamoon · Answer

No, not really it’s more about personality and how they respect people

Maddy2002_ · Answer

No it’s their character. And if we click.

colaman94 · Answer

I think white girls seem to prefer me

Kaneki05 · Answer

Not racist, so nope.

collie22 · Answer

If your my type it's fine

Yannae · Answer

It doesn't matter at all.

Harry_mm · Answer

No, of course not Anyway, I'm single 🥲🥲

LiamJHayden · Answer

To me, not at all.

NathanDavis · Answer

it doesn't

Enginn · Answer

Not really if we like each other

Kimchi_doll · Answer

Not at all

BLP11520 · Answer

If I were able to date it would not matter.

dolemite58 · Answer

i prefer dating outside my race tbh

overthinkergirl · Answer

nope

Kelly6 · Answer

not at all

lilBigPotato · Answer

No don't care

TiaNour · Answer

not really

swettannie · Answer

yes it does

bowenw · Answer

Never

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Nah.

dudeinohio · Answer

Nope

Adogdog · Answer

Not really :)

Benedikt_lol · Answer

100% Yes

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Not at all

Bigjake1995 · Answer

Nope

riverrat3 · Answer

Nope

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