Does race matter in dating?

[Anonymous]

I’m Indian I’m fit, over 6ft, My face is good, well groomed. I’m told I’m handsome. female/male friends recently told me I have everything going for me. I have my life setup in a great career with very wealthy parents.

I’m genuinely a good guy, I’ve always wanted a serious girlfriend, never been after hookups:

Women only gravitate towards white attractive men. They can be poor, just attractive. They get 99% of the matches and ALL attention. I get little attention on dating apps nor in person much

I’ve messed on dating apps and only handsome white men get ALL THE GIRLS. I’ve tried everything, nothing changes, it’s ridiculous.

Here I am wanting a serious relationship for 5 years and being disappointed constantly. I’ve had enough! 😤

After much harsh introspect I conclude the world is for white men not indian men. The whole world hates us. We are seen as beneath everyone.

Women suck. There’s nothing more I can do. You can have it all and it’s not enough

Race matters

No it doesn’t

[Anonymous]

Do you live in a predominantly white area? If yes then you need to move. Don’t blame those women for having a racial preference if all they’ve known is white people. I’m Asian, I live in a mostly white area but I still prefer to date other Asians because I can relate to them more culturally. Maybe you need to find an Indian girl. Some people are just more comfortable dating within their own race, doesn’t make them racist.

[jennifer_bloom]

I do not care about race but I care about cultural values, fitness, health, biometrics, and lifestyle compatibility.

[RebelinSteel]

Not really. Attitude and how a person is, are areas that are far more important. It’s really more down to who is available in a given area, for example, me trying to date a Latino would be laughable, as there are likely 1 or 2 families so SA, which means I would never even try it.

[Siri137]

I'd be willing to bet that you haven't "tried everything". You mention "apps". Well, that's not the way to find a romantic partner. Everyone online is fake, especially on those dating sites. What you need to do is go out into the REAL world, and meet REAL people, in REAL life. Forget the stupid "apps", they never work.

[Asker]

I’ve gone up to women in real life and been rejected pretty badly. I see these girls simp for just white men, they’re not even tall, but they’re white.

[Siri137]

Are the girls who "simp" also white? You say you're Indian, so why don't you try to find an Indian girl? Or are they rejecting you as well?

[Asker]

There’s none in my area

[Siri137]

Then look elsewhere, beyond your area, if it means that much to you.

[Asker]

That would be even less likely to work.

You know really attractive guys can treat women like shit and they are still begging for them. Unless you’re in the 2% of looking men it’s over in modern society. Unless you have the most amazing personality.

Either way it’s complete bullshit.

[Siri137]

So you're not even willing to try, to exert yourself, but would rather just bitch and moan about how awful women are because apparently they don't like you. Well, tough cheddar! You're carrying on like a typical no-hoper right now, and with your attitude I would reject you as well.

[Asker]

Bro as soon as I go up to wome I almost know I’m gonna be rejected and usually my friends look at me in shock like how tf aren’t you getting girls

[Siri137]

It's your ATTITUDE! It sucks.

[Abbycado]

“I’m genuinely a good guy”

”Women suck”

Yeah, you come off as a real nice guy 🙄

[Asker]

If you attempt to understand anything I’ve just written, then yeah it’s a fair conclusion. I deserve so so much better!

[Abbycado]

No, you think you’re entitled to it. If you attempt to understand what you have just written, you’ll come to that conclusion.

[Asker]

If you’re treated like shit from a group of people are you going to have a high opinion of them?

Do women have any accountability?

[Asker]

If I have everything going for me, then yes I should feel entitled to find a partner.

It’s like if you work really hard, you feel entitled to pass an exam. Same logic.

[Siri137]

Yes, we do have accountability, but males such as yourself like to pretend we're all pampered, entitled and irresponsible. That's not true at all.

[Abbycado]

What has accountability have to do with what you’re whining about?

[Asker]

@Siri137 all women do is put on a bit of makeup, wear a nice dress and feel entitled to the best looking man out there.

Women only want the men that other want. That’s why in dating apps. The top 1% of men received literally all of the women

[Asker]

Women will never accept fault in themselves. Women will always blame men for everything. Like I’ve gone up to girls and just been treated like shit.

There’s nothing more I can do. You all suck. I don’t deserve to be treated like shit by every girl.

[Siri137]

Forget about the stupid dating apps! That's your first big mistake right there! You're relying upon something that's basically useless.

[Asker]

@Siri137 no I’ve gone up to girls in person and been rejected pretty badly for simply saying hello.

[Abbycado]

Accept faults has what to do with liking an unlikable guy?

[Asker]

These conversations are pointless. You just want to attack me and put me down.

If you lived the same experience with men you’d be the first to think men suck.
Women actually have low opinions of men because of the top 2% of men that reject them. The rest of men are literally invisible to women 🫥

[pergamon300]

Ye, would only date my own race.

[DaisyM23]

it shouldn't matter but it does sadly

[Anonymous]

Race is a preference

[Asker]

With everyone having the same preference

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t know what everybody likes everybody’s different

[Anonymous]

I'm guessing it does to a lot of people.

[TheDaydreamer]

no apps