Are you content single?

[cth2284]

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I'd have to say yes for the most part - I'm always open to friendship, but don't want a romantic relationship. Next January will make 12 years single and I've gotten use to be single

[kellytd]

Most days, yes. Some days it's difficult. Lonely. It's fine, most days. Free time, quiet time, less to worry over, and more money for yourself. "If you're bored when alone, then you're in bad company." ... However, whatever you have, sometimes you wish you had someone to share it with.

[m1tch3ll]

no, just got broken up with and i need someone else to validate me so i dont feel insecure but if i ask then that make it worse

[Middleman]

Not really no, but I have to live with it because that's what life has given me up until now. Luckily things have changed recently so we'll see. But in a different life my grandad wanted me to get married at the age of 17. Sadly he passed on a few years earlier before I could reach that goal.

[syncheart]

I've been single my whole life because I haven't met any females that I click with. At least not for very long. I'm not content because I get lonely and horny at the same time, and then I get depressed.

[cth2284]

More to life than sex I rather be single and alone than settle for someone who doesn't even value me or isn't compatible with me. This generation sucks with dating no lie way to oversexualized and noone seems to have morals anymore

[cth2284]

Folks are sharing each other and there's too many stds out here

[syncheart]

I agree that I don't want someone that isn't compatible. And I agree that there is more to life then sex. However I get horny and can't help it. But I kinda need a help mate because I can't completely take care of myself. I got some issues like a learning disability. I'm limited on what I'm able to do. As a result I still live with my poor 70 year old parents.

[cth2284]

I'm sorry to hear that I take care of my own needs physically mentally emotionall and sexually everyone wants to have sex rather than build relationships nowadays.. it's not worth it.

[cth2284]

I date women and its the same outcome folks want to have sex

[syncheart]

It is pretty natural for people to want to have sex. Before puberty I didn't have much interest in girls. They were just people that I thought were pretty, but I didn't have a hard drive to get with one. Also in those days I didn't know much about how hard life can be!

[cth2284]

Yes the problem people ignore the commitment for sex only

[syncheart]

I'm not going to argue with that. But I'm not around enough people to worry about it.

[cth2284]

They don't want to build anything serious or meaningful

[cth2284]

Yea so women like me are just out this arena is dangerous and risky

[syncheart]

I am having trouble building any kind of friendship with anyone. But I've had this problem my entire life! These days I just think I have a personality disorder that repels people. But then again, the only people I'm around is for a very short time at work.

[cth2284]

I'm safer around wonen where I don't have too keep getting harassed for sex

[syncheart]

I'm attracted to women but I don't feel safe around them. lol

[cth2284]

Women aren't unalivimg men and raping / SA men it's men doing this

[syncheart]

I speak from my own negative experiences.

[syncheart]

Personally I do not know any man who rapes etc. But I do work at a place that has about 50 women employed and only 7 guys. Those ladies have caused me emotional pain. That is what I know, and that is what I report. Everyone here has their own story to tell.

[cth2284]

Yes everyone story isn't the same... majority of guys aren't men they're males and out here doing this

[LiamJHayden]

Being single is better than being in a mediocre relationship, but I'd prefer a good relationship to being single.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Makes life simple, so for now, yes.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I was content single.

[1073sucks]

of course not.

[Jmmmfi4]

Not content but used to it

[Maddy2002_]

I am content.

[shortster]

Nope