Am I right for ghosting her?

[Anonymous]

So I decided to talk one day on Reddit because I was so bored. And I ended up becoming friends with some girl in a nearby state. Anyways, she was nice, but she was super needy. Anyways, she got so pissed at me for not talking to her in three days. But keep in mind, I left her a message that said I’m so busy with work and life. So I started talking to her again, and she started treating me like shit. She then told me that saw that I posted on Reddit, and not texting her. And apparently that’s why she was so mean to me. And it freaked me out. Like why did she stalk me? I don’t want to be anywhere near a person like that. I feel bad because she was so nice to me. And she liked me so much too…. I know ghosting is wrong, but she freaked me out.

[Bethany22]

She needs to learn not to show her jealousy. I understand her wanting to stalk you, though. I mean, considering the two of you haven't met yet, the internet is her only way of finding out more about you. Probably if the two of you had met in person, and you answered every question she asked you, her interest in stalking you would go down (and possibly her attraction as well, but hopefully not). I don't know why women get so upset about no contact for three days, but most women do get upset about that. So the likelihood of dating another girl like her is pretty high. Therefore, your reasons for ghosting her aren't good enough, as you'll eventually run out of women to date. In the future, if you ever have to not contact a girl for a little while, tell her that although you might still have time to post on social media, you're engaging in activities other than her in order to have the opportunity to miss her, and you can tell her to use that absence to also reflect on whether she actually even really likes YOU or not.

[devilish-cutie]

ghostng is really bad and you dont get involved with people without thinking how would you actions affect their feelings, if you are not feeling her break it off and tell her so instead of ghosting. doesn't mean she is a bad person, she might just be really into you and 3 days can be a lot to some people, cause we all have out bad experiences that can trigger us. If you like her give her a proper chance, if you dont break it off in decent way.