If a man or woman that you were interested in described you as kind, or nice, would you be flattered by that?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

People seem to be discouraged for some reason when they get called "nice, and kind" by someone., especially someone they are interested in

If we don't actually talk like that, and that was their first impression of me, or their assumption of me, yeah

Yes, as long as that isn't the only thing they say, if they say they think i'm true to myself, smart, funny stuff like that as well

Not really

Of course, I would be

If we don't actually talk like that, and that was their first impression of me, or their assumption of me, I might think they are sizing me up

[NathanDavis]

no... I hear those two often, so I consider it normal

and coming from someone I would be interested on, well... that is always a plus... it is a "positive review" lol

[bededazzle]

nice is nice, but not nearly enough for someone to date you :(

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Yeah, but I don't necessarily think that means they don't want to, because they said that. I mean, some people aren't gonna tell you everything they like about you, or maybe they don't know well enough to say much more than that. Just my thoughts

[bededazzle]

You're totally right. I am being a sadsack. It's just girls I've liked have called me nice as part of their rejection so many times. Of course it's a wonderful thing to say. For me, these days, actions mean more though. She shows up to something I want to do? Now we're talking :)

[Anonymous]

Why? She might as well as said you're as vanilla as ice cream.