What makes a man to finally decide to marry a woman?

Question

Most men I have been interacting with (who are in their 30s) are into keeping it "casual" which is kinda frustrating, so it makes me wonder what makes a man to finally decide to marry a woman.

FYI I'm a 29 year old woman

DextroShade · Accepted Answer

Just as women will sleep with some guys and put others in the friend-zone, men also categorize women into either potential wives or recreational use only. If you want a man to put you in that first category here is what I recommend: Be fit: have a flat stomach Be feminine: don't have short or brightly-dyed hair, tattoos, or piercings other than earrings  Be friendly: don't be a bitch, don't nag him, don't play stupid games, know when you are annoying him and try not to Be submissive: let the man lead and do what he asks you to do within reason even if you don't necessarily feel like it Be cooperative: add value to his life wherever you can by cooking for him, cleaning his place, helping with his purpose if you can Don't be a hoe: keep your body count low, never engage in any form of sex work including OnlyFans, don't post pictures of yourself in skimpy outfits, in exotic locations, yachts, or supercars that we know a dude was paying for, and most importantly don't have kids out of wedlock Don't be a feminist or woke as guys see that as a huge liability, put him before your career

BoopBoopBeep · Accepted Answer

I'd gladly marry a woman who brought enough to the table. You don't cook? So I'm cooking literally every meal until the stars burn out? Nope, pass. Basic life skill. Want to immerse yourself 80 hours a week so you can climb the ladder in your job? Nope. I can be alone without you and have more time for sex, to be quite honest. Have no concept of money and think 200k is average? Haha, let me see your tax filings for last year. If the only conversation you can have is who which celebrity is dating and your long term goal is to be an influencer, we're just not going to have a lot in common.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

My boyfriend said to me a few months ago that there is no point in us getting married as I'm like, his wife already! Then he mentioned my mental health being bad and that I can't have a big wedding that I want.

Just things like that. I do want to get married, but I honestly think he doesn't. Instead of an engagement ring for Christmas, he is buying me a mini hoover. And himself more bb guns, computer upgrade etc. 😭😂

P. s - Dw lol, my plan is to get more confidence again and save up loads of money and then go bye-bye💃

LazerBean · Accepted Answer

A man knows within 6 months if he wants to be in a serious relationship with you. If he's still casual after 6 months, you're just his sex toy until he meets someone he really wants. What makes a man want to marry a woman is different for different men, depending on their genetics and quality of upbringing.

Married_mature · Answer

That's a tough question. The important thing for a man to accept and admit is if he wants to marry at all. Sex is 30s is more of a need, so you need a partner for that. But that doesn't mean you want to marry them. Marriage is different. You live with the person. You don't live alone anymore and some people may find it difficult to adjust. Most men want to keep it casual, because they don't want to leave their single life. With women, it's more Ankit security and they want to get married by the time they reach 30. But again, it's about realisation if you want to get married or not.

JacobJordan · Answer

when the woman displays wife qualities. thing is most women have a mantra they love to spout to make up for there poor relationship qualities "don't be a wife to a boyfriend" then they wonder why they never get a ring. getting a ring is the pay for passing the wife interview. the wife interview takes place during the boyfriend/girlfriend stage. same reason why boyfriends need to show husband qualities. if women want to be married they need to show they are worth marrying and that means they gotta show they can be a wife

mateynine · Answer

I'll speak from my own perspective even though it may not apply to every guy but here are things I would look from a girl when considering marriage.

• Similar long term goals.

• Similar political and religious views.

• Agreeableness - you could be absolutely everything I'm looking for on paper but if you're not pleasant to be around and start unnecessary conflict then I won't feel bad about dumping you.

• Reciprocated effort - part of appreciating someone is when they do things for you. I'm not suggesting you should be a doormat... rather if I'm putting effort into you and you're not reciprocating then I'm not going to want to marry you.

• A good past - this can be all sorts of things ranging from drug use, scandalous behavior, or debt, but if you have a bad track record from your past I'm less likely to want to marry you.

molonski2 · Answer

I think its a timing issue , not wanting the single life anymore , maybe considering children and career , and they feel that particular woman is perfect for them , back in the day , I married at 28 , but my wife was pregnant , thats not a good reason , although I did really want to be a father.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Us, I think. We do. By being a good partner. With all those divorces and failed relationships, you have to show him that you two can work as a team.

And if he wants kids and would be happy to have you as the mother of his kids, I think you are nearly there.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Nothing.

Either he wants to keep it casual, or he wants marriage.

Those are different types of guys, not the same type of guy in different life phases.

I always wanted marriage/monogamy, casual sex is for idiots.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

I want only a serious relationship with a woman because it means that i'm going to marry her if thinks works out just fine with us, when i feel ready, we will decide and make a date for our marriage, in the end, i won't be in a relationship with a girl if i'm not aiming to marry her...

LiamJHayden · Answer

If the guy wants to marry, finding "The One" or more accurately just "One" who fits what he seeks. But the reality is a lot of guys have no interest in marrying, whether from the horror stories of divorce or first hand experience with family courts or just fear of losing their "freedom."

KonkeyDong · Answer

For me, I'm dead-set on Commitment. I want to marry for sure. What needs to happen is to find a Girl someday and find what makes her "Her", and if she's compatible.

I guess Men differ from one another, some decide early, others decide during the dating.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

What is the gain for a guy to marry you? Know your value, and the problem should disappear.

Anonymous · Answer

It's not a DECISION for starters.

Guys don't just decide to marry a woman. They meet a woman that they simply don't want any other women afterwards. That's typically how they know. Most of my married guy friends have told me they knew she was different. They knew something was going to happen with her. Either they were going to end up marrying her or murdering her.😆

exitseven · Answer

I was engaged to somebody else before I met my wife and she was engaged to some other guy before we met. We both agreed that we should get married. I did not even really propose to her. We both just knew how it was going to turn out.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

I’m not sure. I’ve always been marriage minded. But even I have to ask myself why. Men don’t get anything out of marriage that they can get without all the legal tape.

Anemone978 · Answer

No idea.. I can't even get a guy to like me..  I think my husband only married me because I was naive and lost my virginity to him..

u7u7u7u7 · Answer

Motherhood. If he see motherhood that the biggest sign that can convince him to marry you. You may ask how he can see motherhood in a single woman. By caring for him just like you care about your potential kids.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Just a woman he gravitates to.. A woman he respects.. Usually men know the woman they wanna stick with not to long after meeting her..

zagor · Answer

If she is attractive, smart, fun to be with, kind, that helps. Though I've known some real battleaxes who got married.

HaveNoName · Answer

In my case, that was rhe only way to be in a relationship and there is a right time for everything, so I did it.

AngryCarl2 · Answer

Either pregnancy, or constant nagging. If the tap keeps dripping long enough, eventually someone will fix it.

Anonymous · Answer

It takes a lot more today than it did in the past, because marriage has become a dangerous and relatively unrewarding proposition for men.

MikeyObrien · Answer

If she is someone he can imagine having children with.

Likes2drive · Answer

I guess when he realizes she is the right fit for his life with everything he needs

cuddlebear1 · Answer

most people in general decide to marry when they are done with all things such as flirting, hooking up, dating, platonic friendships.

Anonymous · Answer

Have you ever had a boyfriend or first love?

Texaskid1 · Answer

Watching too many Disney movies.

Nifrayu · Answer

It's just a matter of falling in love.

jahaims · Answer

When she has the sames morals, values and goals.

Boomchakalaca · Answer

Barracks

captain_voidwalker · Answer

One of 2 things either stupidity or insanity

Chthou95 · Answer

Why would a man want to get married?

Tim2nice · Answer

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