Whats is the reason why a man has a wife, even if he wants to get married?

[palwasha77]

[Summeroflove]

Well a lot of people don’t know what to look for in a marriage that’s why most fail…. It’s not even always getting involved with dark personalities but that is a big one.

A lot of people are looking at superficial standards drilled into them, outdated traditions, as well as modern day dumb shit like feminism are all problems. A real marriage is a partnership between two people. A real marriage is a deep bond and connection with one another.

But so many people sleep around so much that they become so addicted to that next thrill that soon as they get bored with their partner they start cheating. Some people who aren’t narcissistic feel horrible at least for a while until they did it so many times they don’t care. But they need that next rush.

Also, people get into marriages for superficial reasons. They like the way someone looks…. But as their wife or husband ages. They loose that physical attraction. As well as just seeing them when they rolled out of bed. That also goes for men too they see them behind closed doors. People see one another’s flaws that they hid from one another so many years. Until now they live together and can’t even be themselves because they never knew one another for their true self.

They marry for money…. Social status… etc. That’s a major one that leads to a lot of affairs from either partners. There is no emotional connection so what happens when they find someone with more money? What happens when someone looses their money? That’s right divorce. As well as affairs all in between because they still want to seek that emotional connection thehre lacking.

They lack that connection with their husband or wife. So they seek it in other people. As well as when the bedroom life is stale between one another and they no longer have time for one another.

Marriages aren’t based on what they should be based on. A marriage may be different for everyone and ir should be different. People need to focus on finding THE ONE…. And not just any snake in the dirt who will be with them.

[Hellraiser1984]

Sex mostly. But he can get that other ways. Maybe companionship but very likely one or both you cheat at least once. Dogs make great companions and they won't lie cheat and steal from you. So we really don't need a constant woman in our lives. Just sex with one even you need it then forget about them.

[HelpfulWoman]

oxymoron here.

if he wants to get married, then an option depending on his sexuality would be having a wife. what the fuck you asking?

[Anonymous]

I could not understand the situation. The man has a wife and wants to marry again, a second wife? I couldn't figure out what you were asking.

Or would the question be "even though he didn't want to get married"?

[Lliam]

To have a best friend and partner to go through life with. A help mate and lover. Someone who truly cares for him.

[molonski2]

What is he looking for?

Teamwork , Stability , functionality , Sexuality.

[andreasderjuengere]

The reason is...

... he does not know yet that he's already married?

[genericname85]

i don't understand the question. if he has a wife, he already is married by definition.

[GAGsucksballs89170]

Financial benefits, basically. Otherwise, there's no point

[jahaims]

Different people get married for different reasons

[In_Trance]

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