Does it mean a woman is not good enough or there's something lacking in her when a man decides to keep it "casual"?

[Anonymous]

For context, im in my late 20s looking for a man who wants something serious with me and eventually settle down. I have no history of physical relationship with men (by choice) and so far the men I have interacted with were more into keeping it"casual" with me which made me think does mean I am not good enough? Or there's something lacking in me?

[Billlewis]

Men are inherently very selfish and uncaring, and if you want to get your boyfriend to the altar, you must use the leverage of his being in a relationship with you to induce him to marry you. Set a deadline for the wedding, and if it isn't met, break off contact with him until things start moving.

[IslaTheWitch]

No one here can answer the question if you are lacking something.

But any relationship is about taking and giving. So think what you expect your man to bring to the table and what it is you are bringing.

And please, your body is not a value here (I'm sure some people will disagree :D ). Or your choices. But your intellect, hobbies, occupation, skills.

Because you'll have to talk, negotiate and align with your man, to create working relationship, so think long term.

[devilish-cutie]

it has nothing to do with you but them, they are that way, some people are relationship type loyal, some are casual and really it has nothing to do with you

[Anonymous]

No, I think you are just meeting the wrong type of men.