He said I’m hard work, what does this mean?

[Anonymous]

Me and a guy I have known years at work, have recently started dating. We recently had a minor argument (I started it for reasons I felt was valid) anyway, it didn’t blew over smoothly and we worked things out without a big deal made, but he mentioned I am hard work. What actually does this mean coming from a man?

[Tim2nice]

Men like peace and you obviously don’t offer that

[spartan55]

It means you are a pain in the ass.

[Asker]

Is that a bad thing if he likes me 🤣

[spartan55]

It's never a good thing.

[Asker]

Damn 😂

[Asker]

I guess if he thinks I’m worth the effort he’ll stick around. He says I go mad over minor stuff 🙄

[spartan55]

Do you?

[Asker]

I think I’m worth it haha

[spartan55]

Why is that?

[spartan55]

He will have enough at some point.

[Asker]

Becus I hope he loves me, and love should be enough :) he knows how to deal with me if I’m being difficult. Nothing easy is worth it :)

[spartan55]

Spoken like a young person. So something has to be difficult in order to be worth it? Really?

[Asker]

Luckily he’s not as miserable as you. I guess miserable people can’t tKe much

[spartan55]

Who says I'm miserable?

[AndreaH]

You stress him out